Ok, I go to college this is my second year and very few guys hit on me wether on campus or outside.. even girls don't approach me that much.. When I was younger, back in my country I used to get so many of them. Not anymore, even when I went back there fewer people approached me... I'm not fishing for compliments but I don't want stupid dissing answers either I am 5"6 about 135 pounds nice body very long straight brown hair and nice face. I do care about my appearence and I am clean. YET NOBODY HITS IN ME !! And girls don't approach me to be friends.. when I talk to guys they like it and stick there but if I don't they don't approach me . Why ?? I am not an intimidating person.. What's wrong?
2006-12-14 06:39:24 · 10 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think any girl is jealous of me I am sooo approachable-looking-girl next door
2006-12-14 07:00:36 · update #1
Maybe instead of blaming everybody else, you might want to be little more open with people and start making contact first.
2006-12-14 06:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may be that guys think you are too pretty and they are scared to talk to you, and girls feel threatened by the way you look. I havent seen you so im just going by what you have told us. Try to make eye contact with people and smile, even if you are just passing them in a hall. This may let others know that you are open to conversation. Often times I am so focused on what m doing and where im going that I dont even acknowledge people around me, hence i have the same trouble as you do. I have to make a concious effort to let others know that I am friendly. Try different things and dont be affraid to ask someone you are around on a daily basis to give you some tips since they actually see how you interact with others. Good luck!!
2006-12-14 14:51:40 · answer #2 · answered by Aubrey 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok well maybe its your personality..im not saying this in a bad way what i mean is maybe you come off snotty because you are shy or maybe your not out going..guys look for confidence and to get girlfriends they look for sweet girls and cna have fun...maybe people are jealous ofyour like the girls and maybe guys are intimidated and think your too good for them..try to socialize yourself more and in this day and age girls have to make the first move but still let the boy chase...good luck..if you want it to change you try and see if your personality drives pple away
2006-12-14 14:45:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Would like to see a picture of you. Maybe you are just intimidating (in a beautiful way). Some guys are intimidated by someone who looks as if they are so popular that they wouldn't bother to talk to you and woman can also be jealous around another beautiful girl.
2006-12-14 14:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by jarhed 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your story is my life. Always been told that I was beautiful but NO ONE ever approached me, only the ugly losers. Always had guy friends because the ladies treated me like a disease. Here's your answer...You are probably intimidating the guys with your beauty, they don't dare to approach you, afraid of rejection. The ladies are jealous and don't want the guy that their dating to "accidentally" fall in love with you. It sounds ridiculous, I use to think so too, but now that I'm older I realize that's exactly what it was. Now I'm married with 2 kids, so don't worry you'll get someone. Good luck.
2006-12-14 15:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by middelmom 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Body language!!!
Most guys do however shy away from the pretty ones if they are insecure...
and women are extremely jealous individuals...
So if you're a hottie that's probably why...
I always go to the top of the tree for my apples!!! ;o)
2006-12-14 14:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by Dave B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Might be your body language. Communication is a two-way street so maybe people might think you don't want to be disturb or talk to them. Also, you can approach people and maybe try to talk to people in your classes.
2006-12-14 14:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
SORRY ...i have the same problem...and some times people get intimidated by people from other country's...maybe that is what it is... but it gets better,,, hold on
2006-12-14 14:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by sam 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not sure what you look like as you do not have a picture posted but perhaps its your body language
2006-12-14 14:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No picture it is hard to tell. What country are you from?
2006-12-14 14:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by ballman4425 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋