I'm bassically the really shy girl but once I get to know someone I talk a lot. I'm sort of serious like I don't like it when people joke around like Oh my gosh i'm just gonna kill myself or I feel like killing someone. or stuff like that. I'm also kind of emotional, I put myself in the shoes of people in movies and in real life. like i'll just bethinking 'could you imagine the pain?what about their family? Oh my gosh it would have been freaky seeing that.' and stuff like that. I can never seperate myself from stuff like that. I'm sure a lot of guys don't like serious people like that but that's how I am I guess...so please give me tips on anything to get boys to notice me...and please nothing perverted...i'm in highschool.
2006-12-07 23:33:55 · 15 answers · asked by DreamfullAngel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way I don't wear makeup...maybe lipgloss from time to time but that's it.
2006-12-07 23:34:34 · update #1
Join a club,newspaper,run for an office at school,go to the sports games at your school or when they play at visiting schools.
2006-12-07 23:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by Dfirefox 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as per your view of how the boy get noticed..there are some tips..which can work
1. Change the way you dress from current to little bit modern..like you can change your style of hair and go to beautician
2. Read some good jokes from your books so that the guy feel comfortable talking with you.
3. Try to find out what does a guy interests him most. May be you can talk about that topic on his subject for a while.
4. Try to be patient and listen to him , his way of thinking, his ideas and what does he think of future.
5. Try to understand his body language
6. Find out what art you have with in you which makes guy attracts towards you.
Regards,
Ram
2006-12-07 23:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by Helping hand 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't kid yourself.Boys do like all chicks whether you are serious or not.I have aserious face and for a while it really put me down and I thought that whenever people tell me I am serious it meant I am ugly..but you are beautiful(and very much so)the only difference between you and the other chicks is how you carry yourself. Instead I went to investogate on clothes that bring out the best in me like my legs and when I meet someone I really like I smile and chat up with them.I have also invested in things I like like journalism and accounting and I find it easire to bond with guys with similar interests.I am still having ahard time socialising but I am on my way. I am still working on my self-esteem by looking people in the eye, smiling, joking, walking with my head held high and my shoulders straight.I also hang around girls who are really confident so that it can rub on me.I also read a lot like about being social.The main things that come out is to smile, look people in the eye and chat up with people....and put on some make up once in a while
2006-12-08 00:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try wearing make up- i read a survey taken and while men say they prefer a "natural" look, what they actually mean is they prefer make up that has a natural look. (the men in the survey picked between 3 pictures of the same girl in various levels of being made up-full make up , no make up, light makeup-they picked full make up) also improving your look will make you a little more self confident which makes you more attractive. try to be aware of facial expressions-if you look angry or super serious no one is going to start a conversation with you. if you look friendly and happy you are more approachable. it's good to be compassionate-maybe you should volunteer somewhere-you will not only be helping people that you feel sorry for, but you can meet others who are as sensitive as you.
2006-12-07 23:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by pandora078 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to try to do something out of your comfort zone once in awhile. i was a shy girl as well, but the only way to go is to do a little something more everyday. nothing much...just enough so you feel like you're making progress..then, a lot of those things will come as habit and you will feel like you've done them your whole life. it's quite liberating. if you don't change, don't expect guys to feel differently because you do inside. they can't read your mind..smile.
on the physical appearance tip...go get your hair done...maybe add some blush or mascara to your face once in awhile, just see how it feels...using your assests never hurts....
2006-12-07 23:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by tahoegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just learn to have fun - laugh and smile and look happy. Then boys will notice you and think you're a nice, friendly, open person to be around.
2006-12-07 23:37:04 · answer #6 · answered by Leiani 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all.. i would say just relax.. being noticed and not being noticed shouldnt really be a big deal... just put aside all those killing thoughts and concentrate on yourself instead of others. just make yourself look good and if u feel good about yourself others would feel the same way about you.
2006-12-07 23:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be you, someone will like you for you and never try to be something you are not, it will result in failure and heart ache, just be you and relax, it will happen and i bet they have noticed already and they are just as nervous, relax and watch and see what they are doing and you will notice the ones that are interested in you for you, good luck
2006-12-07 23:41:44 · answer #8 · answered by jryan1957 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, Someone will fall in love with the REAL you, people dont want to fall in love with a "Fake" You.
2006-12-07 23:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be extra sweet but not to the point of being a flirt..and be smart..intelligent girls attracts men..
2006-12-07 23:38:38 · answer #10 · answered by gracie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋