What would be the turn on about sharing your wife in bed with another man?

Answer 1

Well, I could turn on the TV. And I guess I'd be more excited about the game without the constant interruptions from her begging for sex.

Answer 2

Some husbands may be a little bisexual and it may turn them on having another guy there. Some guys just get really turned on watching and may just want to sit back and be the spectator once in a while. Of course the woman would have to also be comfortable with this arrangement but personally if one man does it for you why not two? I hear about men always asking for threesomes with a second woman but few actually offer to do this with a second man. It's not every womans fantasy and it's probably a very rare occurance but with two good looking guys willing I might take them up on it. "Different strokes for different folks" as the old saying goes. All depends on your openmindness, your willingness to explore, and your comfort level. But we all have lines and it's best to respect them... but sometimes it is fun to try something new and different in and out of bedroom.

Answer 3

Those people are freaking sick in the head. Some people get turned on by being degraded or tortured so there is not always a reason. We have to except that sometimes people are just Mentally ill and act out in ridiculous ways.

Answer 4

I have yet to find out. I don't find it arousing at all and I am not into sharing. My wife is so cute and wonderful that I don't want anyone else to be as close to her as I am.

Answer 5

Are you the female initiating this? You should be. Otherwise it is questionable as to whether it was coerced on part of the males.

Answer 6

Freaks come out at night.

Answer 7

That is just one thing I will not share willingly. F**K that

Answer 8

ask someone whos turned on by this.

Answer 9

Ok.....I'm going to take some flak for this, but you asked, so here goes.

I was always insecure and jealous in my relationships. If another guy even looked at MY gal I would get jealous. I was living with a gal and one evening on a business trip I picked up a copy of Penthouse Letter Wife Sharing Edition. Holy cow.......stories of women who thought like men and had sex....just for the sake of sex. They loved their husbands but liked variety. It flipped a switch in my head. Were there really women like this? Women that could F*** just for sex and still love and commit to their husbands? When I returned home and was making love to my girl, I whispered in her ear..."your be is really getting off watching me f*** you." She came so hard! Afterwards she asked if watching her with another guy was something I would like. I wasn't sure if I could actually do it, but I told her I had thought about it. That didn't go over well. She thought that I only fantasizes about this so I could get another woman. I didn't, but her jealousy drove us apart.
Got married a few years later, and again shared this fantasy. Same reaction as far as me wanting an FMF. When I convinced her that I didn't, she seemed ok with it. One day she came home from the gym and confessed that one of the trainers had hit on her. I immediately got aroused, and asked her about him. Cute, buff, a jock.i asked her what she thought, and she turned the same question back on me. In my lust filled state, I said Go For It! She did, and that started a 6 mo affair. Every time she would come home from meeting with him, I would be on...and in....her immediately. The sex was awesome while she described what they did. He broke it off with her when he met his future wife. We divorced a year later for unrelated issues.
FF to my current wife of 17 years. She is very conservative sexually but once she's heated up she's an energetic woman. Again, while out of town, she came across (I purposely left it available) a copy of the latest PH Letters Wife Sharing edition I had, and started reading the pages I had ear marked. When I returned home the copy was on her night stand. OH ****......while making love that night I whispered the same statement in to her ear. She went off like a fire cracker. So did I! In the afterglow she asked if those stories turned me on.......I said they did. She asked why....I told her it was hot to think about a committed spouse that could differentiate between love and sex and let herself go in the lust of the moment. Hmmmmm......is what she said. Over time she would read my favorite stories while I was going down on her, watched MFM porn, role played with using toys........and finally when I asked her if she would like to try it, she said yes! Months later we had a MFM with a good friend of mine who was in town for the holidays. Awesome! She really got into the sex and had more orgasms than we could remember. It was so good that she wanted to do it again the next night. We did. What is weird is that one of the hottest things was just watching the foreplay.....their kissing. Their lovemaking. Watching her let herself get caught up in the physical sex. It was like watching my fiancé in a personal porn flick. Our sex the following weeks was so intense when we recounted the sessions we had with our friend. We were married a few months later. About a year later I had a business trip to the city our friend lived in. SHE asked if she could go along. We hooked up again, and it was awesome. He spent the night and we did it again in the morning. For weeks she had this glow about her and our sex life was better than ever.

We started a family, and she now has no desire to repeat those experiences. She says that MFM sex isn't something a proper wife/mother should participate in. Our friend was in town recently and a practically begged for her to have sex with him, she refused. I don't push the issue any longer. We still have a great sex life, but I always have those images in my head.

So what is the turn on?

1. Seeing your spouse letting herself get lost in the sex.
2. Her getting more sexual pleasure than I alone can give her.
3. Sperm competition...forcing me to make love to her longer and stronger and reclaiming my spouse.
4. The mix of my emotions.....jealousy, arousal, insecurity(he is bigger than me and has much more stamina) excitement.
5. The fact that she is my own personal porn star and is with me!

Sorry this is so long, but this is a complex question. Oh those memories!

Answer 10

I wouldn't want that. There would be no turn on there.