Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

2006-12-07 17:59:46 · 15 answers · asked by nessa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Its not even that long...its just a fairly nice trimmed beard but she said she doesn't like facial hair and if I don't shave, she will leave me. I don't know if she is kidding or not, but I like this new beard I have. What should I do? Isn't she in the wrong for wanting me to shave?

2006-12-07 17:59:40 · 10 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Family

I got kicked by my ex girlfriend the other day. I was on the ground for atleast a few minutes. She seemed to be pretty happy. What goes through your mind?

2006-12-07 17:59:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 17:59:05 · 12 answers · asked by Moniq 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you believe in long distance relationship?

2006-12-07 17:58:52 · 18 answers · asked by Ade 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

First things first.. im shy.The only girlfriend i ever had was in 3rd grade. I know it sounds lame but her name was Rose. I was much more confident in elementary than later, because my mom chose me to go to a school where i knew no one. But thats the past...
Not only that i am also mixed with a wierd combination, Cambodia and Syrian. Which is hard to find in California. My confidence is also down because of how people stereotype middle eastern people so i feel wierd.
I have been told by girls that i am cute, but i dont know.... the person that said i was cute just all of sudden doesnt talk anymore. I dont get it its wierd. My mom is overprotective because she believes i have to study and then find a girl, but i dont feel that way. Shes been like that until now.
I feel the need to love someone, because i dont have someone i really love in my life. I take care of my body, but im 5.7 160 pounds, a bit over wieght? I dont think thats it though What could it be?

2006-12-07 17:58:22 · 5 answers · asked by Shy Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife is not good so far.

2006-12-07 17:57:54 · 19 answers · asked by Kabootar Baaj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After breaking up with my ex for 5years. We are 1st love to each other 4 almost 5years together. But nw we seem to have lost touch. (although we have each other's contacts) Sometimes , I'm feeling we are v near to each other but far to meet. I am the 1 who end e relationship, cos i am really young at tat period of time (18yrs old) , my life is a just full of enjoyment with all my peers tat's y caused my relationship to end. It's my fault for not knowing how to balance. He do have a stable relationship right nw, so m i. But what can i do to make myself feel more comfortable? After grown up, tink back, i am still feeling quite guilty to him. Pls advise.... thanks.

2006-12-07 17:57:46 · 11 answers · asked by kudos Qi 3 in Singles & Dating

you try to help one of your friends and when u need help all they do is just talk about themselves? i can't believe some people after all the things i've said to her to try and help her and all she can do is say "oh" and "what are you doing?". It pisses me off i know she's trying to make conversation but its like she doesn't even care.

2006-12-07 17:57:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I made a really stupid comment to my partner today and she is really upset and crabby with me now and I would like some ideas as to how I can make this upto her, I feel really really stupid about it and am so mad with myself so I would like ideas as to how to make it upto her, roses and a card aint enough.

thanks everyone
Mitch

2006-12-07 17:57:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 17:55:44 · 10 answers · asked by vijay 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-07 17:55:11 · 16 answers · asked by Yami 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 17:54:37 · 4 answers · asked by thecarelessmind 1 in Singles & Dating

but a VERY good friend of mine who never lies told me he messed around with another chick

2006-12-07 17:54:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 17:53:34 · 20 answers · asked by Krunal Rao 1 in Friends

I've known my friend for over 20 years. About three years ago, she split with her husband about the same time I split with mine. We both have daughters about the same age so she and her daughter moved in to help balance out the financial situations for both of us. At the time, she had a decent job and so did I. But soon after she moved in with me, she lost her job, so I was back to the same situation as before, only now I had 4 mouths to feed instead of only 2.
For over a year and a half, she lived on Welfare and bought food for the "family" with her food stamps. When we moved into a bigger house, she once again had a decent paying job and therefore we signed the lease together. Once again, soon after, she lost that job too and "borrowed" money from me to pay her portion of the back rent. I got a "Can you help me pay this, I'll pay you back?" Being her friend, and also needing to keep a roof over my head, I paid about $600 in back rent for her out of my income tax return.

2006-12-07 17:53:27 · 19 answers · asked by grizabellamom 2 in Friends

when my hubby and I were just dating, she cought us naked in bed, watching a "skin flick". she lectured him about it later (it's not right, you're a christian, etc etc), and now of course, we're married, but EVERY time i see her, i releived the moment when she walked in on us and saw what we were watching.

any ideas on how i can get past this?
it's been 3 years since then. 3 or 4 maybe even

2006-12-07 17:51:46 · 16 answers · asked by chapped lips 5 in Family

do guys forget the bday of his crush/schoolmate he likes?

2006-12-07 17:51:30 · 6 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

Christmas! And snow! And maybe holiday! And a secret special gift for your loved one! What do you have in mind?

2006-12-07 17:50:05 · 7 answers · asked by heartspiritdivine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I finally on my way to being in a serious relationship with a great guy, but I'm finding myself being attracted to other guys, feeling like that once this relationship is official, I could be missing out. Does anyone relate to what I'm feeling? How do you deal with this fear of commitment?

2006-12-07 17:49:44 · 7 answers · asked by shirah_life 2 in Singles & Dating

I asked a new girl at work out to coffee. Havent spoke to her much as she's in a different department. She said she would get back to me, she didnt, and a day later I left for another city. I was there for 4 weeks and I sent her email from there. No reply. I have taken the hint.

Two ques:

1. How should I react when I see her in the office? Should I just put my head down and keep walking?
2. I bought a house and will be having the house warming ceremony next week. Should I invite her?

2006-12-07 17:48:16 · 18 answers · asked by RP 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems like all the guys who I date are such jerks. They're downright mean. Why is it so difficult to find a decent, christian man. I honestly don't think I want to date again. Such bad luck. Any of you other ladies have problems finding a decent man who doesn't lie, cheat or treat you badly? I wonder if I'm just a jerk magnet. I would like to know I'm not alone here!

2006-12-07 17:48:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am just starting a new relationship with a guy I spent the last 3 years with at school. Nothing ever sparked in that time but now that we've graduated we decided to give it a go...except we can't get past the awkwardness of knowing each other as school friends and such. We each had a really deep relationship with other people this year and because of that we are both finding it hard to trust the opposite sex. What do we do from here? Is it worth testing the relationship or should it end now? When I'm not with him I feel like it'll work but when I'm with him I feel different. Thoughts please...

2006-12-07 17:47:23 · 5 answers · asked by ***Miracles Happen*** 2 in Singles & Dating

i do not want to seem mean about it

2006-12-07 17:45:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not saying my wife does this but if she did refuse, would it be a good reason to divorce?

2006-12-07 17:45:54 · 46 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to try swinging with me... we've been together for so long the sex has become boring and predictable....i need some excitement..some new pu.ssy

2006-12-07 17:44:44 · 16 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I masterbate 3 to 5 times a day is that normal or do i have some type of behavioral disorder or something like that.sometimes i get sored but thats when i do it 3 times a day. am i going to get hurt someone please help me!!!!!!!

2006-12-07 17:44:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My last girlfriend use to say it took me forever like 20-30mins. Whats a good average time?

2006-12-07 17:44:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it seems to me that i am nice to guys until they develop a crush on me and then i want to avoid them. i'm not outright mean to them, i just don't go out of my way to talk to them anymore because i just don't feel comfortable, due to the fact that i've never had a boyfriend because i'm not allowed to date. i made friends with three asian guys, 2 of them a grade or so older than me and one in my grade. i was fine with our friendship until they got a crush on me and then i distanced myself from them, which causes our friendship to be not as close as it was before. i liked being friends with them too.
plus what also irritated me is that one of them would always think i was mad at him just because i don't go out of my way to find him and talk to him. but he doesn't go out of his way either so i'm like why should i?

i don't know if this matters but i'm asian too (filipino, chinese, irish, portugese, and spanish mix).

2006-12-07 17:44:31 · 8 answers · asked by arial 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 17:44:15 · 2 answers · asked by diane1mulder 1 in Family