what do u if u feel that ur not pretty enuff???

Question

sumetimes when u think ur not pretty enuff for a guy.. it seems that ur not good enuff for that guy.. coz guys always look at the physical aspect of a gal~ is it true that gurls who are not that pretty tend to be left behind? and never have a shot at the "guy that everyone wants to have"?

Answer 1

Actually what I find is that when someone doesn't think they are that attractive what they usually so is work on developing a good personality instead. Guys can be shallow and pretty girls or guys turn everyone's head but the truth is looks don't add up to alot when you have no personality or worse a bad personality. I see gorgeous guys all the time with an average looking girl on his arm and I always think to myself, "She must be a really nice girl." Truth is pretty girls are often times even more obsessed with their looks than the not so pretty girls are and that shows through on the surface.

This is how I got over my own insecurities. I started thinking one day of all the things on my body that I did not like that I'd like to change about myself but then I realized if I changed all those things I wouldn't be me anymore. The key is feeling comfortable in your own skin. You can make certain changes on the outside which might make you feel more confident ie hairstyle, clothing, makeup, etc but none of these changes will really help you unless you are happy with yourself as a person. Be a good person, do the right things, persue the interests that make you happy and fulfill you and all of a sudden you will feel beautiful inside and out. You will also find that this begins to impact how other look at you too. You don't have to be gorgeous to be a confident man or woman. Confidence is what attracts other people to you. They will see it radiating from you even if you don't really realize it. All of a sudden you'll have people intersted in you. You won't be completely sure why but they will be. Take it from a girl who has never thought she was very attractive and having hot amazing guys right there insisting the very opposite. People judge us based on more than just what's found on the surface. It's what's inside that ends up mattering the most.

Answer 2

The "details" had me a little confused, but yes, you are very much in love. I have come to realize in life that you cannot plan when you are going to fall in love. You can't plan that like you plan for a career or plan to go to college; it just happens. Actually, when I was 13, I wanted to marry this boy named Keith. I mean, I "knew" I wanted to marry "him". Anyway, I never let him know how I felt, and that was back in '88-'89, so of course he's married w/children now. I'm still single and will probably still be single at 40 if things keep going the way they are. See, love doesn't come everyday. It just doesn't. When it does come your way, sometimes you have to grab on with both hands. Don't worry about failing; the important thing is to try.

Answer 3

Snowy, you've probably heard all the stuff about how looks don't matter that much. Of course they do. But only for the first few minutes. You've met guys who are great looking but after talking with them five minutes you wouldn't be caught dead with them. You probably know guys with great hearts who don't have great looks. After those looks have worn thin, what do you talk about? What do you do? What occupies the rest of the time of your life? So begin by loving yourself. Know that you are beautiful. You ar a child of god with a divine spirit. Just like everybody else. Your physical looks are only one part of you. If that is the only significant part of you, then you're missing out on something. Love yourself because you are truly great. If some guy doen't recognize how wonderful you are, you wouldn't be interested in him anyway. He is only interested in the superficial.

Answer 4

your good enough for anybody , its a question of whether or not that person is good enough for you , that "guy that everybody wants" probably isnt the guy your looking for, you should look for qualities that suit your personality trait, your never left behind, its easier to move ahead than to fall behind, dont let people leave you behind, if you like someone then you shouldnt miss out on the chance to be with that person , physical aspects arent important when you have someone who cares about you , if the "guy everybody wants" is looking for physical aspects, then thats not the guy YOU want

Answer 5

it's not about physical looks - a girl could be gorgeous on the outside but have low self esteem on the inside and it shows - it's very ugly. Girl, honestly...it's about ATTITUDE! Guys can totally see this...if you feel good about yourself and confident, guys will take notice and they'll come running after you. Never think you're not good enough for a guy...it's the other way around usually ;) So feel comfortable in your skin and have confidence - and be yourself!

Answer 6

Never sell yourself short! I do not know how old you are, but I suspect that your very young. One can be very beautiful on the outside , but ugly as sin on the inside. what Iam trying to say is this , if one is pretty on the inside, then one is automatically beautiful on the outside. Never say or think that you are not pretty enough for anyone. one has to like themselves before anyone else can like them

Answer 7

2 things:
the 'guy that everyone wants to have" usually turns out to be a worthless piece of sh*t.
If your actions are memorable and worthwhile, you will get the attention you crave.
Otherwise, find uglier friends....

Answer 8

girls who r not pretty aren't behind. yeah, i agree that some guys say that they like the physical aspect. but some girls are not left behind b'coz some guys look at what's inside them. they look at their heart.

Answer 9

Start building your confidence, self esteem and personality. You will be surprised what will be install for you later..

Answer 10

There is someone for every body. Just be patient and he'll come to you.