2006-12-07 23:40:28 · 11 answers · asked by devildog_3025 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People, when they break up without closure, will imagine things with their ex's again. They will think of could-have-beens...It is probably what happens to you. You think about her/his every night because there's something in you that tells you want her/him back. What you should do is, have a talk to your ex and tell him/her what you feel about your break up, that is, if he's/she's not with someone right now. You don't want to complicate things, do you? But if you think you both feel the same way, why not go for a second try?After all, everybody deserves a second chance and who knows? Good luck!
2006-12-07 23:50:06 · answer #1 · answered by nozmiat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either still love her that much or you simply feel guilty about something you did to her.. especially if you were the one who ended the relationship (even though she may have wanted to stay w/ you).
Only you know the answer to your own question... but I'm leaning more towards guilt! Before my son's father (who's a deadbeat, by the way) came back into my life (before I had my son) he admitted to always thinking of me, tried looking for me, & talked about me w/ his fellow co-workers.. all b/c he was guilty of walking out on "a good girl" as he used to say...
if you still love her, find her - but usually we are "exes" for a reason... I say any relationship that has ended isn't worth getting back! It's just not the same - people never stay the same!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-08 00:03:36 · answer #2 · answered by njboricua78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal and it could go on for some time depending on how long your relationship lasted. You need to find a way to move on. Get involved in as many activities as possible. Go out with your friends on every opportunity. Continue to keep putting yourself into positions where you can meet people. I don't believe for a second that there is only one person for everyone. The right person is waiting for you out there. You just need to get out and continuously put yourself into situations where you can find her.
2006-12-07 23:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is natural for you to be feeling right now. after a break up most people do tend to wonder if things could have changed and worked out. your mind wants to know if the rass is greener bascily but what you need to remind yourself of if the break up and the reasons behind it. its done now and your mind is just doubting it. you need to try and forget it may take a while but these feelings and dreams are just temporary.
2006-12-07 23:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were once involved, and she is still inside of your system....it sounds as though you are still in love with her...well you definitely are not over her....you have got unfinished business to sort out with her, make your next move by talking to her, if she has truly moved on....then you move on, and let this go.
2006-12-07 23:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I promise u that u will never stop thinking of her, until u fall in love again. but u have to try to look around and not close your eyes and live in dreams..
2006-12-07 23:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by angelina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You loved her and still do.
Those things usually happens to the one who did not do the breakup.
2006-12-07 23:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by childrenofthecorn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you're still in love with her.......its natural..........give it time...........try and make an effort to get over her...........i wish you luck.
2006-12-07 23:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not over you ex!
2006-12-07 23:46:17 · answer #9 · answered by Cookie_mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still loves her, go for
2006-12-07 23:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋