It's been a year since my ex girl left me for my best friend after he broke us up. She always did put me through emotional hurt, dancing in front of some guy sexually then telling me knowing it would make me real angry and she continued but I loved her to much I was blind by love at the time. She had been showing sides of hating me though I did everything I could to show her I loved her, I liked to kid around alot (jokes etc...) until she told me to quit living in a fantasy world and grow up, when she called other guys cute she really meant it, not considering it hurt me deep, she would laugh at me so I jokingly said awwww that girls cute and she literally with all her might punched me in the head. So one day she breaks up with me not saying anything few hours later we get back together, everything is perfectly fine then the next day no word or call, My bestfriend calls me and tells me it's over with me and my girl so a week later my best friend calls me around Midnight and asks me...
2006-12-07 18:15:33 · 8 answers · asked by Khaos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
calls and asks me if he and my ex girl could have sex I hung up in disbelif of this betrayl, why can't I get over this after a year?
2006-12-07 18:16:27 · update #1
Khaos you and I are alot of alike, I had the same problem. just not with a best friend.
you have to get her off your mind, if she knows you aint over it, she's going to think your WEAK!!! YOU HAVE TO LEAVE IT ALONE BRO, SHE MAY HAVE TREATED YOU LIKE **** BUT YOU ARE THE BETTER PERSON SHE IS A LOW LIFE PIECE OF GARBAGE WHO STILL DOESN'T KNOW WHAT SHE LOST YOU ARE A GREAT GUY MAN, FORGET HER, FORGET YOUR BEST FRIEND HE WAS NEVER YOUR BEST FRIEND IF HE BROKE YOU GUYS UP AND CALLED YOU TO HAVE SEX WITH HER, YOU GOT SCREWED BY PEOPLE WHO THOUGHT WERE YOUR FRIENDS!!!! THOSE PEOPLE COME AND GO, WHOSE GONNA BE JEALOUS WHEN YOU GOT BETTER GIRLFRIEND WHO DOESNT TREAT YOU LIKE GARABAGE MAN, YOUR EX WILL FEEL FOOLISH AND SAY "YOU MEAN I LOST HIM?" THEN WHEN YOUR RICH AND YOUR FORMER BEST FRIEND SEES YOU ARE HE WILL SAY "I SCREWED HIM OVER? i COULD BE SHARING IN HIS WEALTH" THEY WILL BE JEALOUS, KHAOS MY BROTHER ITS TIME TO MOVE ON BE STRONG I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT BROTHER I BELIEVE IN YOU!!!!!!!!
Sorry for the Caps......hope I helped man.
2006-12-07 18:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Cyrax 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sad story. Not sure. Maybe you dwell on it too much. Go out with "good" friends and look for someone who looks like your type. Take it slow by just getting to know her. Or go out alone and just mingle. It seems like you need to get out to me.
It is probably the fact that you got hurt and lost two people you cared about a lot. That would be hard.
If she was your first true love than they say you never forget. Could this have anything to do with it?
Hope this helps some even though the pain I can not make go away.
2006-12-08 02:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by CGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you loved her. Honestly, I can only suggest that you find positive and productive ways in which you can occupy your time. I suggest volunteering, picking up a new hobby or even exercising. She isn't worth your tears, thoughts or torment. You will get over her. She won't be the only girl you'll ever meet - there will be others. Pick up the pieces and move on - no matter how impossible and difficult it may seem. God Bless and Good Luck !
2006-12-08 02:24:32 · answer #3 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry bro but are you asking for us to hit you in between your legs??, i mean man do you know how many guys and girls are feeling sorry for you right now??, dude i feel for you and hope that one day you open your eyes, cuz it looks like no matter what we tell you, the only one that can make that decision is yourself, not us. But please man, be a man and think for yourself mainly not her, dude please, i know you know better than that...
2006-12-08 02:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by Darksied 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She dun love u. And he's not a friend. Friends dun hook up with ur gal.
2006-12-08 02:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
does this girl have beer flowing breasts or something that you can't leave her.
man, concentrate your mind on some other, better, new chic.
2006-12-08 02:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jay N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about it if you can, keep yourself busy. I dunno, that sounds so terrible, I'm really sorry that happened to you. I don't have a good answer for you, but good luck :)
2006-12-08 02:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by Allison B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this really sucks...if i were u i prolly ending up...leaving the gal alone..
2006-12-08 02:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋