Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

line guys use?

Here's the situation: my jeep has been running awful, this friend of a friend (a rather handsome fellow, I might add) fixd it and I am super neurotic about breakdowns (bad experiences being stranded before) so I asked him if it was dependable to drive and he says "honey i'd even trust it with my own mum"

2006-12-07 18:54:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 18:53:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to say thanks to everyone that has answerd my Questions and got picked for best!

THANKS
Fergie

2006-12-07 18:52:49 · 2 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Friends

2006-12-07 18:52:13 · 10 answers · asked by james w 3 in Singles & Dating

...reason why i am asking this is cause one of the parents is worried that its going to hurt the 12 yr old that there is not going to be a mom and dad anymore.But what about the step-parents?Step-parents make the best parent some times. one of the parent's is afraid how to tell the son that there is going to be a step-parent cause the son has already said he didnt want a step-parent.he's still young, dont u agree? the son will get over it, thats a fact.kids who have grown up and been thru this situation are free to respond

2006-12-07 18:51:08 · 13 answers · asked by Peaches 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love him, I'm just not sure if we should be together anymore. We've talked about getting married; but I feel bad because I feel i'm being deceitful. I'm only 24 and I often feel like I want to experience life on my own. I even think about other guys quite often. I'm a dreamer and like to have fun as well as a good career; he's more mellow and doesnt like to go out at all, no real career either. But every time I want to talk to him, my heart doesn't let the words out. I'm totally confused

2006-12-07 18:51:03 · 15 answers · asked by BeachGirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-07 18:50:43 · 10 answers · asked by ish 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if they already have money?I'm talking about women on general.Is it status or anything of that nature?There was this woman who i wasn't too cool with not long ago,but i attempted to get to know her better.Than when i saw her in the parking lot structure of my gym(we go to the same gym which is where i know her from)and she flashed a huge grin at me and her eyes lit up.I don't know what the logic of this is,but she looked like she wanted me to stop by and talk to her but i just kept walking because i didn't trust her yet. The only thing i have at that gym is alot of connections and acquintances.Could this possibly have something to do with it?(i live in california)Why does she suddenly want to be on good terms with me?

2006-12-07 18:47:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

online dating has become more and more popular nowadays..ive personally know someone who really have fallen in love and now shes happily maried..but if you tried online dating..you dont know who is real there are some you would meet who would make you feel like youre the most special girl in his world like he would call you up to 3x a day international calls,would chat with you 3 hours everyday..and at some point would send you some stuff (even money) and when you feel that you have fallen in love he would just run off..like you wouldnt hear anything from him.. well i just wanna hear your opinion..thanks : )

2006-12-07 18:47:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know this girl for about a year but i only talk to her to say hi and bye until one day that i was selling tickets for a concert and i found her in the streets and i told her would you like to go im selling the tickets i was trying to sell them to her she said yes come to my house tomorrow i went to her house and i waited until her boyfriend left then i told her if she wanted the them and she just said i cant but we can go out next week cuz her boyfriend was not going to be in town and now i dont know if she want to be my girl or just a friend? and how can i know that? because i really like this girl but i never said anything cuz she had a boyfriend

2006-12-07 18:46:08 · 25 answers · asked by lrz_kasper_13 1 in Singles & Dating

I work in a company as an Operations Assistant (am my boss's right hand)and I am very happy.However,my boss has mainly male co-workers.I have met one of them(who is very cute and seems very nice person)the other day when he came to visit my boss for a meeting here in our office.Since then whenever he calls and i pick up the phone...he keeps on making very flattering compliments to me, asking me where i usually hang out etc...I have a boyfriend already(3 months together), but now,whenever i come at work i can't wait for this guy to call!! I think i like him but i feel very weird about this...I am happy with my boyfriend(even if he lives miles away)...what is wrong with me??

2006-12-07 18:44:45 · 6 answers · asked by Soulla 2 in Singles & Dating

okay i've known this guy for like 10 years. he's been my roomate for the last five months. we've fooled around a few times nothing serious just casual sex.

we had plans to have dinner together on wednesday. but tuesday night i invited a guy i'm seeing instead. i didn't see him that night so i called him wed morn to tell him i had to change plans because, he's like no big deal i actual invited a girl over to meet me here at 4. i know i did the same thing and i'm not jealous of her but i felt upset he wasn't even going to tell me.

okay stupid thing number one.........then for number two tonight he tells me while i was out to dinner she was over to the house. this again pissed me off. i know i don't like this guy for anything other than a friend. why do i feel so pissed he's having her over. this is his house too. part of me knows i'm being stupid. i just don't understand why i act like this. i told him we'll get through xmas then talk. what the hell is my problem??

2006-12-07 18:43:51 · 20 answers · asked by liketoplay420 3 in Singles & Dating

I had been with my b/f for nearly 2 yrs when he broke up with me the other week. He says our lifestyles are too different, ie i smoke cigs and drink, this is easy to fix. However he is also planning to go to Japan in a year to work for a bit (1 yr ), so he says he is thinking logically we should break up, but his heart is telling him different, cos we are both miserable without each other and have been hanging out still.
We have the best relationship, and from what I can tell I think he's very confused about his decision and may be scared of getting hurt again and opening up properly, its also possible that he's scared of maybe getting too involved so as to screw up his career plans by not leaving me.
Should I make the effort and work at this (the only guy I haven fallen in love with, out of many) or just let him go? I'm just a scared that I maybe don't mean so much to him cos why would he have just got out over this? Long distance, differences.. it can all be worked out?

2006-12-07 18:42:54 · 4 answers · asked by Renee B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

see i dont think people can be trusted on chatting.i heard certain cases where it happenned to be that a couple chatted on net and after few months got married!i mean marriage is an imp decision so how can one trust a person when he is just sending messages to you?
so my question is that can we get indulged in serious relationships while chatting?

2006-12-07 18:42:34 · 12 answers · asked by style beauty 1 1 in Singles & Dating

She is in the U.K. I am in Thailland.I want her to know that I am concerned.We have three children from our marriage.Do I write to her or go back?It really is not easy to decide.

2006-12-07 18:42:32 · 8 answers · asked by jjinbkk 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this question has been asked before. But I've never loved anyone outside of my family. How long does it take to love someone?(Outside of your family). Can it only take a week? How do you know that you love someone? I know I would take a bullet for her. But if someone pointed a gun at her and another one at my family, I would tell the person to shoot her. 'Cause for me, my family is number one. But I would totally move(I'm in FL, she's in NY) just to be closer to her. The song Far Away by Nickelback, a line in it goes, "I'd withstand all of hell to hold your hand." And I realized tonight, I would withstand all of hell just to hold her hand. It might sound cheesy, but its true. I hope that theres a future with her and me but I don't "see" it because I live hour by hour and I don't want to get my hopes up to have them crushed.

Thanks for the help.

2006-12-07 18:41:53 · 3 answers · asked by a girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to ask this girl out, because my formal is coming up and I want to know if she will atleast go with me on a date first. She knows I'm bi and she is too. But I just don't know how to bring it up. I'm so confused because we have known each other since 5th grade and I'm not forsure how to do it.

2006-12-07 18:41:00 · 7 answers · asked by Moley Taydo 1 in Singles & Dating

she also has a girlfriend, and like 3 other guys she's trying to be with, now don't get me wrong i still love her and always will, but what should i tell her? without hurting her feelings, or making seem im turning my back on her as a friend, what a tangled web we weave.

2006-12-07 18:40:04 · 7 answers · asked by ish 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

a guy jus asked me but i dont know what to telll him. what r d thngs dat i sjud consider bfor saying yes to him.

2006-12-07 18:38:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

[21:57] me: (yeah right) really?
[21:57] friend: YEAH
[21:57] friend: and stop with those () things
[21:57] me: u hate everything i type
[21:58] friend: cuz u type so meanly
[21:58] me: lol

lol i think its funny but am i bad for saying that? i dont get her point

2006-12-07 18:36:51 · 8 answers · asked by bianca 2 in Friends

I don't realize that I do it, but it bugs the heck out of here. Usually its one of my legs, but it can be other things too. Am I cursed to never be able to sleep with my girlfriend?

2006-12-07 18:34:56 · 7 answers · asked by Nick 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend likes to go to the bar with his friends...he says it's boys night out...I think of a boys night out to go play pool, go golfing etc. The bar I think is a place where only single people should go to, or if your not single you should be going with your significant other. I mean why do guys like to go there on their own? what do they do ? I can't imagine them dancing with their guy friends! I'm I right or should I give him his space.

2006-12-07 18:31:44 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok now my story
ppl have the patience to listen
i had a group of friends from 6 we are became best friends and in 8 suddenly u got new admissions and i made friends with 2(X andY) of them and actually i thought that one(Y) of them acts of a lot so i told (X) the other girl that she is like this so then we both stopped talking with Y so i introduced X to my group of friends ok so they backfired at me and made friends with her and ditched me and now X does something horrible and takes me and the others to the princi and blames all of them for wat she did and me and to mention her i stopped talking to all of them the time they ditched me and then they got angry at x and stopped talking to her but after all these days i saw all of them talking to her and showing me a wicked smile and she wasnt kicked outof the skool for the horrible work that she did and now i need some counselling about how to get them out of my mind

2006-12-07 18:31:34 · 3 answers · asked by sufikanchan92 1 in Friends

I'm not an adult, and my parents aren't divorced, but when I hear/see other people getting divorced, it makes me wonder...

While they're saying the vows, do they realize what they're getting themselves into? Then why do people divorce? If they said [this isn't the exact words] " I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health. I will love you and honor you all the days of my life." Doesn't that mean, no matter what kind of problems we face, I will still love you? I've always thought that the main goal in marriage is to STAY MARRIED, am I wrong?

2006-12-07 18:31:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 22 and married my husband wants me to always give him a bj. I really dont like it and dont want to but what is the big deal with men and bj's? it may be a stupid Q's but I had to ask it :)

pics on 360

2006-12-07 18:29:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 18:28:47 · 12 answers · asked by Cindy D 1 in Singles & Dating

Either "BEAUTY" or "BRAINS"... they ~ have/lack.

2% of them have both..!!!

Who they are..??

Easy though... expecting great ideas of people out there!!
thanks 4 comments!

2006-12-07 18:28:11 · 3 answers · asked by `✪~ 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

His name is Kalani ...

were close friends, nothing more... but we kiss and do things that boyfriends and girlfriends would usually do. He treats me to dinners and buys me small little gifts every once in a while.

I'm just a little confused because i don't think i like him more than a friend and i dont know how he feels. There is a guy that wants to go out with me and i like him, its just that i don't know how Kalani would feel about it.

i just don't know how he feels, is it just a friends w/ benefits kinda thing or is it more to him?? I know i should be asking him this but i'm just a little worried, what if he isn't serious about it and doesn't mind and im making a big deal of it... won't it be a little awkward.

What should i do ???? I how do you think he feels ... do you think he likes me more than just a friend?

2006-12-07 18:26:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 18:25:11 · 22 answers · asked by Jonathan R 1 in Singles & Dating

One of my male cousins is now 32 years old and is single up to now. He doesn't even have a stable girlfriend yet and always thinks that no girl likes him, he's now desperate for marriage. What can he do?

2006-12-07 18:22:42 · 13 answers · asked by williep6845 1 in Singles & Dating