Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

I and my siblings talk together well. we can talk about anything.But it seems different about our parents. My parents don't like us to enter the conversation when they talk to each other. They only talk about them, about their friends, and about their work. They're always busy at work, they dont tell us stories, we dont eat together, and they don't even bother to ask how are we doing.
I and my mom often have misunderstanding. Even for a little thing that I say, or even just for a little comment, she says "Who are you to tell me that?" she also says I might as well be her mother. And the argument starts even though I didn't mean to offend her. There was a time when my mom spank my face and pulled my hair I and my mom were already arguing while I was crying and it just started from a little thing.Then when my dad saw it, he boxed me and pushed me away.my mom also said even though my my face get swollen while going to school It doesnt matter. Can a loving parent do that?

2006-12-07 23:44:45 · 8 answers · asked by Himitsu 2 in Family

2006-12-07 23:43:46 · 3 answers · asked by Fujinakawa 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok why do guys try to act tough and uncaring when their around their friends? You see when my boyfriend and me broke up he always treated my like crap when his dumb friends were around but when it was just me and him, he would tell me how much he loves me and how much he wants me back!! It bugged the hell outta me and now I want to know why he treated me like that!! Why do guys do things like that when their friends are around?

2006-12-07 23:43:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 10 years and I have been faithful but have grown bored. I want to have an affair. Any tips for how to find a partner and keep it discrete?

2006-12-07 23:43:30 · 16 answers · asked by joe 1 in Singles & Dating

i literally get 'bored' of everything that goes too long except of course with my loved ones ie,..my family
really,...u know its with food,work,all except studies in which i get more inspired...
i mean now it has even come up for friends...!
i get bored fo a friend i have kept for too long espcially internet friends...for that matter my real friend too!

whats the matter with me? no,..i like it actually,...i mean...we shud keep changing for our good shudnt we?

2006-12-07 23:43:24 · 10 answers · asked by trexen 1 in Friends

i am 18 yrs old - a female . and im going into my 3rd month of univ and screwed up financially - like i overspent...dads really pissed off..i live alone also - my parents live out of th country...what can i tell my dad or what is a good argument/reason to convince my dad it was a mistake and a first year 'student screw up'

2006-12-07 23:42:25 · 3 answers · asked by Betty 2 in Family

2006-12-07 23:42:07 · 9 answers · asked by Shaarn1989 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I lived with my bf's house for the past 6 months.I was the 1st gf to stay in his house.He have another brother younger than him by 2 years.His parents love both the sons alot.When i stepped into their house, i felt that his mum doesnt like me as if i snatch away her son.She gave me a nasty look when not in front of my bf but when my bf was with me, she will turn out to be very nice to me in front of my bf.I was sad OF COURSE but didnt made me change my attitude towards her despite of all this.But, recently, i felt myself getting very upset and felt of leaving my bf. I knew this was unfair to my bf.But, i really cant stand it anymore...

2006-12-07 23:41:27 · 14 answers · asked by Endless 2 in Family

2006-12-07 23:40:36 · 21 answers · asked by deepa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 23:40:28 · 11 answers · asked by devildog_3025 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 23:39:27 · 33 answers · asked by william j 1 in Friends

Please can others share their view, am in wrong in believing that a woman can love a man very much ,but if this man takes this for granted, everything is all one way, never really feeling that she is good enough and always trying to win approval yet they still have fun but when another man comes along and shows interest ,understanding and a willing to be there when needed, should both parties take take responsibility that there have been reasons why an affair may have happened or is all the womans fault and she is branded a cheat liar and disloyal for the rest of her time with him

2006-12-07 23:38:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do you say those three little words?

2006-12-07 23:38:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you guys knows that in which of the country in the world the womens are loving with thier husbands

2006-12-07 23:37:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 23:37:27 · 17 answers · asked by lost_alone05 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 23:37:26 · 12 answers · asked by william j 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 23:36:10 · 1 answers · asked by yuki 1 in Family

2006-12-07 23:35:52 · 2 answers · asked by santa s 1 in Friends

I'm bassically the really shy girl but once I get to know someone I talk a lot. I'm sort of serious like I don't like it when people joke around like Oh my gosh i'm just gonna kill myself or I feel like killing someone. or stuff like that. I'm also kind of emotional, I put myself in the shoes of people in movies and in real life. like i'll just bethinking 'could you imagine the pain?what about their family? Oh my gosh it would have been freaky seeing that.' and stuff like that. I can never seperate myself from stuff like that. I'm sure a lot of guys don't like serious people like that but that's how I am I guess...so please give me tips on anything to get boys to notice me...and please nothing perverted...i'm in highschool.

2006-12-07 23:33:55 · 15 answers · asked by DreamfullAngel 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 23:33:47 · 13 answers · asked by lost_alone05 1 in Singles & Dating

i went to meet my dads cousin sister,she ws kind to me she heard my problems and offered me some money after sometime she found me a boy to marry with but my parents who live in different country told her that the guy was older then me. she also told my mum the truth that i am been force to wear veil n my mum didnt like the sound of it and she explained my dads cousin about all that..now when i am texted my dads cousin sis on the cell phone for telling her goodbye cause i was leaving and going back to my country she never replied me..what could be the reason that she is holding back to reply..her son told me she probably saw the sms late..can that b true?

2006-12-07 23:32:19 · 7 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

its a situation someone i know is in and she wants to know how she should deal with it knowing he is the one whom gave it to her.and she just wants to cut his cock off . but dont want to go to prison because no man is worth that.

2006-12-07 23:32:02 · 9 answers · asked by angelblossom1963 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-07 23:30:53 · 23 answers · asked by william j 1 in Friends

Is it the first love that is real love or the last? How many times can a person really fall in love??

2006-12-07 23:30:21 · 6 answers · asked by petra 1 in Singles & Dating

Been with him for around 6 1/2 months now, and even though the love is there- the spark isn't. I was depressed for a while and that had a big impact on the relationship including and now that i feel that im getting over that hump- everything is more apparent.
I have no real sexual desire anymore, the relationship is going stale because he isnt working and we never go out anywhere except to see his relatives or back to mine and watch TV. When we do go out, I end up paying for everything- while not a big problem, it does annoy me when we go to a restaurant and i'll have a salad and he'll have an entire chicken platter.

He also expects me to spend all my free time on him, doing the above or he feels like im indifferent about seeing him or that I dont care. He's constantly needing reassurance and affection to the point where he's missing me after a couple of hours or a day.

It's not like i dont love him, but im feeling suffocated to the point where i want to avoid him...Any advice?

2006-12-07 23:29:56 · 12 answers · asked by Peachy 2 in Singles & Dating

just started a boyfriend abuot 1or 2 mounths ago and i luv him

2006-12-07 23:29:38 · 18 answers · asked by i love my man (cordell) 1 in Singles & Dating

He asked me what I was doing for the weekend and commented on how nice my perfume smelt. He hasn't said anything further, but I notice he goes all shy and red if he sees me in the corridor. He's not a lot older than me and I can see no ring on his finger. What do you reckon?

2006-12-07 23:28:56 · 11 answers · asked by The way I are 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating a guy for about 4months, known him nearly two years. It's only when he's drunk does he talk bout "feelings". I'm the casual one in the relationship, and don't let on how I feel nor does he until he's had a drink. he mentioned the other night in a club after he'd had a few to drink "You know how you want to get married in ten years? well I want to get married within the next two years, I said what are you implying? and he said that he'd tell me later. The next day came and I said, you know what you said last night bout the marriage thing, and he said "what marriage thing?" "He's also said he wants a relationship wit me but it's always when he's tipsy. Do you think I should take what he said with a pinch of salt cuz he could be lying or should I believe that when he's drunk he's genuine with his feelings?

2006-12-07 23:28:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

recently, i got the shivers when i was with my boyfriend and i realised it was because i love him too much. i dont think he loves me as much as i love him, though he tells me he does. im sure im not just being immature. SO GUYS?
WHATS A GIRL GOTTA DO TO GET A BIT OF LOVIN'?

2006-12-07 23:27:15 · 10 answers · asked by lemonface 1 in Singles & Dating

want to end a r/ship that has just started, the guy ismarried,he keeps on calling me but i want to end this without much pain ......how should i begin

2006-12-07 23:27:05 · 12 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating