If a guy I have been dating for about six months doesn't return my calls for two weeks does that mean I'm dumped? Our last convo was great - he told me he loved me and wanted to see me soon (we live in different places). Everything seemed good until now...I've called three times and written an e-mail with no response...
2006-12-07 18:00:47 · 26 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would assume dumped unless otherwise informed. He has ignored your calls, your voice mails, and your email. He clearly has little intention of contacting you. I would consider it a cruel dumping, and move on. If he later contacts you, apologizes and has a good excuse like he was in jail or his phone and email service got shut off, then reconsider the situation.
2006-12-07 18:04:41 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he dupmed you. Soo try to move on. but You guys have been together for 6 months and it is 2 weeks. Something could have hapenned. My dad wentvisiting his country and family. For the first month, he was calling me and such but for the next 5 months, i didn't get anything and found out that he's aunt passed away and he got terribly sick and stayed 2 a couple of weeks at the hospital. If he still loves you, he will contact you back no matter how long it is. if not, it would be time for you to move on.
2006-12-08 02:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by LadyXSakura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to keep up one's confidence that a long distance relationship will last when seeing each other is infrequent. There doesn't need to be any other problem than the distance for this to happen. It's got more to do with the lack of face to face communication than anything else.
Give him some more opportunities and time to respond. If he still does not respond, stop your efforts to communicate with him. There's no relationship without "two-way" communication. If you continue very long to communicate with him, he could very likely get annoyed with your efforts.
If you stop your communication with him when he truly cares for you, he will be in contact with you soon after you cease contacting him.
If you decide to dump him, when you cut of communication with him, he won't know if he dumped you or if you dumped him.
2006-12-08 02:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by Piguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm somethings definitly fishy. Despite his not calling or returning your email, do you have any other reason to think he dumped you? If not, then think positive and try to find out somehow what's going on. Get in contact. Just to find out if everything is alright. Maybe he had a family emergency or maybe something terrible has happened and he's shut down himself to think for awhile about anything? Maybe he was having friend problems, or school or work problems. Good luck.
2006-12-08 02:07:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were dumped or hes dead. he must be in another relationship and a daddy. he must be feeling guilty. this whole time for 6mths youve never been to his place? dont get it with some people. that and not meeting the parents should be a clue that something is wrong with the relationship. next time when you meet a guy ask questions. if that is too much for the guy then he is hiding something that you should know before making a commitment. these days people settle for less, they dont want to anger their partner so they keep quite. those 6mths you could have found out what you are asking about now. if you know where he lives visit him and get your answers. if not, forget him. if he comes back in the future, demand info before starting the relationship back up again.
2006-12-08 02:16:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most likely that is his way of ending a relationship in a cowardly manner. There is a slight possiblity he isn't able to because is sick or work but I doubt it. It only takes a minute to call you and let you know whats going on. I wouldn't pursue him any further. If he is interested he will call you very soon. Hopefully it works out for the best you.
2006-12-08 02:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by latinagurl1986 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say but I have a personal rule about this..... unless there is a possibility that he is being held captive in another country, I think that after 2 weeks of not talking, you need to consider that the coward and you are not together by default.
2006-12-08 02:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by RockabillyBanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont know your BF for sure. If it is happen because he just join in into a new environment maybe he need some time to adapt and that's can make him so busy. But if you think nothing particular that can make him do that, i will simply said that he never loved you. He will only come to you whenever he need you, not when you need him. So, prepare yourself with the worst.
2006-12-08 02:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by axelarco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're officially dumped. You've called three times and emailed him and he's avoided you at every turn ... it's pretty clear he wants nothing more to do with you.
2006-12-08 02:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly but maybe it's surprise.. maybe he had made plans to come over! If your guy had said he loved you meaningfully to you, in your last conversation then maybe he is giving you a surprise!
but if this doesn't happen.. i know it will hurt alot so just put it aside in your mind! Just hope "sparingly".
and if this a dump.. then i'm sorry! Hope you're felling well!
2006-12-08 02:06:07 · answer #10 · answered by silverbutterflies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋