Family & Relationships - 14 December 2006

So theres this boy...what do I do?
for starters we have been good friends
for about a year now and I've liked him for
all 12 months....a lot.
When we first became friends we mostly talked
on the computer
Now we hang out all the time...
and i dont know if he if he likes me or not
its so hard to read what hes thinking
and my friends cant tell either
but could these be some clues that he does like me:
he always IMs me first,
we have fun together,
eye contact,
being shy around me,
making fun of me in a playful way,
wanting to get me something for chirstmas,
helping me up when I fall,
wanting to hang out with me,
and telling me that any guy would be lucky
to have a girl like me

do you think he likes me?
and should i tell him how i feel
if so how should i tell him?

2006-12-14 07:16:35 · 16 answers · asked by katie<3 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 07:16:33 · 27 answers · asked by jokey k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have two guys that I consistenly hook up with. One is long distance and he says "im the one" he treats me like a princess at all times. The other guy lives near me and treats me like s**t but I still want to be with him. How can I get over this jerk and see that I have someone who truly loves me??

2006-12-14 07:15:44 · 15 answers · asked by Sam s 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for nearly 2 years. My wife has come a long way she really has. I am in the military and it has been pretty difficult for each of us but, more for her than for me. She is beginning to take interest in some of the things that I like rather than only what she is into, but she is supposed to want to do that right. She acts as if her watching football or coming to a holiday party is the greatest thing done for humanity. If you care for someone then that is what you live for…taking care of them and everything…granted I don’t want her completely lose track of her self. But I want to feel as if our relationship is based on more than just me taking care of her. Is it wrong that I want her to treat me as I treat her? I feel like I am a not what she is most concerned about. I will make every attempt to make things as easy and convient as possible for her andI just don't see that in return. Is it wrong of me to expect that?

2006-12-14 07:15:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 07:15:31 · 3 answers · asked by wojtek_zygmunt 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 07:14:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-14 07:14:00 · 5 answers · asked by jokey k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

anyone wanna join me she has (had) loads of cash????

PS don't worry about the kids presents i have bought them a mars bar each!!

2006-12-14 07:13:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i ask her to stop talking to him was i wrong for that

2006-12-14 07:13:16 · 7 answers · asked by TOEE 1 in Singles & Dating

i have posted another question on my life ,how do you find someone who makes you laugh,appreciates you ,ive made so many mistakes in my life but i am successful now,but ive been treated like crap in the past so i think i give off the wrong signals

2006-12-14 07:12:16 · 26 answers · asked by NATALIE W 3 in Singles & Dating

She is a mom to a 1 year old boy and has worked from
almost day 1. she met this guy 6 months ago. He cant keep
a job. dont seem care if he works. acts like he is 18 not 29. wants to spend his time with friends and smoke pot.which too talked her into moving out which they of course dont have the money for
that. I kept the baby with me said it was better for him not to go out each morning in the cold at 4:30 she agreed. but its more
about his temper that he as shown. he hasnt used it toward my
daughter to the point of hitting but mostly to get his way. also tells
her he will leave and not come back so she gives in. all this
has caused so many fights between me and her. all her family
sees how he is. calls him a loser and dont think he will ever grow
up and keep a job. but my daughter dont see it this way. she
thinks he is just wonderful. right now she is choosing him over
her family and its killing me and i dont know what to do.
advice please

2006-12-14 07:12:09 · 30 answers · asked by destiny_mmm 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

see, i live with a very good elderly friend of mine... when i met my bf he used to come over almost every day and spend the night.. that was until my friend said she didn't want him coming over anymore! i'm 26 and my friend is 86... she's very mentally alert... my bf didn't do anything, but she said she didn't want him there anymore.. anyway, i pay her 40 dollars a week for rent, so she may feel i have no say! i suspect my bf is mad at me cuz he can't come over anymore... he didn't call me for a month and i finally picked up the phone and when i asked him what happened he said he's trying to find himself and he sounded glad to hear from me...he still lives with his parents .... i'm 4 yrs older than him.... what do you guys think of this whole situation... should i just let him go???/

2006-12-14 07:12:03 · 1 answers · asked by get outta here howdy 1 in Singles & Dating

been with my boyf for about 5 yrs, we have a 2 year old daughter, he started his own buisness in march this yr and has been very successful but recently hes been working really late starting at 7am finishing at around 8.30 to 10.30pm or even later he works every saturday and since oct been working most sundays. I do believe him however some nights he has come home and i have smelt alcohol on his breath, i ask where have you been he replies a drink with the work mates this is fine but why doesnt he say anything till i ask? last week i rang him and it was noisy in the back ground, so again i ask he replies, out with friends this is 9pm at night and he hasnt been home for his tea which i cook for him every single night- proper meals not ready meals! again why didnt he say?
tonight i rang twice 1st he said ill be back soon cant wait to see you and ebs then when he wasnt home soon i rang, he said out with my dad, he came back ate his dinner then said im going out with lee!
am i just paro

2006-12-14 07:11:40 · 17 answers · asked by dippydon 2 in Singles & Dating

Question about eviction?
I live in Oklahoma, I have a home that hubby and I rented out for awhile, and this lady, has been letting cats in the home, and other people living there with her. She signed the agreement for no pets and other people to live there. I did an inspection about a month ago. Should I give notice to correct it, or just get a eviction notice, and how would i get a paper for eviction, to get her out of there? Thanks.

2006-12-14 07:09:51 · 24 answers · asked by endless_eternity_forever 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hes my ture luv,i did not cheat on him

2006-12-14 07:09:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know the ones....
"do what you feel"
"yes, if you love"
then their source is
Visit my Dating Site
www.date-losers-online.com/imretarded&have_no_friends.html

Thats annoying. Why don't they get violations for that?

2006-12-14 07:09:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 07:09:14 · 14 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now. We live together, and have built a life together. He's acted like this for a long time and about a month ago it almost ended so he changed for the better. Now he's back to how he acted before. Everytime I talk to him, he acts put out to talk to me. He's short and snappy and has the worst attitude. If I ask what's wrong, he says I'm irritating him, it doesn't matter if I call him one time, 5 times or not at all he still acts this way. Then...maybe and hour later he acts like everything is fine and acts pissed if I act mad. He never wants to kiss or hug me, but never passes up the opportunity to have sex. He hardly tells me he loves me anymore. If i say I love you to him, he says it back in a mumble. I'm not saying that sometimes I can't be annoying but he's like this all the time. I've told him I would leave if he wants me to, but he always says no. Am I being used or what? Please...no smart *** answers, I'm being serious!

2006-12-14 07:09:12 · 15 answers · asked by ParisLynn16 3 in Singles & Dating

sex but we are both finding it extremely difficult does anyone know what we should do?

2006-12-14 07:08:39 · 23 answers · asked by Chrissie B 2 in Singles & Dating

This is someone whom I really care alot about and definitely see potential in our relationship. I want to definitely find something that will impress him and is at least somewhat original.

2006-12-14 07:08:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wat if u r going out w/ a boy but everbody hates u cuz u dumped him and went back out w/ him what do u do?do u dump him agina or stay with him cuz u love him

2006-12-14 07:08:24 · 18 answers · asked by Miley C 1 in Singles & Dating

This letter is for a girl, i really like, she knows i like her, i have told her many times before but i have done a few things that she has told me seemed freaky to her. Making a rose from paper, being overly nice to her, etc... I really do love her, but i'm not sure if she wants to hear that three worded phrase....do you reckon she will find this ok, or will she find it creepy? Preferably women to answer please, if not, then experienced guys.
START
Dear (name)

I know that I have creeped you out this past year. I am sorry about that. I am asking for your forgiveness.

I don't know what else to say. If loving you was wrong, well, then i don't want to be right.

Miss you always,

(my name)
FINISH

2006-12-14 07:07:50 · 14 answers · asked by Spring is Awesome 1 in Singles & Dating

thats totally crazy and cant happen..I mean can it?? IDK
I am only 15 and I aintr a slut so I dont plan on knowing for a while.....

2006-12-14 07:07:20 · 13 answers · asked by chattygrl6913 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has been struggling to find a job for the past 2months almost, and his old boss and his wife have just started a women's shoe business. The shoe business is in the middle of a women's hair salon, and a Nail Salon. I am actually very uncomfortable that he will always have female customers and he will always be surrounded by women. I feel like some girl is going to start liking him and throw herself at him....even if he did not provoke it...how do i calm my nerves?

2006-12-14 07:07:05 · 8 answers · asked by unknown2285 1 in Singles & Dating

Can you kill your mom or dad by not loving them?I mean never kissing, hugging/touching them and always saying you hate them and telling them to drop dead almost every day?My friend does this to her parents and she does it to her dad.He is our college physics teacher. We are both in the same class.She does it to him all the time and he used to be soo cheerful and playful. But my friend (his daughter) called him a geek in class. One day she told him to drop dead in lab & was only trying to help her set up an experiment .That day I almost cried because he was so shocked and hurt and went into his office and sat there with his head in his hands. It was SO SAD.
Maybe it isnt my business but he is my teacher and I do love him (as a human and friend). I've known him all my life and he is friends with my parents. His daughter is my best friend since we were 3 years old.But she is going to kill her father by means of shear meanness to him. What should I say to make him believe she loves him?

2006-12-14 07:06:38 · 6 answers · asked by evillon7 1 in Friends

i been going out with my boy-friend for 2years and to-day he ask me if we could have sex tonight, i'm 16yrs old and he 17yrs old, i dont know if i should agree or not, please help me

2006-12-14 07:06:10 · 26 answers · asked by luv ya 2 in Singles & Dating

A guy did this to me, and I feel a bit dissapointed really, as he was doing so well. If you do this can you explain why it is necessary and what is the point? I need to know if he is worth seeing again, and your comments and insight would help.

2006-12-14 07:05:28 · 13 answers · asked by helloha06 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-14 07:05:01 · 11 answers · asked by rose76548 2 in Friends

and it is making problems in my relationship. Most of our arguments are because of my jealousy after I continuously say I am going to try to stop being so jealous. I don't think I can stop being jealous. How can I really try to stop?

2006-12-14 07:04:25 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Mizz.Purdy♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

is i'm skint so she will have to give some housekeeping back.
The kids have stale bread in the breadbin and some mouldy cheese in the fridge plus their is a squashed banana in the fruit bowl (skin is very black but still edible)


So should we go out or should i just take a score back and go on my own??

2006-12-14 07:03:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships