Hi, I need some Advice or help if i can get any!! well I broke up with my ex-boyfriend about 3 days ago, and i CANT keep him out of my mind!!! i love him so much but i know that he is not the right one for me he does not treat me right so i would love to know what i should to in order for me to forget about him!! please dont tell me to date other guys because i cant do that right now! im very religious and also very cultural and please dont tell me to go out because i dont go out at all my parents are strick because they are muslim so please give me some advice!!! by the way this is our 100000 time that we have broken up and i keep accepting him back.. but i dont want to do that anymore but i dont know how to control my minddd please please please helpp i am very stressed out thanks
2006-12-26 07:13:35 · 7 answers · asked by nasreen682002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What I suggest to do is to keep very busy like go out to shop with friends or family, work and yeah if the relationship is rocky right now, then its going to crack soon, better to get out early before that happens and you get really hurt going out helps littlebecause you will be with people who truly care about you. It may take awhile for you to get back into a routine after being in one for soo long, believe me i know I've been there, cut ties with anyone you know tat talks or knows him that might bring him up to you, just live and you'll be ok good luck
2006-12-26 07:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by Summer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby its very natural to still think about him its only been 3 days. And if you said that you know he's not right for you then don't take him back if he tries. Sometimes we accept things because we're used to it. Let him go and take some time. Get into church and just keep busy find a hobby like reading books, sewing, cooking (just don't eat all of what you cook) I had a bf for 4 yrs and we broke up 2 yrs ago and I still think about him every now and then. I can't help it we grew up together. Your not supposed to forget It might take you some months to get over him but look at it this way you wont be going into the new year with a bunch of baggage.
2016-05-23 08:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going through same situation right now. Its hard.try to think about your family ,people in your family that love you. Try to spend more time with them or you can spend this time trying to connect to God. Keep your mind busy with something it will help ease out the pain that you go throught every time you think about that person. Thats all I can say & time is a big healer. I am sure you dont need another boyfriend to forget him. I hope you feel better. Just let it out or share it with a friend if you have one who knows about it.It will help.
2006-12-26 07:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by rsus1230 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well you are just now going into the breaking up phase. If you want to forget him, you won't. You WILL get over him. Read, watch movies, workout, find YOU. You are just used to being with him, it will get better. When you think about getting back with him also remember everything he's done to you to make you not want to be with him. DON'T FORGET AND DON'T GO BACK TO IT!
2006-12-26 07:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by not2bright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give your self time. It just doesnot go away in a few days. YOu no what you want stick to it. The right guy will come a long. Do stuff for your self. Give yourself time to heal.
2006-12-26 07:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably knew the first time you broke up that he wasn't the one because he started to emotionnally abuse you.but you kept going back over and over because he knew how to get you to come back.
he is now a habit and you probably do love him but he does not love you back.
stick to your guns.it will get easier as time goes by.don't go back because each time it's harder to get away.
one day you will remember the good times and smile but you will also remember the bad times and why you decided to finally break it off for good.
next time you meet someone don't let it get to this point.as soon as your gut tells you it's not rifght,leave.
2006-12-26 07:26:31 · answer #6 · answered by freebird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time...And move on start dateing and meeting new people..
2006-12-26 07:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋