Blokes only! How do i stop my girlfriend from nagging?

Question

I want to go out on a blokes night out in leeds this weekend, maybe stay the night their if my lucks in!!! My girlfriend wants to come along she is constantly nagging me, what can i do to shut her up! Should i do my usual and start an argument with her then storm out? She keeps going on at me to spend more time wth her too! I dont mind her coming clubbing with me but just not all the time, too many pretty ladies in clubs! I dont want to dump her i mean who else would put up with me? We are ment to be getting married next july, do you think her nagging will stop then? Once she sees ive made a commitment to her! She hasnt got many friends to go out with and even if she did she wouldnt cheat on me! Her freinds that she does have hate me so we cant all go out together i wouldnt like that anyway too many eyes watching me!!!! Can i stop her nagging? cheers mates

Answer 1

Youre unbelievable.Although you do make me laugh i have to say.No the nagging will never stop so its a case of put up or shut up.Do whatever you want,it seems you always do anyway.And you wont have to listen to her while your in Leeds and just buy some ear plugs for when you get home.Shes obviously a complete div so do what you want

Answer 2

I'm not a bloke bu you knew girls were going to answer this anyway!!

She knows you're cheating and she don't trust you hence the nagging. She thinks she needs to keep an eye on you. My boyfriend goes on lads weekends away three or four times a year if not more but I trust him so I don't need to nag him. In fact, I enjoy the odd weekend to myself! No girl in their right mind would want to go on a lads weekend anyway so she's obviously quite insecure. When you get married the nagging will get worse because she will expect you to be more committed. Eventually, she'll probably want to divorce you and rinse you for half of everything you own until she gets married again so I'd steer clear of marriage just yet!

Answer 3

With your attitude toward the girl, she would be smart to give you the ol' heave ho! and find a decent bloke to be with! You deserve the nagging and I really hope that not only do you find your luck is OUT this weekend in Leeds, but that SHE starts the argument with you and finds herself a nice man that isn't more concerned about all those other pretty ladies in the clubs! An engagement means a commitment to one lady, and that's the one that you are to marry, not whoever is the easiest to pick up after she's had a few too many and doesn't mind taking an (word blanked due to content), to bed. I agree with her friends and hope the girl gets smart and dumps you, so perhaps you'll grow up and realize what it means to be a man, not a whiny (this word blanked due to content) that does things that he needs to be worrying about who might see him doing what. You really want the way to get the lady to stop nagging? STOP GIVING HER REASONS TO NAG!

Answer 4

Ummmm....first bit of advice. DO NOT....repeat....DO NOT get married. The nagging multiplies by a factor of 5, or is it 10, 20, 30....

Secondly mate, sounds like you want the best of both worlds. Fair enough, we all do. So you have to play your cards right.

Rule #1: Do NOT be a softy. You have to be a bit hard with women. I'm not saying don't be affectionate or romantic. But be a man. For help (not saying that you need it mind) watch old John Wayne films. This lets them know that even though you love them, you need space and you're not going to put up with any shite. There are too many of these poofy arsed boy racer type boys around, women don't really like these kind of guys. Even if they do it's only for a short while. Learn from the old stock, men from the 40's and 50's. These men were clever, they knew how to treat a woman but they were hard as nails. Real men, we need more of them. Gives you creed with your mates as well.

Rule #2: Do what you want. And if she gives you problems let her know you are your own person and no one is going to change that. Then go to the pub. (buy her flowers the next day)

Rule #3: Balance your time. This one is the hardest. You have to spend sufficient time with your bird. But you also have to go to work and spend time with your mates. If you pull, you have to make time for girl #2, #3 etc. You have to manage yourself. Never get INVOLVED with more than one girl. It always ends in disaster. Go out a couple nights a week with your girl, a couple nights a week with the boys and leave yourself a couple nights to recoupe. Invite your girl over and make her a romantic dinner once a week, take her to the movies, watch a movie at home....you get the idea. This keeps her happy. If she starts wanting more than 4-5 days of your week push her away. If she really gets on you, you have to dump her mate. Can you IMAGINE what she'd be like if you were married to her?

I could go on and on but then I would start to sound like a bit of a prat, if I'm not already. Anyway, hope this helps mate.

Good luck!

Answer 5

Don't get married. It sounds like you need to spend more time single before you make that jump. Marriage will not stop the nagging it will probably make things worse. Your girls is lonely and wants some company. No one wants to sit at home on a friday night while their significant other goes off having a good time. If your not ready to spend the majority of your time with your girlfriend then you really aren't ready to be married.

Answer 6

If you're getting married next July you should not be looking at other women and getting lucky with them. To be honest I can't blame her for how she is acting. If you weren't hoping to "get lucky" with the "pretty ladies in clubs" then I would think she was being controlling but you are a CHEATER and that is utterly wrong. You aren't ready for marriage, it is a big step and you are a player by the sound of. If you care for this girl youwould tell her the truth and end the relationship so that she doesn't get hurt, either that or mend your cheating ways.

Answer 7

Unfortunate fact of life number 1 - women nag. Eventually you find the one that make you put up with nagging.

Unfortunate fact of life number 2 - men need nagging.

Answer 8

Spend moretime with her but explain to her you need time with the boys everyone does, she should understand if she doesnt there are other issues. You just have to kep her sweet if your off out on the sat take her out and pamper her fri if she moans you can say well I took you out last night so give me a little room to breath i will see you sunday and we can chill together.

Answer 9

No wonder she nags you, you sound like a complete looser and if you have any ounce of respect left for your girlfriend you'd break up with her, so she doesnt have to spend the rest of her life with a cheating looser.

Answer 10

You don't deserve a girlfriend if you want to check out the other talent, and don't think about getting married until you are ready to commit to her totally.