Can you kill your mom or dad by not loving them?I mean never kissing, hugging/touching them and always saying you hate them and telling them to drop dead almost every day?My friend does this to her parents and she does it to her dad.He is our college physics teacher. We are both in the same class.She does it to him all the time and he used to be soo cheerful and playful. But my friend (his daughter) called him a geek in class. One day she told him to drop dead in lab & was only trying to help her set up an experiment .That day I almost cried because he was so shocked and hurt and went into his office and sat there with his head in his hands. It was SO SAD.
Maybe it isnt my business but he is my teacher and I do love him (as a human and friend). I've known him all my life and he is friends with my parents. His daughter is my best friend since we were 3 years old.But she is going to kill her father by means of shear meanness to him. What should I say to make him believe she loves him?
2006-12-14 07:06:38 · 6 answers · asked by evillon7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be straight up honest with her that you think she is way out of line. I couldnt be friends with someone that treats someone else like that maybe you should reevalute your friendship and let her know why. Talk to her tell her the blunt honest truth!
2006-12-14 07:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that your friend is desperately seeking for attention. Try to speak with her and ask her why is she feeling that way about her father, try to make her tell you what is she worried about, why is she so bitter with him (at your age is always easier to open up with a friend than with your parents). Once you understand what is going on with her you will know how to help her. The best of lucks!!!
2006-12-14 15:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by MCM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her actions speak louder than any words you might say. your friend has serious problems that she needs help to deal with. be supportive to her father when you can. talk to your parents and ask them to talk to him. he may also need counseling and/or medication to deal with the issues at hand. he should not have to put up with her disrespect in his classroom either. would he do it with others?
2006-12-14 15:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by katlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That how my cousin is all they want is attention, you could tell her how you feel about this and, how she is making her dad feel. and let her no that yall will always be friends, but just needs to chill, before she regrets what she is doing to her father, tell her how u feel about what she is doing.
2006-12-14 15:51:06 · answer #4 · answered by Kayce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, send your friend to a therapist for god's sake!!!
2006-12-14 15:29:58 · answer #5 · answered by Little Miss Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends a spoiled little *****!!!
2006-12-14 15:15:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋