Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

2006-12-07 17:43:52 · 7 answers · asked by Dr E 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have this friend, she's been my best friend since the 6th grade,
i'm in college now, so we've been friends for about 9 years.
i developed a crush in the ninth grade as i got to know her better. but i kept it to myself. she got with this one guy, and things were going smoothly for awhile then it went sour. she comes to me when she needs help/advice.i'll briefly skim, basically at the end of 9th grade i told her how i felt about her, she said it wasn't a good idea. it is now 2006 and she's had about 3 boyfriends, currently with one. we got to talking about regrets, she said she did have feelings for me and regretted saying no to relationship. she constantly complains about her bf, i love her so much and only want the best for her but it feels like she's looking for a guy who will be everything i Want to be to her but she still doesn't want a relationship with me. her bf's are always assholes,and i was always there for her,anyitme she needed me,i keep asking, what did i do wrong?

2006-12-07 17:43:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 17:43:46 · 26 answers · asked by anju t 1 in Weddings

I need suggestions on how to talk to my wife and make sure she listens and understands what I am trying to say. She is always telling me that she is but I ask her at a later time what I said and she just mixes it up into something she wants to hear.

2006-12-07 17:43:43 · 14 answers · asked by Max Warhawk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am at the point where I don't think love really exists anymore. I mean, of course it exists in families and friends.. I'm talking more about love between a couple. I don't think people fall in love anymore. Majority of the people now days only care about themselves and getting laid. Whatever they do, they do it for themselves. Is there true love out there? I take a look back at my grandparents lives.. and they were so madly in love. Neither one of them ever strayed from the marriage, they were always happy and you knew it was real.. just from the way they looked at each other. They were married for 50 some years... and as soon as my Grandmother died, my Grandfather was never the same. You could see the saddness in his eyes every day for 5 years, until he died. Everyone is just so selfish now days... So my question is... does true love still exist anymore? I mean the mutual kind of love, where it is returned. I want everyone's honest opinion.

2006-12-07 17:43:06 · 16 answers · asked by Amber 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-07 17:42:47 · 7 answers · asked by el chavo 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 17:42:04 · 18 answers · asked by girlieyof5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 17:42:00 · 3 answers · asked by olin1963 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's a hard working guy, likes hockey and computers. I don't want to get him something too "wifey". Something that's fun. Not too expensive, since he pays half my CC bills!

2006-12-07 17:41:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just want to know the things that turn you on about women. I'm always looking for different things to try with my fiance :). Please be detailed.

2006-12-07 17:40:14 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

She hasn't been with anybody in two yrs. & just doesn'twant to get hurt again. She did text him yesterday & got no response. He told her that it wasn't a one night stand & proved it by keeping in touch. He told her that he wanted to spend time with her when he came in - he wants to make snow angles with her in the snow his parents have blown onto their yard. But, it doesn't seem right to her that he wouldn't call after making these plans.

This brittish guy has really nice teeth, by the way.

2006-12-07 17:39:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for 5 yrs. We got on really well & went home together that night & he txtd me 2 days later. We spent the next 3 wks hanging out & were liking each other. We decided we weren't gonna sleep wit other people but then he tells me at 3 wks that an ex-fling is coming to spend Xmas with him (arranged b4 he met me) & that he wanted to be honest wit me as 'she wasn't gonna be sleeping on the couch'. I got a little upset, didn't know what to do then asked him to leave. He wanted to keep in touch with me and start things new in Jan when she leaves. I got drunk that night & sent some needy txts which made him angry. I have then txted him on/off and he keeps saying 'let me get Xmas outta the way and then we can see each other and that he doesn't want to complicate things/hurt anyone'. I haven't seen him or 2 wks & he hasn't initiated contact (only replied to me). I don't know how I'll feel in jan knowing that he didn't want to keep me going & tell her to sleep on the couch. What should I do?

2006-12-07 17:39:13 · 14 answers · asked by basement_chix 1 in Singles & Dating

Been wid him 4 almost-almost a year now ... Looks like im the only one who'z pulling the efforts in our relatioship ... Now i feel im chasing a shadow ... My friends tell me to quit ... but i think when u luv someone u should never give-up ... in the process i've lost my confidence, lost the trust of people i care, opportunities dat came my way ... he wanted me to change & i've changed so much i don recognize myself anymore ... Would it change if i kept trying ?

2006-12-07 17:39:06 · 15 answers · asked by Maya 1 in Singles & Dating

i met a gal tru chatting .we shared everything wit eachother ,now we r in deep love. But i still find it diff......... to tie a knot (marriage).Cant understand wat to do.(v havnt met face to face)

2006-12-07 17:38:02 · 13 answers · asked by san 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I am a great girl-smart, funny, pretty - and although the guys I date say the same, they never want to commit in the end...they either say that they are no good for me or just can't give me the kind of relationship I want...which is basically just a normal relationship that progresses over time...

How can I present myself so that guys who want a commitment will pursue me instead of the non-commital ones?

2006-12-07 17:34:53 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i was making out with a guy and he started taking off my skirt and panty and i tried to stop him.was it rape? i was making out with him but did'nt want sex. please help me...should i report him?

2006-12-07 17:34:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

basically im talking to a guy who i've only met one time and he lives in new york(im planning to go out there for school next yr and to make it happen with him).we are not gf/bf but we do talk almost everyday and he shows me love like sends me kisses over the phone we talk all nite tells me how he wants to see me how he missed me during the day blah blah but then sometimes outta the blue tells me "do u" like saying do what u want i dont want you to hold back if your interested in some1 else..and i get mad because he knows dam well how i feel about him..but point is this past weekends he went up to some cabbins with his friends and their gf's and this so called "homegurl" of his which he tells me he fooled around with years ago..so he tells me this girl kept telling him she wants to have sex with him and he says he rejected her....what really gets me thou he says she slept in his bed all weekend....n he also says they "spooned" but thats it.Should i just not believe it and cut it off?

2006-12-07 17:34:43 · 13 answers · asked by eL: 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who just revealed to me that she is in love with a mutual friend of ours. He is a really great guy, but he does not feel the same way at all! What should I do, if there is anything I can do?

2006-12-07 17:34:40 · 5 answers · asked by shirah_life 2 in Friends

2006-12-07 17:33:57 · 20 answers · asked by seeker 1 in Friends

why do women play their games on men

2006-12-07 17:33:45 · 13 answers · asked by James S 1 in Singles & Dating

I like to make noise, but bury my face in his chest and scream if I have to be quiet.

2006-12-07 17:32:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 17:32:18 · 1 answers · asked by kelly r 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi :)
My husband has wonderful characteristics, he is responsible, loving, trustworthy, and so on, I fell in love with him because of all his wonderful charactersitics. The only problem is that I was raised to be very family and friend oriented, but he was raised to be more individualistic, I get bored lots of times cause he stays at home most of his free time, he never even mentions getting togheter with a group of friends and have fun. I just moved to this country a year ago so I counted on him to connect with friends, but he has none :(
Is it kinda an american thing to be individualistic, or is it my husband's personality?

2006-12-07 17:31:49 · 27 answers · asked by Alejandra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 17:31:39 · 18 answers · asked by jencrazywith2 2 in Family

See Me And This Boy Are Goin Out ...... But The whole Time I've Been Attracted To His Friend And I Think Me And Him Should See Other People ..... What Should I Do And How Should I Tell My Bf.??

Love Grace

2006-12-07 17:29:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm naturally a friendly person when talking with girls, maybe a bit too friendly sometimes, making girls I don't like think I like them. How do I come across as just a friend to this girl and not someone flirting with her and leading her on?

2006-12-07 17:29:04 · 6 answers · asked by guitarman.87 1 in Singles & Dating

Met this girl online and we're meeting for a movie and dinner tomorrow night. We've emailed each other about 5 or 6 times, just exchanged phone #'s, she said what she liked about my profile was that I seemed "boyfriend oriented" in that I'm not just looking for imtimacy, but I want the same thing as her, a relattionship. She said she has a belly button ring, I said those are cute, she asked where I'm planning on getting mine...I said nipple and "um one other place..." she said, "your choice of piercings sound interesting wink wink. nipple rings are hot!" she said she's glad how she describes herself interests me "especially the affectionate part (when im with someone)" she said shes likes im driven with becoming a teacher...she said yes she would like to meet up for dinner and a movie. arranged the time, she gave me her cell first.
soo my question is...should i just watch the movie with her n chat before it starts....or chat before it starts etc and then put my arm around her during

2006-12-07 17:28:43 · 6 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Singles & Dating

my bf hits me when hes mad at his parents. one time hes mom yelled at him for not cleaning up after himself i was there and he took me to his room and hit me with his fists and threw a chair at me had to get stitchies that night.i dont want to tell my parents or his cuz they might not let me see him again and i still love him at times. what should i do should i tell my parentsand his?

2006-12-07 17:27:51 · 44 answers · asked by Lil' Jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so about a month ago i found myself giving a friend of mine advice about friends. Apparently her niece was having problems at school with a particular girl in her circle of friends (these girls are only 8 might I add). so i gave my friend advice and told her to tell her niece that she really does have a right to pick her friends, that she doesn't have to be friends with somebody because she feels that she has to. So fastforward to now. This same friend that i gave the advice to has turned out to be not only an extremely jelous person (doesn't like it when i make plans with my other friends, doesn't really like any of my other friends) but she also has a big mouth and repeats everything that i've ever talked to her about to her friends. So what do I do? Taking my own advice would be good. I need to let her go but it's not that easy. So how does one learn to prace what we preach when it seems so painful.

2006-12-07 17:27:06 · 12 answers · asked by thegilchristgirls 2 in Friends

My ex & I broke up a little over a year ago. We had a good relationship, I was deeply in love w/ him & it all ended abrubptly w/ no closure. Shortly after the split he started seeing someone else. He & I started to keep in contact by daily text messaging 2 weeks after our split up until Sept. I chose to stop staying in touch because I felt at that point that I should try & move on, as it still hurt to know that I still has such deep feelings for him. A few nights ago, I texted him to say "hello to an old friend", & he replies back to me "I love you always have always will". After a couple days, I finally got the nerve to reply back to him & brought it to his attention that I didnt think he realized what he was saying. He replied back apologizing that he was drunk, but he still thought the world of me. After that we started having a nice conversation, as I asked if he was still with his girl and he didnt answer. Whats going on here?!
Thanks so much to anyone who can help...

2006-12-07 17:27:05 · 4 answers · asked by ShellmyBell 1 in Singles & Dating