Wife sharing?

Question

I was reading a survey on Netscape yesterday where people talked about their sexual experiences. A recurring theme was guys whose fantasy was to have their wives/girlfriends have sex with other men, thern tell them about it. (ewww) It got them really hot & horny. To each his own (or not) and everything but I cannot fathom what the thrill of this is. Seems like everyhting from sociology to eveolutionary biology would argue that the last thing a male would want would be to share a mate with aniother male. After all, the mating drive is about propogating your *own* DNA to the exclusion of others. I just don't get how this is such a common phenom. I'm not overly jealous, and yes, if it was another femme instead of a guy I might be interested, but this? Yuck.

Hmmm. I think Candy might be on to something. maybe the guys have repressed/sublimated homo-urges and are sort of vicariously having sex with the other guy through his wife. Or maybe he's imagining himself in her place...

Answer 1

U R Right YUCK! My man would pass out if he saw another man touch any part of me. He would need medical attention or tha guy touching me would. See you thinking with a sain mind. Your drive is the drive that god gives a man. Some people are just in to kinky things.
If another woman touches my man in my site she may lose a limb. When things like that occur sexy loses it's natural beauty.
I'm glad to hear of a male who has feelings and understand how it should me. Don't change man.

Answer 2

How hypertrendy... If the husband is not the jealous type then it would definitely be exciting. Especially if the wife gets pregnant, falls in love with a different partner, or contracts a venereal disease. Sex is a very intimate, private and trusting act. It's best to be done with people you love and can trust. Otherwise it may cause a lot of heartache, health problems and jealousy. Besides how does one expect to be good in a long-term relationship if they are having relationships with everyone else?

Answer 3

Agree mate. Yuck

Answer 4

Well, in this day in age, monogamy does not work as well as it used to. By "freeing" themselves, many couples don't have to worry about any 'trust' issues. Look, with a 50% divorce rate in this nation, it is not surprising more and more monotonous, er, monogamous couples are desperate for something new.

Answer 5

men are interested creatures aren't they. I think that my husband would probably fantasize about a threesome or something to that affect, but in all reality a marriage would fail in-due time with this behavior. This is why they make costumes and wigs, right girls?

Answer 6

I would have to go with the yuck factor as well. But hey you never know.

Answer 7

You might be interested if it were another female being discussed? How sick is that? What if she ended up liking what that female did for her over and above your actions?

Answer 8

God intended marriage to be between a husband and his wife. not a husband, his wife, and another man or woman.

Answer 9

i know its disgusting........some people dont have any morals in life. SICK!!!!!!
I cant even think how i would feel if i had to sleep around and tell my husband about it..gross.

Oh by the way..........when a guy suggests that you should sleep around with other men,,,,,,its usually them that want to do it but dont want to feel guilty.

Answer 10

My ex brought that up, I thought he was kidding! I asked him, "Dont you want another female to join us instead?" He said that was too commen?!?! Weird! .... But I was down for either one :)