Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

What's your favourite phrase? Mine is, "b ulls hit can get you to the top, but it won't keep you up there"

2006-12-07 19:19:26 · 19 answers · asked by sunsetconmartini 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm tired of this guy giving me mixed signals. He acts like he really likes me one minute, then the next he gets cold. We talk a lot, but never outside of the coffee place we work at or off of msn messenger. I've tried to get him to spend time with me in person in a non-coffee-brewing situation, but I was turned down twice because he had 'plans'. I'm pretty sure those plans were to spend all day alone playing video games.

I don't want him to think I'm a *****, especially since we work together and it'd be awkward, but I'm seriously thinking of just not talking to him anymore except when I have to. I don't intend to be rude...if he talks to me first I'll be as polite as can be, but I'm not going to start conversations anymore unless it's about who cleaned out the machines last night, y'know? lol

He gives off all the signs he likes me short of asking me out, but he wont spend time with me in person, except of course the days he's suddenly cold to me.

2006-12-07 19:18:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just purchased my lady an esquisite 1 carat princess cut ring and i need ideas for my proposal

2006-12-07 19:18:41 · 16 answers · asked by Robert S 1 in Weddings

why can't i get ahold of you?

2006-12-07 19:18:28 · 3 answers · asked by liketoplay420 3 in Singles & Dating

My sis & I use to be real close. She's married to my husbands best friend. We did vacations, played cards, and spent all holidays together. She's been married 20 years.7 years ago she told me she was seeing someone. 20 years older then her. I told her to dump the guy. He's never gonna leave his wife. She wanted me to keep this secret from my husband. I actually got stomach problems. I did'nt like lying to my husband. I broke down one day and confided everything to my husband. He was devestated like me.We distance ourselves from both of them. One night sis's husband stopped in and wanted to know what was going on with my sister. We told him. He went home and confronted sis. She told him we were liars and he believed her. They cut us and my parents out of their lives. My sis continued her affair. 7 years no contact. Last week her lover dumped her. She is devestated. Do I stay out of it since it has been 7 years? Do I call her and try to talk to her?

2006-12-07 19:18:24 · 19 answers · asked by autumn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

These are things I've noticed in a few men I'm intrested in, wondering if they might be reciprocating:

- blushs when you talk to him
- does a double take when you walk in
- loses train of thought during convo, shuffles papers, looks around
- catch him staring at your "shirt"
- polite, friendly
- calls and checks on you
- leaves rambling phone messages
- looks you in the eyes
- you hear him "smile" over the phone


Which are sure signs?

2006-12-07 19:17:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This girl, weve been to heaps of movies, heaps of lunches, and the occasional dinner and coffee after work as well.....she likes to touch me alot, and we always use to laugh.....recently shes been acting quite wierd.She wont wnt to reply to my txt;s, but when i see her sometimes shes happy, sometimes shes not etc.....i dont know whats going on, but she always doesnt ask me to go lunch with her anymore aswell and that kind of stuff???.......is she losing interest in me?....did i make her wait too long or something?

2006-12-07 19:17:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 19:16:08 · 18 answers · asked by ramesh c 1 in Friends

I want to go out on a blokes night out in leeds this weekend, maybe stay the night their if my lucks in!!! My girlfriend wants to come along she is constantly nagging me, what can i do to shut her up! Should i do my usual and start an argument with her then storm out? She keeps going on at me to spend more time wth her too! I dont mind her coming clubbing with me but just not all the time, too many pretty ladies in clubs! I dont want to dump her i mean who else would put up with me? We are ment to be getting married next july, do you think her nagging will stop then? Once she sees ive made a commitment to her! She hasnt got many friends to go out with and even if she did she wouldnt cheat on me! Her freinds that she does have hate me so we cant all go out together i wouldnt like that anyway too many eyes watching me!!!! Can i stop her nagging? cheers mates

2006-12-07 19:15:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your boyfriend/husband wnts to get his head shaved what would you prefer?Told in advance or to be surprised?If told in advance would you support the idea or not.Would you be angry if you dont like the idea but still he gets his head shaved?

I am asking this because I want to get my head shaved but am not sure whether to tell my girlfriend about it.What should i do?

2006-12-07 19:15:46 · 15 answers · asked by Sudhir 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf or ex bf, whom Im trying to work things out with, still doesn't let me sleep over his house or even go to his house. it's been over 2 months (around the time we broke up) that he doesn't let me go over. It's because I dont' get along with his roommate but i've asked him to tellme what we can do to solve the problem and he never gives me a solution. he just avoids the topic. i'm getting sick of it now, especially since we're trying to get back together, so i asked him about it tonight and he said "why do u have to start trouble". so i kicked him out of my house because he refuses to find a way for me to be able to go over his house.
AM I wrong or right? If he isn't letting me over, i'm starting to feel it's something more than just issues with his roommate and that pisses me off. i've never not been welcome at someones house in my life.....

2006-12-07 19:12:36 · 20 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

If you have a girl who was not so tight down there but you really like her what would you do stick around or leave? say if it didnt feel good to you because you couldnt really feel anything?

2006-12-07 19:09:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What way a girl shoud be in a guys mind

2006-12-07 19:09:37 · 22 answers · asked by Raisena k 1 in Friends

i am undergoing a training but there is no one to help me tje course. Iam doing everything of my own by reading books.pls tell me when can i get any job? My second ques is , i am 26 now,i am in a new relationship but i have to wait for some time since he needs some time. i also want to be with him, so i want to know when will my time come when we can be together?

2006-12-07 19:09:15 · 5 answers · asked by arpita r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 19:09:06 · 10 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Singles & Dating

i want 2 know about their culture lifestyle history geography and day 2 day routines. by d way i am indian.

2006-12-07 19:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I havent seen him in over a week now and in that time he hasnt hardly been in touch(no txt or calls). He said he's been having probs with his daughter but why didnt he at least send me quick txt to let me know what was going on?do you think he's making excuses to not see me because he doesnt want me?

2006-12-07 19:09:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is it with so many men that manage to live past fifty. I see so many that come here where i am and find very and I do mean very young girls to play around with. Any age from 15 to 30 but not over thirty. Many of these men are married and have families but evidently tell their family the are on a business trip but spend a week or so with a very young dark female that has nearly no education and know very little more than how to get money ftrom these old men.

So many believe they have found the perfict young female and even go to the point of divorcing their wives and leaving tyhe family and then loosing evetrything they have managed to acquire toa clever little prostitute.

Many of these men go back home and keep sneding money to the poor little angel they spent a few days with.

The more I see of this the more I think most men have no idea what a real woman is.

2006-12-07 19:08:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have this friend, she's been my best friend since the 6th grade,
i'm in college now, so we've been friends for about 9 years.
i developed a crush in the ninth grade as i got to know her better. but i kept it to myself. she got with this one guy, and things were going smoothly for awhile then it went sour. she comes to me when she needs help/advice.i'll briefly skim, basically at the end of 9th grade i told her how i felt about her, she said it wasn't a good idea. it is now 2006 and she's had about 3 boyfriends, currently with one. we got to talking about regrets, she said she did have feelings for me and regretted saying no to relationship. she constantly complains about her bf, i love her so much and only want the best for her but it feels like she's looking for a guy who will be everything i Want to be to her but she still doesn't want a relationship with me. her bf's are always assholes,and i was always there for her,anyitme she needed me,i keep asking, what did i do wrong?

2006-12-07 19:07:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how to judge a person on the internet is sincere?

Im a 24 asian girl. I met a 30 US guy who said hes a very excellent guy. He got dumped by a model. And now he wanna find an asia girl. Well, I like him very much from what I know. But I need to make sure two things. One thing is that hes telling me all the truth. Second thing is that I wanna make sure he really loves me.

But how to make sure? Well, I dont know if I should trust an internet person. And why he wanna find an asian girl not US gals? Sounds strange. Im a ordinary gal. Even hes telling me the truth, I think there are a lotta girls around him, and chase him. Does he just make fun of me? Does he have any other possible purpose? He said hes a CFO in NY company. How to search his information?

Thank those kind ppl for helping me.

2006-12-07 19:07:12 · 8 answers · asked by Ilikeraisin 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 19:04:30 · 13 answers · asked by noga 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok im not ugly at all..my question is i attract alot of guys but i dont like to because i get scared alot of times! what if someone follows me! one time i was in wal mart and a guy kept following me i got so scared i had to have someone who work there walk me to my car! so what can i do to make myself seem unattractive?

2006-12-07 19:04:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend always starts to talk about herself when i need help. I always help or try to help her when she needs help but when it comes to me needing help its like she doesn't even care. I talk to her on yahoo and she takes at least 5 minutes to reply and she doesn't say sorry. It pisses me off here's part of our conversation

youngchris2008 mendoza: just tell me
youngchris2008 mendoza: thats all i want you to do
youngchris2008 mendoza: thats all
youngchris2008 mendoza: cuz what ur doin is gettin on my mothafuccin nerves
AMANDA GiLLiCK: ok
youngchris2008 mendoza: and u prollly dont even care do you
AMANDA GiLLiCK: not rllyyyy..im not inna qOod mOod riqht now

that last thing she said made my whole body start shaking im so pissed off right now

2006-12-07 19:02:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

by my girlfriends mom ,im really small ,with short strokes my fist was covering it with short strokes ,i can not look her in the face ,she laughs when i do , im 2 three quarter "long she has not told anyone that i know of what do i do?

2006-12-07 19:01:42 · 17 answers · asked by robbie w 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 19:01:37 · 18 answers · asked by komal 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 19:00:25 · 26 answers · asked by cat 1 in Singles & Dating

He leaves the front door unlocked, leaves lights on all over the house and last night, for the third time, left the cooker on all night. It's driving me mad. My other housemates laugh at him and say it's just him being scatty, but I'm getting really frustrated with it - would they be laughing if the cooker caught fire?! Should I speak to him alone or call a house meeting and address it with everyone at once?

2006-12-07 18:58:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

they when u meet someone special it must be fate or its in our destiney. so what is the difference between the two

2006-12-07 18:57:11 · 9 answers · asked by stephen d 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-07 18:55:25 · 6 answers · asked by serenity_2219 2 in Friends

When I socialize with younger people I feel like I hardy even understand their vocabulary. as Much and I'm comfortable and confident around older people, I tend to act stupid around people of my age group. what shall I do?

2006-12-07 18:54:38 · 15 answers · asked by nini 1 in Friends