My bestfriend in the whole wide world is going out with the guy I LIKE, i have liked him for 7 months, were good friends also, the guy i mean, and she started liking him 4 days before he asked her out!! I really want to split them up, i know that she does not really love him, its a crush, and he has taken over her house! everytime i try to talk to her she always starts talking about him! ARGHH its driving me INSANE
2006-12-26 07:04:37 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sorry if i didnt put in that much details, i left some stuff out HE WAS DARED TO ASK HER OUT!!!! AND HE KNOWS I LIKE HIM! he saids it to me all the time and is always hugging me and stuff, he does not do that to her and i dont care WHAT any of you say because i just thought of a way to break them up and its going to happen this friday at a party we are all going to and thats that! deal with it. oh and yes, i am evil i have been told that before, and i dont dout it.
2006-12-26 07:19:17 · update #1
and how do you know she doesn't love him???
leave them alone! stop interfering!
2006-12-26 07:07:00 · answer #1 · answered by Yulia 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
How about you get a life. If you knew him seven months and he never made a pass at you but asked her out after 4 days ding ding dummy he don't want you like that. And your just jealous. Instead of you being jealous of your so call bff (best friend forever) try being happy for her. Look for someone that you can talk about all the time to her. But don't be a hater because whats done in the dark always comes to light and if she finds out that you tried to break them up she is gonna break up with you and you wont be friends anymore so whats more important. Having your best friend even if you have a crush on her man or, loosing your best friend and not getting the man because he doesn't want you no way!
2006-12-26 07:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Lise 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he was interested in you, he would have asked you out 7 months ago. He didn't. So apparently he is not attracted to you the same way he is attracted to your associate. I say associate because, she is not your best friend in the whole wide world; if she was you would not be trying so hard to break her heart. A best friend would be in support of her having such a nice guy interested in her. Find something else to do with your time besides messing with someones else's.
2006-12-26 07:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by ricepat2000 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip, girl!
If you liked him for 7 months and he never wanted you for a girlfriend, you're not going to get him even if you did manage to split them up. Clearly he really wanted to be with her, not you. As soon as she showed him any interest he asked her out.
Plus, you would be doing a really crappy thing and you would not only lose your friend, you might lose ALL your friends!
You are right about one thing though: you are a little insane right now. Recognize it and don't act on it. This will pass.
Men come and men go: Best girlfriends can last forever. Be HER best friend!
2006-12-26 07:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rani 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
honey I think that your best friend has a little thing for this guy, i think that if you are best friends with her that you should not split them up because it is her time to have a boyfriend and honey there are plenty of fish in the sea. Believe me you just have a crush on him your to young to know what love is. Besides I don't think that you should let a guy come between your friendship. Hon it sounds like this guy really likes her.
2006-12-26 07:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by nonestopchick 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't try to split them up because if they really don't like each other they will break up on their own. Just deal with it for now. tell her that it bugs you and that you want her to stop talking about him so much. Just remember that you should NEVER break of a friendship over a guy. (Just thought I should say that)
2006-12-26 07:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by ~Stephie~ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You don't splt dem up if it's a crush may-b it'll bloom in2 luv. But splittin dem up only makes u look pathetic and desperate. It's not ur place to say or do anything if dey don't lik eachother they'll eventually break up. Plus if he doesn't lik u den wats da point...he won't go 2 u anyway if dey break up...ur not bein a gud friend ur supposed 2 be supportive so just remember dat.
2006-12-26 07:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by It is what it is 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Very selfish! You ought to be ashamed of yourself. With friends like you, who needs enemies. However if you must commit yourself to completing this horrible act, for the sake of answering your question, here's something that may help (if you believe enough):
http://www.everythingunderthemoon.net/spells/break-up-a-couple-1.htm
http://www.everythingunderthemoon.net/spells/break-up-a-couple-2.htm
Though I think you're a selfish, and undeserving person for even thinking about doing this. May the bird of paradise fly over and crap in your eye. Remember "The Rule of Three" - whatever you do, good or evil, will be returned threefold.
2006-12-26 07:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't split them up. Shame on you! What kind of a friend are you if you want to destroy your friends relationship for your own benefit. Not a good one. How can you call this person your best friend if you are even thinking of doing this! I hate people like you.
2006-12-26 07:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
you CANT split them up becasue of your own jealousy & insecurity, its not a game, its someones life. sit down with your 'friend' & tell her whats on your mind & that youre concerned about her & let her make her own decisions. if he has taken over HER house, what makes you think he wont do the same to you if you break them up & he goes out with you. Youll end up with a tense relationship with a guy & minus one friend......TRUST ME
2006-12-26 07:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well, wierdly enough i've been in a similar situation, only i was in your friends position. my best friend had really liked this guy for months and months but me and him started dating. initially it did piss her off but she told me that she didn't want a guy to get in the way of our friendship
now in your situation you've got to choose your friend or that guy (and remember guys come and go but good friends are hard to get) i personally think it would be wrong and really really low to split them up but its your life and your rules so its up to you.
2006-12-29 07:33:45 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋