I cant take it anymore!..should i just tell him?

Question

So theres this boy...what do I do?
for starters we have been good friends
for about a year now and I've liked him for
all 12 months....a lot.
When we first became friends we mostly talked
on the computer
Now we hang out all the time...
and i dont know if he if he likes me or not
its so hard to read what hes thinking
and my friends cant tell either
but could these be some clues that he does like me:
he always IMs me first,
we have fun together,
eye contact,
being shy around me,
making fun of me in a playful way,
wanting to get me something for chirstmas,
helping me up when I fall,
wanting to hang out with me,
and telling me that any guy would be lucky
to have a girl like me

do you think he likes me?
and should i tell him how i feel
if so how should i tell him?

Answer 1

Take it from a man's vantage point.
Do you need to get hit upside the
head with a frying pan! He likes you!
That's the easy part. If you want this
to go further, don't wait too much
longer or you two will never be more
than friends.

All the following are just set ups,
what you do after the set up is up
to your imagination. Believe me when
I say these methods never fail.

Without actually telling him, unless
you want to, do the following and I'm
sure he'll get the idea.

Make him food. Not just cereal, I mean
a nice meal, not to complicated, unless
you can cook. Feed him, make it a game.

If it's hot where you live, tell him to cool
you off by blowing on the back of your neck.
When he does, back yourself against him
and look back without turning around.

If it's cold where you live, sit as close as
you can, tell him you're cold, you don't
have to be, if he does nothing, ask him
to warm you up by rubbing your arms or
back. If your heads get close enough and
the position isn't awkward, kiss him.

Go to the movies but don't wait for him to
make the first move. Depending on the movie
action, comedy, grab his hand at an exciting
or funny scene. Horror movie, wrap your arms
totally around him during a scary scene. Drama,
put your head on his shoulder during a touching,
sensitive scene.

You get the idea.

The two most valuable things I can tell you is this

1. Make him feel like he's the most special man alive.
2. Women always have complete control of the relationship.

Just a well traveled man's point of view.

Answer 2

I am a guy if a guy hangs out with you as long as you say he has he likes you but he nerves about letting you know because you might not want to hang out with him if he told you that could be what he is thinking pull him close to you look in to his eyes and tell him and ask him if thats ok and if there is a problem with that

Answer 3

It definately sounds like he likes you. Most guys wouldn't buy a Christmas gift for anyone...so that's a biggie. I would tell him as soon as you can. Make it kind of light and funny, maybe just start dropping major hints...like say something like 'when we get married how many kids do you think we'll have...then laugh...make it funny that way it's not awkward, and he'll laugh but he'll get the hint. :o)

Answer 4

Sounds to me as though he really does like you, but is very shy. Take it easy, but let him know that you like him, too. If he is shy, he will appreciate it if you have some privacy when you tell him how you feel. What comes next may make your holidays even nicer.

Answer 5

if your friend was interested in making you his girl, he would have told you so. he enjoys your company. you are there for him. he's got you as a girlfriend w/o the commitment.

stop spending all your time with him so that you can be available when someone who actually wants to be your guy comes along.

Answer 6

AWWW.. HOW CUtE. fOR EXAMPlE i knOW tHiS GUY AND HE'S AlWAYS NiCE AND i GEt BUtTER FLiES iN MY StOMACH. AND i jUSt ASkED HiM OUt StRAiGHt UP. YOU SHOUlD ASk HiM BY EiTHER ASKiNG HiM iN REAl LiFE OR WRiTiNG HiM A LiTTlE NOtE. i tHiNk HE REAlLY DOES LiKE YOU AlL tHE SiGNS ARE tHERE. BUt HE PROBALLY WON't ASk YOU OUT BECAUSE HE'S SHY.

Answer 7

Yeah I think he's crushing on you, tell him you like him and ask if he has been seeing anyone special. If he gives you clues that sound like he's talking about you then go for it.

Answer 8

just tell him you like him or ask him out on a date it could ether go great or there goes your friend but I've never see anyone lose there friend it always ends up great

Answer 9

Beyond a shadow of a doubt, he likes you. Tell him you like him too, and continue to have fun.

Answer 10

so you think you're ready for S.E.X. well you're NOT think about your eduation there will be forever boys/men only one shot at a good education to travel outside of the box. he wants the panties; don't do it baby, don't do it!!!!!