"Any (honest) man will tell you, the whole point of being in a relationship is getting sex on the regular.. If you cut that off, honestly what's the point?"
That makes me really sad. I would rather be single
and celibate the rest of my life than be with someone
who only wanted that from me.
no thank you.
2006-12-14 06:36:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, I rather think one reason that I want sex is the Relationship
2006-12-14 06:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ormoz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to read in the Bible in I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter" about what love is and isn't. Love is patient and kind and seeks not its own way at the expense of others. This love is such that it would gladly give its life to save the life of another. It is this love that has kept my wife and I married for over 28 years. Maybe if you had the right kind of love, you would find the right kind of love. Maybe you have been looking for love in all the wrong places and that is why your idea of men is so warped. Try going to a Bible believing church and joining a group there. You just might find out that not all men are like your view. My wife and I have sex as an expression of our love for each other, not just because one or the other has to have it on a regular basis. This was especially true during the times we couldn't be together and then I returned home from duty again.
2006-12-14 07:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I'm sad that you feel this way. I'm an honest man and I'll tell you a relationship is not all about the sex I'd be lying if I didn't feel it was important it is but thats not a negative and maybe it is only truly important when you are young. I am only a young man and I know that it can feel hard but a relationship is about companship, love and acceptance. I know sex is often a preogative in a males thinking it is not all he needs. If sex is all your men want from you, you just gotta keep lookin, Open up your world there is so much out there for you
2006-12-15 21:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man or woman for that matter that truly believes this to be true is doomed to failure in their relationships. There are a lot of other things that make up a marriage and although sex is an important way for people to connect and to show love to each other I believe that communication, friendship, enjoying one and others companionship, family etc. far outweigh the sex in the marriage.
2006-12-14 06:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it's usually true that married people get more action than the singles, no, that's not true. Do you really think they would go through the responsibility of marriage just for that? If just having sex is so important to them, they are probably the kind that still want it from more than one person (I guess they could cheat, though, and wifee could be the good ol' standby, but I doubt it).
2006-12-14 07:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but it is a very nice feature. Cut that off and you will have big problems. If you do not enjoy sex do not get married. Most men will tell you this is not why they get married but is a big part of intamacy. If this is strange to you stay single.
To you this may be sad but it is reality.
2006-12-14 07:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's all true, girl. The good and honest men have feelings too. They need a good women next to them to share feelings that they normally won't share with anyone else. So don't worry about all men just wanting to be married because of sex.
2006-12-14 06:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by pangfvlx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would certainly hope there's more to marriage than sex. Otherwise, why are people married for 60 years: I don't supposed they're doing it regularly when they're 80...nice visual. If you'd rather be single, be single. But if you want to find a nice guy who wants someone who makes his whole life better, be patient: they're out there.
2006-12-14 06:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are sad, period. But its even sadder. Besides sex I'm sure they also have wives around to cook and clean. Dont forget that. Who wouldn't want that ? You come home from work and the food is purchased and cooked, you have clean clothes and someone even cleaned the toilet. You get to stop off for beers with the guys, go fishing/hunting/golf on the weekends, and spend the rest of your time with porn.
2006-12-14 06:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No that is not the only reason to be married...long from it.
But with the you phrased your question, you don't really have a question. It appears that you made up your mind....what's the point?
2006-12-14 06:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by I know for sure 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋