I don't want sex as much as I really want to wake up with a woman with me instead of the same old boring stuff as always.
How do you ask so you don't come across as just wanting to get laid.
2006-12-26 07:16:36 · 23 answers · asked by Kris 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Great question. I have the answer. Always remember...it's not what you say....it's what you don't say. There are literally thousands of things you can say to turn a girl off. There is no one thing you can say to turn her on. Be there. Be polite. Be respectful. Make her feel beautiful. Don't push it.
2006-12-26 07:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by The Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seriously cant convince me you dont want to get laid, good luck convincing her the same. I am a man and I know this is possible, I had a gf sleep over one time i wasnt so sure about her yet myself...but that was one time, I still dont know what I was thinking even looking back on it.
Be prepared to experience blue balls. Its real. Heck I'd go on myth busters to prove it if they paid me good enough to do so. One experience in a lifetime is enough.
Go ahead and sleep with your gf without doing anything. Then you will realize why this is just a can't do situation and you are better to slumber alone. If you're not in pain for two days after sleeping with her and not doing anything then go find more girls to sleep with plutonically until you find one that does have this effect. I think that will be a good indicator of a good chemical fit to the other person. If she really turns you on, you will be left without a shred of a doubt and you may have a very healthy sex life with that partner.
2006-12-26 07:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you tell her that you'd like to wake up next to her. She may want the same thing. If she seems hesitant, explain that it's not a matter of 'getting in her pants' but that you miss the closeness of a woman in the mornings. Then accomodate her anyway possible by offering her a pair of shorts and t-shirt to sleep in and you sleep in more than your underwear (unless she signals you otherwise and perfers that you sleep in less). You sound like a pretty cool dude--lucky woman. Good Luck
2006-12-26 07:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in sleeping with someone before marriage. I don't think it's a smart idea if you're going to do something you will regret. My uncle did and he got his partner pregnate. He just thought he was going to have her "spend the night."
If you want her to spend the night badly, take her out, bring her back to your house around 12 A.M, watch some T.V and hang out. Ask her if she's tired. Tell her that she can spend the night with you. When you just want her to sleep over, 8 out of 10 times it doesn't turn out that way.
Be smart and don't something you'll regret. I strongly suggest you don't sleep with a woman (or anyone depending on your orientation(sp.?) before marriage.
But I answered your question on how you can have her spend the night.
Hope I helped you.
2006-12-26 12:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by NICOLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is there's no good way to say this. She's going to think that you want more than that- any woman would. Is it really that important that you would risk losing her trust by asking? You should maybe Wait until she shows signs that she's ready to move forward. It's not really that bad waking up alone.
2006-12-26 07:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking a woman to stay over night will absolutely make her believe you want sex. You're better off sitting and talking until the sun comes up.
2006-12-26 07:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by gold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I know this is going to sound a little wierd, but I would really like to wake up next to someone I care about in the morning. Would you do me the honor of being that woman? I dont want sex, I just want comanionship." LOL. See how silly that sounds?
2006-12-26 07:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by Rick R 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't ask...I would just set the mood. Maybe have her over for dinner, then maybe a glass of wine (or what ever you drink), get a movie...snuggle on the couch with a blanket. You could even lay down with her infront of you. Then if it feels right and you think she would dig it...you could mention how nice it is to be laying there and that you could fall asleep. See where it goes from there. If nothing else you two can rest on the couch together who knows she might fall asleep also.
2006-12-26 07:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by ~Just A Girl~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Couldn't tell you because every time I asked a girl to spend the night, I planned on getting laid.
2006-12-26 07:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you can't tell her that you just want to sleep next to her because that's like the oldest trick in the book.
what you'll need to do is gain a woman's trust. you might be able to do this over a series of dates or possibly an intial meeting depending on how suave you are.
once you gain that trust, invite her over for a non-contact sleep over. sell it like a slumber party.
2006-12-26 07:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋