Do they ever go out with another girl to make that ex jealous? DO THEY REGRET? i hav situation. My ex is going out with a girl on my team 9 days after he met her after i talked 2 him about her. One of the reasons he broke up with me was i was too quiet with him. I showed him im not anymore but shes 100000000x quieter than me and is just plain awkward. He started going after her the day after i told him i wanted to be friends even tho i wanted more. GUYS= CONFUSING
2006-12-26 07:11:53 · 18 answers · asked by sugarbaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe he is spreading his wings and his ego was hurt. He doesn't want her but she was convenient. He is still experimenting in life and YES guys do get back with their ex's. I took my wife to the state fair in 1979. I didn't know she was 16 and I was 20 so I told her I liked her but she was too young. 5 years later we met again and she has been the light of my life. People play games sometimes and get burnt, tell this rascal that he either drops the girl and gets back in your arms or he will be destined to play these baby games a long time. Love is no respecter of persons, it just isn't. If it's meant to be it will be, if not there are 1000's of guys that would love to show you what they know and one might even show you true love!!!~
2006-12-26 07:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by John A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Courtney - Let me tell you the truth about men: we're not confusing. It's VERY easy to read a man. Rule #1: When in doubt, assume the man either wants sex, is thinking about sex, or he has just had sex, wants to rest so he can gather his strength in case another opportunity for sex comes up (like, say, in 20 minutes or so). Rule #2: If a man says he doesn't want to be with you anymore, then it's always because of sex: either he's tired of sex with you, or he feels he can get sex from someone else easier, or just feels like having sex and you're not available. Rule #3: a man will always get back together with his ex, as long as it's just for sex and nothing else.
Friends? Quiet? Not quiet enough? etc. All of those things are irrelevant. Just ask yourself about whether your sex life was good/great/non-existent. I'll give you a clue to the answer and I don't even know you: It could have been any of those choices IF the other person was new to him and he knew he could have sex with her.
2006-12-26 07:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by mjatthebeeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a girl when I was 16. We dated throughout the summer. I fell in love and so did she. One day she broke up with me. Later I heard it was peer pressure. Apparently they didn't like her dating a non-local.
Anyway, we're adults now. She lives in Ohio, I live in Southern CA. She has 7 kids and a lazy husband. I have been married twice. Even now my marriage is a tough ride sometimes. I know it would have been perfect with her. She knew me so well. She inspired me to write and be confident in my self. I truly believed in magic around her.
Now we keep in touch and support one another. We talked about getting together, but we didn't want to devalue ourselves that way. We respect each other way too much for that. So we remain friends and first true loves.
Think I don't constantly want to go back and change my life? What would I do? I would fight for her. I'd be a knight in shining armor rescuing her from the kingdom of the evil king. I would ride in, pick her up, and ride away spearing anyone in my way. My love? I would die for her, I would kill for her. Even now is my greatest sacrifice. I must live without her.
Do guys ever regret . . . only if they love and are foolish enough to let that love get away.
2006-12-26 07:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it actual relies upon on why you broke up and how each and each and every of you has replaced. My husband and that i broke up for approximately 6 months quite early on into our relationship. in the time of that aspect with both did countless growing to be up and we both say it became the perfect problem to happen to our relationship and we are of route happy we tried lower back in the different case we does not have ever gotten married (mutually 10 yrs, married 3). previously dealing with with it basically imagine it over to ascertain the guy is really nicely worth it and also you at the instantaneous are not getting decrease back with him basically because you're lonely. Have a lengthy communicate about why you broke up and what you anticipate from one yet another in case you try lower back. If that is going nicely you'll have a more desirable chance the subsequent time round, yet basically undergo in concepts that it already did not exercising consultation once so the 2d time would not both.
2016-10-16 21:42:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I broke up with my guy because he was being a jerk and taking me for granted. I stood in front of him several times and asked him to stop all of this and fix things with me. He refused and broke my heart. I heard through a mutual friend that he wishes he could go back and do it all over again. But, he hurt me so bad I'll never give him the opportunity to do that again and he knows it. He's with another girl now. Our friend said that he's happy, but not like he was with me. He didn't realize what he had with me until it was gone. I agree that guys are confusing. He had it all with me and threw it all away. Why?
2006-12-26 07:26:28 · answer #5 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told him you just wanted to be friends, why shouldnt he pursue someone else. As for your question. Yes, I regret breaking up with a girlfriend. She is the best thing that ever happened to me. She was great. But the problem was I was unnapreciative to her. We split up, got back together, split up again. Now we talk on the phone and we both have said that if we lived near each other, she would leave her boyfriend and we would get back together. She lives in florida, I live in georgia.
2006-12-26 07:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by Rick R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told him you just wanted to be friends and now who is the confusing one? There is a good reason he left you.... your to much work. Call him up and offer him some of what we all want...... he will come back.
2006-12-26 07:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has moved on, he told you that you were to quiet. Accept it. And maybe this girl he is seeing is different around him. You don't know, so I wouldn't be quick to judge their relationship. You sound like you are the one who is confusing and or confused. You sent him to many mixed signals......you snooze you lose......move on their are plenty of other fish in the sea. Good-luck.
2006-12-26 07:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh....guys are confusing?
Aren't you the one that told him you wanted to be friends even though you wanted more?
It's possible that he's dating her just to make you jealous.....but chances are he's dating her because he likes her, for one reason or another.
2006-12-26 07:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by Barrett G 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
F-him find someone that likes u for u he is out there HAVE A HAPPY NEW YEAR LATER LV OUT
2006-12-26 07:15:30 · answer #10 · answered by LVTHEPLUMBER 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋