We've got really close over these last three months and I think he feels the same way, because his face always lights up when I see him, our eyes always meet, and the other day my fingers were really cold and so he spent a whole 30 minute bus journey holding my hands to get them warm. Now it's three days left until the start of the hols, and I'm dreading not being able to see him everyday. Should I tell him how I feel, and if so, how???
Please help, it's driving me crazy and I can't stop thinking about him!
2006-12-14 06:38:54 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BY ALL MEANS yes! Tell him. It is obviously he cares about you. It isn't a rush into something to ssay how you are feeling, it is simply being honest! Don't make him wait until after the holidays. Honey, that's cruel, and just maybe he is too shy to tell you how he feels, we boys and men are odd that way.
All the best to both of you!
Charles "That Cheeky Lad"
2006-12-14 06:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you really should let him know how you feel about him. That was so sweet of him to hold your hands to warm them up. Sometimes it's really hard to find the words to say to someone especially when it's the 1st time you would be expressing your feelings so, what I think you should do is get a Hal-mart card, they make cards for just about every and any situation, I think you should take the time and browse threw a few until you find one that says just what you want.
Good Luck - And Hurry you only have 3 days :)
2006-12-14 06:45:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ipsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the worst things you can do for yourself and the sake of the relationship is to become obsessed with your emotions. I get the picture you are in deep like, love, lust etc, etc...you can't be joined at the hip with anyone ever. So, your best bet is to get out of the rut you are putting yourself by becoming so absorbed in your emotions that you don't function & or grow as a seperate individual. if the two of you have scheduled time together in the future look forward to it. Keep busy. Its critical otherwise you're going to self destruct, & your potential as an individual will diminish ! Wasn't he first attracted to you as who you are ? your uniqueness ? Continue to live your life...and when you reunite the fire might be even hotter...if you keep obsessing and become useless you'll self destruct and any chance of a future with this guy will be gone for ever. If you continue to tell yourself , "I can't stop thinking of him" that is exactly what will occur. Look around , live your life and cherish the memeories you've both created thus far.. I suggest you follow his lead. MEN who are ALPHA'S love & deserve the acknowledment, If you truly love him be patient...if you're unable to do that...it's not real love... but either an obsession or good old fashioned infatuation !.good luck !
2006-12-14 06:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Em,
Yes, tell him, but tell him in a special way.
Find someplace with Christmas decorations, and Christmas Music, and spend a little time getting the feeling and mood of the setting, then, turn to him, look him in the eye, and with all the feeling inside you tell him . . . ." Merry Christmas . . . . I love you ".
If you feel it would be more appropriate, wait till Christmas Eve and tell him.
The rest will be like in the story books with the perfect place, perfect time, and they both lived happily ever after and always remembered the special Christmas.
You may want to give him a memento when you tell him, so in years to come, . . . . you will always remember the special day when you proclaimed your love.
Merry Christmas,
Darryl S.
2006-12-14 06:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let time go by with out people knowing what you feel for them. And you may just get the best Christmas presant ever this year.
2006-12-14 06:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mooney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Maybe invite him over during the break to hang out for a day.
2006-12-14 06:47:29 · answer #6 · answered by rilindy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup,but don't get too excited over it =) you can do it by writing a letter and asking him to read if you're not that confident or get him to a quiet place and tell him that you really like him.Always do it face to face.AND GOOD LUCK!I'm sure it will get through!
2006-12-14 06:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..goo for it..a gubwouldnt hold your hand if he didnt like you..and dont let the holidays vacation go to waste..if you dont tell him atleast ask him if he wants to hang out over vacation so u cna get an idea of how he feels and if u have fun together
2006-12-14 06:41:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to tell him you would only regret it if you dont, if you cant say it face to face then write it all in a christmas card and give it to him then await his response. i think the feeling is mutual so take a deep breath and tell him. good luck and happy xmas to you both
2006-12-14 06:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it,he wouldn't warm your hands up if he didn't fancy you,get it over with and have a great xmas.
2006-12-14 06:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋