I finally on my way to being in a serious relationship with a great guy, but I'm finding myself being attracted to other guys, feeling like that once this relationship is official, I could be missing out. Does anyone relate to what I'm feeling? How do you deal with this fear of commitment?
2006-12-07 17:49:44 · 7 answers · asked by shirah_life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is a little natural. First there is security and a feeling of comfort, it feels safe to look. You risk nothing to go out and "flirt" you know you have something to go home to, a guy who wants you in his life.
The real test is wether or not you can get past that. "looking" can kill a relationship.
2006-12-07 17:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by jencrazywith2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was never afraid of commitment, but I know its tough of you. That's why you just kick back and have fun. I always say its good to keep your options open. The real question is do you think you are ready for a serious relationship? When you are ready for it, nothing will get between you two. But if you are scoping guys left and right, seems like you just want to be the "player."
2006-12-08 01:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Gentleman in Disguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're not as ready for a serious relationship as you think you are. Sure you're going to miss out on some things. But what you will gain from a good serious relationship will trump that.
2006-12-08 03:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel girl. I was in a very long relationship and at first it was so scary thinking wow his the one for me but i know that i have to grow up and realize im a women now and he is having TRUE feelings for me
2006-12-08 01:56:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't settle when u r not ready .. It's a recipe for disaster my dear. Juss wait a minute and decide what u really want . Wish u well
2006-12-08 01:58:03 · answer #5 · answered by mommy2be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attraction is totally normal but when you are commited you must learn how to discipline your self...
2006-12-08 01:56:01 · answer #6 · answered by '-baby_koh'- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
part of life. make a decision.
2006-12-08 01:53:36 · answer #7 · answered by brewbeer212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋