2006-12-26 07:32:14 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Make some noise.
Move.
Initiate.
Wear something cute.
Watch an adult film you both can agree on.
Do what you see.
Chocolate sauce made just for licking (adult toy store).
New positions (the book 'Kama Sutra' is quite a journey)
New acts - massage his back with oil, then flip him over and ride him like a rented mule.
Wear just jewelry and high heels. Keep them on during.
Fondle lick caress suck new areas.
Slow dance first, then extended foreplay.
Wine, candles, smooth jazz, spiced incense, lots of making out and oral.
Diana Krall concert @ Hollywood Bowl, wine, cheese, necking, then home to f*ck like hungry tigers.
New locations: couch, kitchen, car, movie theater (baseball stadium is a bad idea).
Small amounts of chocolate whipped cream.
Strawberry-kiwi lube and a nice new dildo.
And so on.
2006-12-26 07:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Contrary to popular belief - more than one woman in bed is NOT a fantasy for every man and can be more of a turn off than turn on.
The key to spicing things up in the bedroom is simple communication. Talk to each other. Who isn't satisfied? you or him?
But if talking doesn't work think about this. A man wants 4 women, a mother, a friend, a wife and a s1ut. now having sex with a mother - eh, not so great, sex with a friend is exciting because it is a rarity, sex with your wife is nice because you are comfortable, but sex with a s1ut - now that is something to talk to your friends with.
Role play, meet at a bar after work, and pretend that you don't know each other - you play the "dirty girl" and just let things go. Make him "work" for you. Maybe rent a hotel room and pretend it is your house (so you don't go home and spoil the mood).
2006-12-26 07:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Role play!! each of you sit and right out a script of your wildest fantasy with the option of not having to do it.. This will make both of you right down things that you might not write knowing that your spouse has to do it...
Trade and then do it...Don't get upset at all no matter what is on the paper...You never know you might find your self enjoying things you never thought possible...
Also they have DVD's you can get that are like classes.How to suck a dick or how to lick pussy etc... and even though you know how it can't hurt to learn new techniques and get worked on for that long...
If you don't use toys then you should try them....Some make you have feelings that you never thought you could. This will also teach you more about your body..Exploring what your body can do and all the different feelings it can have is outstanding!!!
Don't talk about everything you want to do just do it...If you don't get real freaky and you heard or thought of something freaky don't ask your partner if he/she wants to just do it and surprise that will also make it better, the not knowing the feeling is about to come...Be patient b/c if you are with a partner that is not comfortable you must do everything you can to make your partner feel extremely comfortable before he/she can enjoy it to its fullest potential!
2006-12-26 07:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TERRIBLE question!!!!!! No married woman should ever try to spice things up in the bedroom for hubby. Spicing things up for BOTH of you is great, but not just for hubby. LOL I suggest you avoid most common explosives, but with that restriction, let your minds get a little crazy. Grease up the parallel bars, mount the handlebars on the headboard, and ride. Being married doesn't mean boring.
2006-12-26 08:16:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are several plans you can use:
1.) Wear a really sexy negligee and make sure a lot of wine or champagne is involved.
2.) Give him a lap-dance to his favorite songs.
3.) Try new and/or unusual sexual positions (reading Cosmo should help you with ideas)
4.) If you REALLY wanna go off the grid, get another woman (preferable young, blond, and hot) to join you in a ménage à trois.
2006-12-26 07:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by hottie_spaniard 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are a lot of ways. Toys, lotions, role playing, etc....I don't know exactly what you are looking for, but that would probably set some wheels in motion. There is just a lot of information out there if you know where to look!!
2006-12-26 07:36:28 · answer #6 · answered by bryan c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
till now you get all warm and heavy upload alot greater foreplay into the blend no longer basically occurring on one yet another yet passionate kissing, exploring your companions physique with your palms lips and tongue, complete physique massages stuff like that on suitable of him occurring on you. and to help him final longer so which you will spice issues up precise till now he is going to *** have him permit you be attentive to and take a ten 2nd injury so he can regain his nerve (so it would not kill the flow flow returned to kissing and function him kiss and suck and nibble on your chest to maintain you going), additionally whilst he's thrusting have him grind and stay deep interior of you because maximum of our nerve endings are on the tip it wont be as stimulating for him so he will final longer, additionally condoms take alot of leisure away and could help with the difficulty as properly.
2016-10-28 10:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by doti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I love to give back massages to each other all week long. We take turns - I give him one, then the next evening he gives me one. It is so very relaxing and romantic at the same time. We love it - it makes us both feel treasured and taken care of.
2006-12-26 07:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well... I've always said.
First you have to know your body, before you can teach anyone else about it. So I'd say, find your sexiest fantasy and SOCK it to HIM! I'm sure he'd greatly love anything that comes to your imagination, and that you included him in that fantasy!
Good LUCK girlie!!
2006-12-26 07:40:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lo Lo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking him what kinds of things he would like first. Then try toys, food, moresomes, role-playing, lingerie, new positions, new places, porn and other little tricks that could help make things more interesting.
2006-12-26 07:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋