I have been married for 10 years and I have been faithful but have grown bored. I want to have an affair. Any tips for how to find a partner and keep it discrete?
2006-12-07 23:43:30 · 16 answers · asked by joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are like most married people, you have been approached many times in the course of your marriage by others seeking a relationship- it is as simple as saying yes instead of NO
2006-12-07 23:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well first, I want to tell your wife what a jerk you are and how UNCOMMITED AND Foolish you are for wanting this.
You will RUIN your marriage.
How do you think your marriage got bored? Oh I know! YOU MADE IT become that way.
Why dont you CHANGE the way your marriage is, and maybe it wont be so boring.
Your looking for an excuse just to have an affair, and I think its childish and unrespectful of you.
Your children will think your not a good example , and you will be looked down upon.
I hope you reap what you sow, and I hope your wife leaves you if you do have an affair, She doesnt deserve it, and neither do the kids.
Be a MAN.
2006-12-08 07:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not fair having an unplanned affair nevermind deliberately goin out and lookin for one. Obviously you want to hang onto your wife but you want to have fun......solution.....tell you wife that you feel there is no spark or that you are bored, communication is key for a marriage to work, you don't want to destroy it. She will appreciate your honesty, and she will try to satisfy you more or help you get the spark back, but don't hurt her diliberately, that's really unfair, how would you like it if she was thinking the same thing. You are planning to destroy 10 years of marriage for a lil excitement?!!! Then you go and do that, and you see the consequences, hope she finds out and kicks your *** to the curb!!
2006-12-08 07:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
quit being such a pig. You're bored?? no offense but grow up. Life isnt about you being entertained all the time. If you're bored get a divorce because your wife deserves someone who isnt looking to cheat on her.
Wise up and use the brains God gave you. Start thinking with the head on your shoulders instead of the one in your pants.
2006-12-08 07:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by Dani 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen Bud, if I had you hear I'd grab your collar and say a few things to you. What the heck would you do if your wife was saying this to us right now?
Get your butt home and grab her around the waist and love her, what's the matter with you.
I sure hope no one here has the sence to accommodate you you jerk!
2006-12-08 07:50:07 · answer #5 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
go for it. after 10 years with her you've earned it. Let's face it, all women become boring in bed after a while, they only know a few techniques and most aren't very adventurous or educated. Go have some fun.
2006-12-08 10:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
instead of having an affair .. why don't you go down to your lawyers and draw up some divorce papers..
i imagine that will shake up your marriage.. maybe make some excitement so you wont' be bored
2006-12-08 07:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by steph 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
An affair you fool ...too risky unless it's a divorce you want.
If your problem is just that you are not getting "enough" at home, see a call girl but don't take a mistress.
2006-12-08 08:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you're bored tell your wife what's going and see if you can spice things up, I'm sure you can.
2006-12-08 07:45:27 · answer #9 · answered by Iron What? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as my dad says "it's not always what you want that you get the most out of in life"
2006-12-11 12:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋