want to end a r/ship that has just started, the guy ismarried,he keeps on calling me but i want to end this without much pain ......how should i begin
2006-12-07 23:27:05 · 12 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
say goodbye!
2006-12-07 23:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't reward his behavior by answering the phone. if you stop answering..the phone calls may get worse at first, but if he's a "normal" person he'll understand that since you've kept your end of the deal by not answering that he will finally cease calling. pretty simple.
just don't answer. the end of all relationships are painful. you can't get around it.
and next time. stay away from the taken ones. there are plenty of single men.
2006-12-08 07:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by tahoegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off..did you know he was married? IF you did then I don't have any compassion for you. If you didn't, change your phone number and don't respond to any communication.
You don't want to be a part of hurting innocent parties (wife, children etc) so just let him know if he doesn't stop contacting you, your next step is a restraining order.
Good Luck!
2006-12-08 07:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by brightstarrs7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without much pain? I'd inflict plenty of pain if I found out someone who got involved with me lied about such a thing. Tell him to F**k off and be done with it.
2006-12-08 07:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, you can't really do it without hurting someone but think of it this way, the longer you stay with this guy, the more his family and you will get hurt. just tell him, "look, you're married and you should be faithful. i don't want to get in to this kind of situation so leave me alone". if that doesn't get him to leave you alone, you're just going to have to ignore him. it's hard but soon enough, he'll get the message.
2006-12-08 07:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by mike_dirnt_2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he calls, tell him you would love to go out with him then ask him to put his wife on the phone for her permission for the date.I have done this and it works every time.
2006-12-08 07:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by scrapmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you're not that into him anymore and to quit calling you.
2006-12-08 07:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by evil_nykki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him as soon as possible..you will just ruin the guy's marriage..and you will be stucked in a relationship that started and nurtured with lies...
2006-12-08 07:33:40 · answer #8 · answered by gracie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it's over then don't answer anymore of his phone calls.
2006-12-08 07:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dammit man, you can't start a question like that! And here I was thinking you wanted to off yourself...
2006-12-08 07:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Poster22 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be the worst you can be, try to be a repellant to him
2006-12-08 07:30:04 · answer #11 · answered by piercedgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋