Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

She told me " Darn it I'm too late like she wanted to see my penis and wasnt fast enough to get a glimspe as she opened the door. I thought a normal, response would have been to say I'm sorry or whoops, not DARN IT IM TOO LATE. What would you think of her and would you just brush it off like nothing was said?

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2006-12-14 06:41:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do u ever listen to music and it just makes u cry if so ..what song is it?

2006-12-14 06:41:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 06:40:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well im 18 (19 in june) and my fiance is 22.We have been together 2 years, lived together for 3months (in a kinda apartment under his mom, didnt have to pay rent, just some bills) and he had to go to basic training. Im back with my parents and in college, hes in the air force. We want to get married soon, and Hes going to be stationed in Japan, so after my next semester here is over i would go with him and start at the college out there on base. I dont have a job and dont really plan to if my college course stay the 21 to 23 hrs they have been. if im not a real full time student I would get a part time job, might even just because may need to or just want to.

are we too young to get married and go live over seas?

2006-12-14 06:39:41 · 10 answers · asked by corrick_1 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I go to college this is my second year and very few guys hit on me wether on campus or outside.. even girls don't approach me that much.. When I was younger, back in my country I used to get so many of them. Not anymore, even when I went back there fewer people approached me... I'm not fishing for compliments but I don't want stupid dissing answers either I am 5"6 about 135 pounds nice body very long straight brown hair and nice face. I do care about my appearence and I am clean. YET NOBODY HITS IN ME !! And girls don't approach me to be friends.. when I talk to guys they like it and stick there but if I don't they don't approach me . Why ?? I am not an intimidating person.. What's wrong?

2006-12-14 06:39:24 · 10 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Friends

We've got really close over these last three months and I think he feels the same way, because his face always lights up when I see him, our eyes always meet, and the other day my fingers were really cold and so he spent a whole 30 minute bus journey holding my hands to get them warm. Now it's three days left until the start of the hols, and I'm dreading not being able to see him everyday. Should I tell him how I feel, and if so, how???
Please help, it's driving me crazy and I can't stop thinking about him!

2006-12-14 06:38:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is that why they all have AIDS???

2006-12-14 06:38:18 · 8 answers · asked by Guy you Love to Hate 1 in Singles & Dating

The girl and i met 5 months ago on a chat line we were soposed to meet but she got cold feet. Well i got upset and hung up on her the last words i said to her was so thats how u want it??I realy miss her and i love her so what do i do ?? should i give up? ive been texting her at night and writing her letters i dont even know if shes reading the letters ?? Im asking girls what do you think should i give up on her, or keep trying. sighned hopeless in ny

2006-12-14 06:38:05 · 8 answers · asked by tom d 1 in Singles & Dating

What is it about the seasons that bring some memories flying back into your head? For example, when fall rolled in, it brought back some deep seeded feelings I had for someone some time back. It depressed me and left me feeling sad, angry and alone.

And, back in Spring - a certain breeze always brings back memories of days I had with someone really special and it also hurts me.

When it rains, it brings back memories of my childhood.

I find this odd, because at those times, I never paid attention to the weather. I never paid attention to how hot or cold it was.

My question is, why is it that certain things that happen - certain weather or even certain places bring back memories that can either make you feel happy.. or break your heart all over again.

Has anyone else experienced this?

2006-12-14 06:36:34 · 11 answers · asked by Chrissie 3 in Singles & Dating

"Any (honest) man will tell you, the whole point of being in a relationship is getting sex on the regular.. If you cut that off, honestly what's the point?"

That makes me really sad. I would rather be single
and celibate the rest of my life than be with someone
who only wanted that from me.

no thank you.

2006-12-14 06:36:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok she is not a bad person and she loves me but she is a control freak everything has to be according to her and wen she is angry she can be very nasty and is mostly impossible she says hurtfull things and is at times very mean how do i make her realise that i am an individual and will do things the way i want to and i have a mind of my own i dont like fighting with her but i cant take it now and there is no way i can move out

2006-12-14 06:35:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom and dad are getting a divorce and my dads girlfriend thinks she knows how to be a mom but she doesn't have any kids
she lives with me and thinks that its okay to yell at me all the time. my dad doesn't do anything about it because she lies to him and tells him that she didn't yell at me or my brother. my dad believes her over his own kids. Is that right or should he listen to his kids adn make her leave?

2006-12-14 06:35:00 · 22 answers · asked by Lindsey C 1 in Family

2006-12-14 06:34:27 · 20 answers · asked by stubbyc82000 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 06:34:01 · 5 answers · asked by craig m 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 06:33:31 · 17 answers · asked by ~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 06:32:37 · 17 answers · asked by sexy3590 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so me and my hubby have been married for only a month. I hardly ever see him bacause he is a police officer and during the Holiday's he gets as much Over Time as possible. On an average week we sleep together about 3 times. So i really want to make a nice romantic dinner for him. To show that i really do apprciate him working so much for us. So i need ideas to start this romantic dinner/night. Have any ideas?

2006-12-14 06:32:17 · 7 answers · asked by Tookey11 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 06:32:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this girl for almost a year and a half. She is 20 I am 22. She had dated a lot of bad guys prior to me, so she was so happy when we first started our relationship. Everything was going great until about two weeks ago when she thought my feelings for her had changed (which they hadn't). She said that she was confused and she wasn't sure if she saw herself in the future with me. So she wants to take a break. She said we can still talk, and see each other occasionally, but she wants to hang out with friends. I really want to get back together with her, but because she wants to talk to me less and see me less I get the feeling that she doesn't want to be with me. Is there any chance that we can turn our relationship around? What are some things I can do in order for this relationship to be great again?

2006-12-14 06:31:51 · 11 answers · asked by helpabrothaout 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf cheated on me and his lover kept lying to me about their relationship. they swear that it is over; his lover moving on to another relationship. I bent over backwards to trust them because I wanted to believe them; forgive them, and accept her in his life as a forever friend. It is an impossible task. In my heart it is over, esp. since finding internet searches for upcoming vacation, while he is supposedly working. What am I to do now? We live together. He is out of town at the moment. I don't want to be irrational, teary or screaming when he comes home to me and I confront him.

2006-12-14 06:31:50 · 5 answers · asked by asiana 1 in Singles & Dating

Dont judge me too harshly. I'm not cheating, I'm single, and they're both interested.

Guy A:
-Overacheiver. Workaholic. Obsessed with that 4.0. Comfortable wit him. He has cheated in the past when we were in a relationship. No sparks when we kiss. I was with him for 5 years though, and there's such a comfortable conection. He has a car, and money. Lives with his mother except during the school year, where he lives at college. Christian, like me.

Guy B:
Living on his own, but poor. (Not that i care about that). Absolute passion. Only 18 and will be graduated frmo college this year. Would never cheat, but also parties and drinks sometimes, which isn't my kind of scene. He said he'd change for me though, but I told him he shouldnt have to. I'm too nervous to even go out to eat with him, but there's sparks when we kiss, and utter passion. He wants whats best for me and pushes me to acheive my dreams, though im not yet as comfortale with him

HELP! guy A or guy B?

2006-12-14 06:31:36 · 16 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

2006-12-14 06:30:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But she's my first partner, but i'm about her 8th, i feel jealoys that she's got more attention than me in that way, i love her, but i feel jealous as stated, and although we love eachother i cant help but feel that i should maybe experience more girls, like she has boys and most of my peers have, can anyone offer any advice, tha would be great, thanx.

2006-12-14 06:30:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if so wot did u do?
how did confirm ur suspicions/ or not

i dont currently have this prob, but did in the past, curious as to wot otha lengths people went to find proof

2006-12-14 06:30:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just looking for answers

2006-12-14 06:30:34 · 11 answers · asked by yome 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Compare say an old girlfriend to a new girlfriend, openly to her face in an unfavourable way, ie, she didn't have to worry (the old girlfriend) everything was in the right place. What exactly are you trying to say? A man said this to me although he also says I have nothing to worry about. Please explain this perplexing scenario to me, if you understand it. I need help in deciding if he really likes me or not. What do you think?

2006-12-14 06:29:30 · 7 answers · asked by helloha06 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are intrested in making friendship with me send me an E-mail

2006-12-14 06:29:09 · 1 answers · asked by Kewl guy 3 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I (both guys) had lived in for about a year and a half when I caught him red-handed cheating on me with a girl. I slapped him, asked him to leave, but he cried, apologized , said he loved me and since that day never saw that girl again. I forgave him and rebuilt my trust in him for the next one year. Six months back he started to meet with another girl and called hit casual friendship, but I could see things getting serious. One day, he broke it to me saying he wants to end our relationship to see her since we dont have a future. I begged him not to end it like this with me, while allowing him to see the girl if he wanted, hoping that he will realize I love him a lot more and come back. Instead he broke off with me last month. It ended bitterly, with me slapping him in front of his girl. She doesnt know why I did that. He says he wants to be friends now, but I cant see him as a friend anymore. I said goodbye and he hasnt called since.Will he ever come back? I still love him.

2006-12-14 06:28:53 · 25 answers · asked by Fast C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay here is what happened. i met a lady a divorced woman of only 6 months..we clicked..great conversation..high sexual attracton to one another. she showed me attention and vice versa. we were not in an exclusive relationship with one another..we were dating others..i really am not into that but accepted it because i enjoyed speding time with her and that was the most important thing then. after 3 months which is the testing point of any new relationship in my opinion) she began to not show as much interest...being moody..blaming her feelings on her ex and the sad memories whe she would think of the divorce. i asked her if she still loved him ..she replied "no" he was the one who came to her and didn`t want her or he daughter in his life no more.
so anyways she used to call me alot and then she became distant over a three week period especially. then ignores my calls...im thinking maybe she found a new interest..but why kick me to the curb and ignore me? i thought she cared more

2006-12-14 06:28:47 · 16 answers · asked by magnum6604 2 in Singles & Dating

I have decided to leave my boyfriend. I'm taking my son and leaving and haven't told him. My reason for leaving is that he is verbally abusive to me and my son (who is only 4). I just can't take anymore. He also has a drinking problem. I grew up with an alcoholic father and I refuse to put my son in the same situation. I just don't know if I'm suposed to feel bad for not telling him I'm leaving. I just want whats best for my child and I feel that leaving is the best thing to do.

2006-12-14 06:28:19 · 24 answers · asked by Confuzed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships