if so wot did u do?
how did confirm ur suspicions/ or not
i dont currently have this prob, but did in the past, curious as to wot otha lengths people went to find proof
2006-12-14 06:30:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when i went thru it my bf kept denying it, but i just KNEW, so i went thru fone bill and rang the most prominant numbers on it, 1 was his x wife who confirmed they were sleeping 2getha, anotha was a gal he was also sleeping with.
He still denyed it tho
2006-12-14 06:39:17 · update #1
Yes...
I confronted her..
She admitted it...
I dumped her..
2006-12-14 06:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
The phone bills are just a start. Put a GP unit on the car to show where he is going. You can get these at your local private detectives office or radio stores. Put a tape on the phone again radio stores , most states this can not be used in court , but gets you information you need. Check where he goes for lunch. Check the computer too!Hire a detective, money well spend. Saved me a lot of money in the long run. Also, check the credit card for more dinning out and gifts. Good Luck. When you have the proof show her the door. Hold your head up high and move on with your life.
2006-12-14 07:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes.. but thats down to my suspicious nature. I do have jealous tendencies, which doesn't help. I check his phone from time to time and even inspected his room, but have never found anything remotely bad anywhere. He doesn't even have girly pin ups or porn in his room. I know in my heart my partner is trustworthy, but I can't help but seek reassurance.
One time i even set up a new email adress with a provokative user name, and downloaded a sexy girl picture for the avatar. I emailed him (pretending to be this girl) and asked what he thought of my picture. When he spoke to me on the phone the next day (oblivious that I was behind the email) he told me about it and said - "some dodgey, scantily clad woman emailed me last night.. I deleted it."
I was very pleased with him!
2006-12-15 04:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex went on a business trip and I was unpacking his stuff when he got back. I found a pair of his underwear that had semen and blond pubic hair all over them (we both have dark hair). He denied, denied, denied. So, I took them to a lab that does DNA testing and they confirmed that there was male and female DNA in the underwear. And can you believe he STILL denied it?? So worth the money to have the truth. I left soon after.
2006-12-14 06:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no but I check my hubby's stories out ! I trust him. My mom on the other hand trust no man and she thinks there all cheaters.She on the other hand will watch your every move until she catches you even smiling at a female and bame.I was raised mostly by other people my step dad and granny. I f you catch him in the act or there all telling you this and there honest people, kick this guy to the curve
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2006-12-14 06:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Monet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspected my partner of cheating.I even read her texts on her phone. A guy we knew said that he wanted to be with her. I was so shocked I was nearly sick. When I discussed it with her.She said it was he who wanted to be with her not the other way around. She didn't feel the same. I texted him back and let him know that I knew. He wasn't so forthcoming then. If someone is cheating you cannot stop them. and if they have done it once what is to stop them again?
2006-12-14 07:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by d1ckdeckard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At worst, I have been mildly suspicious. I have checked her cellphone and email histories a few times and I have never found a single thing. This suspiciousness is a character fault of mine, my logical mind realizes, not due to anything my wife has done. In my heart, I believe she is completely trustworthy.
Good question, though -- I hope you get lots of fascinating answers.
2006-12-14 06:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
bahahaha I would! No one's gonna play me for a fool! Or if he's cheating then I get to go have fun too!
2016-05-24 03:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to send your self daft with trying to sort out the ifs,all you can do is take the chance and hope for the best
2006-12-14 06:41:38 · answer #9 · answered by barnowl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex came home from a girls night out. I came into the bedroom a few minutes after she came home and I caught her rinsing out her panties.I took her keys, threw all of her stuff out to the street and escorted her out of the apartment. And what a shock, HE didn't take her in......................
2006-12-14 06:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by tallerfella 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him or her , it is always better to know the truth then to make a assumption, and act on that assumption, it is not that important to believe them, it is important to trust in yous elf and the actions you see , trust your intuition
2006-12-14 06:36:34 · answer #11 · answered by bob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋