it seems to me that i am nice to guys until they develop a crush on me and then i want to avoid them. i'm not outright mean to them, i just don't go out of my way to talk to them anymore because i just don't feel comfortable, due to the fact that i've never had a boyfriend because i'm not allowed to date. i made friends with three asian guys, 2 of them a grade or so older than me and one in my grade. i was fine with our friendship until they got a crush on me and then i distanced myself from them, which causes our friendship to be not as close as it was before. i liked being friends with them too.
plus what also irritated me is that one of them would always think i was mad at him just because i don't go out of my way to find him and talk to him. but he doesn't go out of his way either so i'm like why should i?
i don't know if this matters but i'm asian too (filipino, chinese, irish, portugese, and spanish mix).
2006-12-07
17:44:31
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