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2006-12-14 06:30:34 · 11 answers · asked by yome 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ya ever heard the saying, apples and oranges. Well, you and her sister are loved in different ways. When a woman marries a man, she chooses to be with that man above all others. She would leave her family and friends and follow you to whereever you go, maybe she'd leave kicking and screaming, but she'd go because she loves you, and you are her husband. Don't ever make a woman choose between you or her family. She will always choose you, but she will resent you for making her choose, and that is not what you want. Stop being insecure, and be proud that she choose you to spend the rest of her life with. Now go give your wife a kiss, and tell her you love her!
2006-12-14 06:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife should love you in a different way than her sister. You can pick your husband , but you can not pick your family. Some family members.are jealous of you being happy. My yougest sister ran off with my now ex-husband, under the we are just friend lie. So I know love hurts. It destroyed my marriage and my family. Ask why your wife's sister doesn't have someone special in her life. She may be jealous or just lonely. Find her someone so you and your wife can share the most important love between a man and a woman.
2006-12-14 07:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A love for your husband and a love for your sister are two totally different kinds of love and feelings. If you feel your not getting the attention you deserve that is something to talk to her about. However, is she is spending a lot of time with her sister, im sure it doesnt mean she loves her more.
2006-12-14 06:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the love she has for u is different and the love she has for her sister is different. Try to understand her and show her u love her.
Best wishes
2006-12-14 06:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think family comes first so her sister. She's known her sister longer and it's just a family thing. But she shouldn't be neglecting you because of her sister. There should be a balance.
2006-12-14 06:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are different kinds of relationships. I suspect she loves you both as much, just expresses it differently to each of you.
Tell her what you need her to do to help you feel that you're getting the love you need. She's had more practice loving her sister.
2006-12-14 06:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by Claire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're comparing apples to oranges... Loving your relatives and loving your spouse are two different types of love. You can't love one or the other "more".
2006-12-14 06:36:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wife should love you more than anyone else in her life...
2006-12-14 06:35:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's simple... Her sister.U can be replaced. And love doesn't hurt.... The outcome and decisions we make regarding love DO!
2006-12-14 06:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by bbygirl529 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her sister is blood.
2006-12-14 06:35:41 · answer #10 · answered by endless_eternity_forever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋