I lived with my bf's house for the past 6 months.I was the 1st gf to stay in his house.He have another brother younger than him by 2 years.His parents love both the sons alot.When i stepped into their house, i felt that his mum doesnt like me as if i snatch away her son.She gave me a nasty look when not in front of my bf but when my bf was with me, she will turn out to be very nice to me in front of my bf.I was sad OF COURSE but didnt made me change my attitude towards her despite of all this.But, recently, i felt myself getting very upset and felt of leaving my bf. I knew this was unfair to my bf.But, i really cant stand it anymore...
2006-12-07 23:41:27 · 14 answers · asked by Endless 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
THIS BOY WILL PROBABLY BE THE ONE YOU MARRY, DONT WORRY ABOUT MOMS, THEY ARE ALL THE SAME...SHE PROBABLY KNOWS THAT HE LOVES YOU....TALK TO YOUR B/F TELL HIM WHATS GOING ON, IN THE MEANTIME, NEVER DIS-RESPECT HIS MOTHER....GET HER WITH SWEETNESS...REALLY..... MOTHER-IN-LAWS NEVER LIKE THE GIRL THAT TAKES AWAY THEIR SON,... I KNOW...I HAVE A SON... BUT I LEARNED THAT IF I LOVE MY SON AND HE IS HAPPY, THEN I WILL LOVE WHO EVER HE LOVES,...NO MATTER WHAT. IF YOU ARE LIVING WITH HIS PARENTS, MAKE SURE THAT YOU DO YOUR SHARE OF HOUSEWORK, ETC....WITHOUT BEING ASKED...SHOW HER YOU WILL MAKE A GOOD WIFE AND MOTHER SOMEDAY. THEN MAYBE SHE WILL EASE UP SOME. ALSO THERE IS THE HAVING 'SEX IN HER HOUSE BEFORE MARRIAGE PART' IF THIS IS THE CASE, RESPECT HER WISHES !!! IF YOU LOVE THIS BOY....YOU HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO LOVE THE WOMAN WHO BROUGHT HIM INTO THE WORLD.....IF HE WAS YOUR SON, AND HE HAD A LIVE-IN GIRLFRIEND LIKE YOU,..... WHAT WOULD YOU THINK? TRY TO UNDERSTAND WHERE SHE IS COMMING FROM, AND THEN YOU MAY SEE THE PROBLEM AND FIX IT? I KNOW, IT TAKES TWO TO FIX PROBLEMS, BUT SOMEONE NEEDS TO MAKE THE FIRST STEP. AND SOMETIMES, THEY MAY NEVER ACCEPT YOU......IF YOU AND YOUR B/F ARE OLD ENOUGH TO GET JOBS, YOU NEED TO DO SO, AND THEN GET A PLACE OF YOUR OWN. SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT, BUT BY PUTTING CONFLICT BETWEEN MOTHER AND SON, WOULD MAKE IT HARD ON HIM... AND I WOULDNT EVER MAKE HIM CHOOSE....THAT WOULD NOT BE FAIR ON HIM.........TAKE IT EASY, AND ONE DAY AT A TIME....
2006-12-08 00:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart the first problem is your living in a other woman's house. Your bf should have his own place for the two of you. Second point is your not married and in their eyes your living in sin. The best thing for you to do is get your own place and then your bf can come and visit you or move in with you and help you with the bills.
2006-12-08 00:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-05 01:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by grumney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, there is nothing you can do. If this stupid woman has made up her mind that she doesnt like you and even goes out of her way to be nice to you infront of you bf and gives you dirty looks behind his back then you're stuck.
Just hang in there for your bf sake and make plans to get out of her house asap - together. If you two are serious about being together then she'll have to accept you eventually.
2006-12-07 23:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot blame the parents of your bf to show you sharp dagger looks because, you are the intruder! Did you take time to think about it before you moved in there?. Talk to your boyfriend that you will move out and find another place. If he loves you, he will go after you, but if not, then that's the time to look for another one.
2006-12-08 00:44:55 · answer #5 · answered by blutot_ils 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you are living with your bf at his parents house....this is your first mistake. The mother will not likely have a good opinion of you just because of this. However you can catch flies with honey so maybe you can try......
being helpful....do household chores without being asked. Offer to help fix dinner or set the table....and automatically clear and help with dishes. Stay out of her way....do your own laundry and whatever else..........PICK UP AFTER YOURSELF!!!!
Good luck!
2006-12-07 23:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by yakimaniacs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you two are old enough to sleep together, your old enough to get your OWN place! It doesnt make your boyfriend look to good bringing his girlfriend into his parents house, although, they are at fault too, Mom should of told him NO, unless he's used to getting what he wants from her, he should of discussed you moving in her house (out of respect) before hand all of this wouldnt be happening, she's not happy that you are there, so she's taking it out on you, when she should of discussed this with her son. I think you two should have a little bit more respect when it comes to the parents house..........
2006-12-08 01:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out and pay your own way. What are you doing living with your bf's parents anyway? The best thing you can do is show her how hapy you make her son, and not under her roof!
2006-12-07 23:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all why did oyu move into there house? that was your first mistake and the second is jst give it time you are takin gher little boy away frim her she is going to be upset just be nice and pacient show her that you are righ tfor this guy and that yo ulove him i fyou cant do that then you need to look in the mirror and think
2006-12-07 23:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by murphy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really over your boyfriend then you will over look how his family is you are not dating them so dont worry what they think you should be happy. dont let his mom mess that up for its hard to think that your lil boy has grown up and has another woman to take care of him i bet that is what is mom is thinking give her sometime to come around.
2006-12-07 23:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by whiteangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋