Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

My gf and I are debating about this

2006-12-07 18:21:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-12-07 18:21:20 · 19 answers · asked by Ms. Kane 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has always been expressive saying he loves me. One night about two months ago, he had a single tear running down his face one night and I asked what was wrong. He said "I'm just crying because I know you don't love me." I didn't know what to say because I wasn't ready to say it yet, but I did feel it (unfortunately I had some past baggage at the time). I know now that I should have said it, but it's all hindsight now.

I recently told him that I love him though (about three weeks ago). He said he was happy because he never thought I would say it and that this changes everything. Then he said he loved me, but he needed to think for awhile. Well, he hasn't called or returned my calls in almost two weeks...

What do you make of this???

2006-12-07 18:20:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sumetimes when u think ur not pretty enuff for a guy.. it seems that ur not good enuff for that guy.. coz guys always look at the physical aspect of a gal~ is it true that gurls who are not that pretty tend to be left behind? and never have a shot at the "guy that everyone wants to have"?

2006-12-07 18:20:36 · 11 answers · asked by [MiA] 2 in Singles & Dating

I was reading a survey on Netscape yesterday where people talked about their sexual experiences. A recurring theme was guys whose fantasy was to have their wives/girlfriends have sex with other men, thern tell them about it. (ewww) It got them really hot & horny. To each his own (or not) and everything but I cannot fathom what the thrill of this is. Seems like everyhting from sociology to eveolutionary biology would argue that the last thing a male would want would be to share a mate with aniother male. After all, the mating drive is about propogating your *own* DNA to the exclusion of others. I just don't get how this is such a common phenom. I'm not overly jealous, and yes, if it was another femme instead of a guy I might be interested, but this? Yuck.

2006-12-07 18:20:04 · 12 answers · asked by AmigaJoe 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 18:18:30 · 5 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a big argument with my friend the other day. She accuses me of not being open to her, and I accuse her for not trying to get to know me better. Is it my fault that she never asks about me personally, or is it her fault for not asking about me in the first place? She says that it's just the way she is. She expects people to tell about themselves to her if they are comfortable talking to her. She doesn't feel like she should have to ask people personal questions because she doesn't want to be nosy. But, I'm not like that though. It doesn't seem like she really cares about me at all if she doesn't even bother to ask me more personal things other than just the typical "how was your day?" questions. Contrarily, I'm always the one that asks her about everything. Which is why she enjoys "talking" to me so much. So, who's wrong, and who's right? What did I miss here? Help me guys... :( --I've tried talking to her, but she thinks that I'm calling her self-centered and insensitive..:((

2006-12-07 18:16:05 · 8 answers · asked by haithere_us 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 13. In my class the girls are in two groups. Popular and not so much. Last year I was in the middle. I have two best friends, one in each but most of my better friends are in the not so popular group and I like both groups for different reasons.

The problem started a couple of weeks ago. I was spending a bit more time than I normally do in the popular group and one of my good friends in the other group got very jealous. She said that I didnt like her or anything. We had a massive arguement and weren't speaking for days, she turned half my friends against me spreading rumors.

Now we have sorted things out but she's really clingy. She keeps asking me whether she's still one of my best friends. I don't have the nerve to say no, I cant stick another arguement and I'm worried if I say anything she'll turn the rest o the group against me. Im happy to give her up but not the others. How can I subtely say leave me alone without a massive arguement?

2006-12-07 18:15:56 · 5 answers · asked by Elle :) 3 in Friends

It's been a year since my ex girl left me for my best friend after he broke us up. She always did put me through emotional hurt, dancing in front of some guy sexually then telling me knowing it would make me real angry and she continued but I loved her to much I was blind by love at the time. She had been showing sides of hating me though I did everything I could to show her I loved her, I liked to kid around alot (jokes etc...) until she told me to quit living in a fantasy world and grow up, when she called other guys cute she really meant it, not considering it hurt me deep, she would laugh at me so I jokingly said awwww that girls cute and she literally with all her might punched me in the head. So one day she breaks up with me not saying anything few hours later we get back together, everything is perfectly fine then the next day no word or call, My bestfriend calls me and tells me it's over with me and my girl so a week later my best friend calls me around Midnight and asks me...

2006-12-07 18:15:33 · 8 answers · asked by Khaos 2 in Singles & Dating

The doctors dont think he will make it...I am at a complete loss, and have no one to turn to...i need all the help i can get...

2006-12-07 18:15:08 · 16 answers · asked by Eli's Mommy08 3 in Family

2006-12-07 18:15:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 18:15:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It has been two and three month since I got married. I’ve one son and now I’m5 month pregnant. Before we got married I and my husband were decided to change our unwanted behaviors. From those behaviors the first one is about stopping alcoholic drinking, but still he doesn’t want to stop it. We’ve discussed about it many times but after he says sorry, I get him in that place again.
I don’t want him to drink because I don’t have good attitude for drinks and I’ve told him many times but for the time being he say ok but he can’t stop it at all. Even I tried to talk with his family and his friends.
So what shall I do, I’m so tired, I want divorce and live alone. Please advice me, it really helps me very much.

2006-12-07 18:13:49 · 11 answers · asked by Melat S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he had a crush on me since the first time we met.he confessed indirectly a while later.but after 1month,he said he want2gv up (maybe cos i wasn't reacting to reciprocate).but for nx 2months,he still hadn't gv up.he eyed me most of the time when i was with my friends,and he was friends with almost all the guys in my unit,except for this closest male buddy of mine.(this buddy could b seen w me almost all the time within campus)

then a new semester starts,he appeared like he no longer cares.he started to ignore me and acted like normal.so i supposed he has moved on with his own life and gotten over me.

but recently,as we were in front of a stall,he came and stood nx 2me while iwas looking at some foods.then he moved his head nearer and nearer towards me.(??)besides, another time, i was walking towards a place and coincidentally in same direction as him.he slowed down and waited 4me2catch up and chatted w me. (to be continued)

2006-12-07 18:13:48 · 9 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 18:13:42 · 14 answers · asked by fm_aqua 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My son is 21 and just moved in with some drug and alcohol abusers. I want to know if there is a legal way I can make him come home. He is 21 and says that he can do what he wants, but he is ruinning his life.

2006-12-07 18:10:59 · 9 answers · asked by justcurious 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

If so, how do you handle the household duties? Who is the primary caregiver, cooks meals, does laundry, handles the household finances? Do you handle all the money or have separate accounts?

I make more than my husband (not much more) and we really share all of the housework and child rearing. He's a very active and involved parent. I handle all of the money, which is a relief to him!

Just wondering how my fellow Alpha-Earning Women are doing it!

2006-12-07 18:10:39 · 11 answers · asked by Falina T. Rayon 3 in Marriage & Divorce

If a guy can get hard and have sex with a girl...but, after 5 minutes or so, penis gets soft but he does not ejaculate..does that mean that the girl doesnt turn him on...or what?

2006-12-07 18:09:34 · 17 answers · asked by nothing 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my bf for 3 yrs and everytime he wants to express how he feel about me .. He cries .. I don't understand . Is is becoz he is so much into me or something .. Pls help

2006-12-07 18:08:34 · 12 answers · asked by mommy2be 3 in Singles & Dating

If you realy love "jon", just ask me, I will tell you about a realy new song. And if you realy love him you will enjoy the song from the deep inside heart. I will add some detail in this question that will be about the song, about the album, just ask once, I insure that if you realy love him, you will be very thankful of me. So just say "Yes" or "No" & wait to go through the deep lovely expirence. Waiting........

2006-12-07 18:08:34 · 13 answers · asked by jogi 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 18:08:24 · 16 answers · asked by lorie n 1 in Singles & Dating

we broke and now i need to move on.Theres a new guy that i met today.But i still love the other one.He says he just needs time to figure out if he still loves me.I don;t know what to do bc i'm very impatient.And to top all off i can't eat or sleep.i also don't want to see him with someone else.

2006-12-07 18:07:00 · 13 answers · asked by browneyedgirl26 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 18:05:28 · 10 answers · asked by Thebronx 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some random guy on the street came up to her and said he'd give her $5 to kick him in the balls. She had some heels on, and well, sent them up into him pretty hard, lol. What would you have done?

2006-12-07 18:05:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-07 18:04:34 · 7 answers · asked by Jin Z 1 in Friends

My girlfriend says we need to try a 2 week sepation experiment. Ever sence it started we have been in 5 BIG arguments. She also lets other guys touch her breast while I'm present. And I'm at the point to where if see it I'm going to go knock the **** out of the guy. So what do I do about it?

2006-12-07 18:03:13 · 16 answers · asked by ben b 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not talking about kissing at age 5 or stuff like that...when did you get your first kiss, whether it was real for you or not..

2006-12-07 18:03:12 · 24 answers · asked by star 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 18:01:58 · 22 answers · asked by neha 1 in Family

If a guy I have been dating for about six months doesn't return my calls for two weeks does that mean I'm dumped? Our last convo was great - he told me he loved me and wanted to see me soon (we live in different places). Everything seemed good until now...I've called three times and written an e-mail with no response...

2006-12-07 18:00:47 · 26 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

you're together for barely two months. but he's been telling you that he's life is complete and the only that is lacking is for him to see you in wedding ring with his name underneath it. he's been planning about your future together. even before you're together, he promised you that he won't hurt you and that it's the first time he's really in love. do you think it'll last?

2006-12-07 17:59:48 · 8 answers · asked by annika23 2 in Singles & Dating