i am undergoing a training but there is no one to help me tje course. Iam doing everything of my own by reading books.pls tell me when can i get any job? My second ques is , i am 26 now,i am in a new relationship but i have to wait for some time since he needs some time. i also want to be with him, so i want to know when will my time come when we can be together?
2006-12-07 19:09:15 · 5 answers · asked by arpita r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Relax! The more you fret about not getting a job and not getting married, the longer it's going to take. Have fun. Enjoy the advantages of not being married, create an interesting life for yourself (which doesn't depend on the guy) and he would probably grow more interested in you. Most men don't want to be the alpha and omega of a girl's life, because it puts them under too much pressure - and a man's biggest fear is failure. So let him know that you'll take responsibility for your own happiness, but that he can add to it.
I'll add a quote: "That which you focus your attention on, that you will attract." (If you focus on the negatives of not being married and not having a job... you'll stay unhappy, unmarried and jobless. But if you focus on being happy - even in the circumstances you are in now - you'll attract more of what will add to your happiness.)
Good luck!
2006-12-07 19:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by adeleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem very worried and stressed about your situation, try not to be. All these things will come in due season if we faint not nor grow weary in well doing . (Ps.) this means, be patient ,God knows all your needs, and he will meet them in time. Go to one of your Instructors at the school where you are in training , and ask if there are any tutors available to help you, or go to the office and ask an advisor there . I am sure there is someone who will know and direct you to a place or people who can help you. Also, the library referrence staff at your local library will be very glad to assist you in all your study needs. As for your guy, I have no idea why he needs "some time" , but, if he loves you truly, you'll be married before you know it . And in the very near future, these "mystery days" that you are going through now ,will just be a faded memory .
2006-12-08 04:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by CLAIRE KC1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your questions:
- when i will get a job?
Frankly speaking, I dont know. But I can tell you the first person who would know before you know - your interviewer / employer.
-When I will get married?
Again, it doesnt take whole lot of brains to get married. Somebody or other in this world will definitely be ready and happy to marry you, whenever.
Based on analysis, I would say you will get married before you get the job. Reason - since you are worried so much about your marriage, most probably you wont be able to focus on your job search or interview skill etc.which requires more focus/brains than getting married.
By all means, Good Luck with both !
2006-12-08 23:50:02 · answer #3 · answered by usin08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
Just finish your training first. Since he has asked you to wait just wait and relax. Take a chill pill and relax.
Everything happen at the right time and right place. So let your time come and things will work in your way.
Good Luck
2006-12-08 04:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the right time and at the right place. Don't worry. Live one day at a time and be happy.
2006-12-08 03:50:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋