Am just starting a new relationship with a guy I spent the last 3 years with at school. Nothing ever sparked in that time but now that we've graduated we decided to give it a go...except we can't get past the awkwardness of knowing each other as school friends and such. We each had a really deep relationship with other people this year and because of that we are both finding it hard to trust the opposite sex. What do we do from here? Is it worth testing the relationship or should it end now? When I'm not with him I feel like it'll work but when I'm with him I feel different. Thoughts please...
2006-12-07 17:47:23 · 5 answers · asked by ***Miracles Happen*** 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you jumped into this one as a rebound and thought that wouldn't it be a good idea for the two of you that were dumped get together?
might sound like a good plan, but then again... maybe not... because when you started this... both of you are using each other to fill in the gaps. So... to solve this... can you imagine the two of you doing things couple do? Can you imagine kissing him? and can you imagine him wrapping his arms around your waist and hoisiting you up and spinning you around?
If yea.. then, give it time. If no..... you know what you have to do
2006-12-07 17:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy, tough question. I get the feeling there is no real attraction and you guys are just seeing each other because it's convenient right now. Maybe agreeing to form a strong friendship would be more appropriate than trying to force a romance. If you become great friends the rest will take care of itself. You said you both recently ended deep relationships... It's okay to spend some time unattached so you can heal. In fact you need some time. There's no hurry.
2006-12-07 17:55:10 · answer #2 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you said, you're both finding it hard to trust the opposite sex because of your recent experiences... that's probably why you're having these doubts that you mentioned. since you're both very insecure, maybe you shouldn't give too much credit to this something-is-not-right feeling that you are having, because it might be momentary and directed at guys in general and not at this one specifically... i'd say give it time and see what happens, don't rush to a decision yet... the pressure of the "where is this going?" question can really ruin what could be an awesome relationship...
2006-12-07 17:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out all you can about the Louisiana Southpaw and give it a try. If he stays, it was meant to be.
2006-12-07 17:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about what wierds you out. It'll work out.
2006-12-07 17:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by Calamity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋