I work in a company as an Operations Assistant (am my boss's right hand)and I am very happy.However,my boss has mainly male co-workers.I have met one of them(who is very cute and seems very nice person)the other day when he came to visit my boss for a meeting here in our office.Since then whenever he calls and i pick up the phone...he keeps on making very flattering compliments to me, asking me where i usually hang out etc...I have a boyfriend already(3 months together), but now,whenever i come at work i can't wait for this guy to call!! I think i like him but i feel very weird about this...I am happy with my boyfriend(even if he lives miles away)...what is wrong with me??
2006-12-07 18:44:45 · 6 answers · asked by Soulla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to jump into any conclusion here. But if you're asking for my advice, then I'll be honestly giving my sincere answer. Like you've said you're happy with you current boyfriend but yet start having feeling for a new guy. Well, my advice is be honest with your feeling & make sure you don't hurt either party.
2006-12-07 18:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Infinite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your human, that's all. Three months is about right for some of the steam to run out of a so-so relationship and now this guy is doing what? Paying you compliments, showing genuine interest in you? That's exciting! It will make anyone's day to know that someone is anxious to see you, to flirt with you. etc..
2006-12-08 02:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by allissahottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you like the attention! every girl loves to be complimented, you know that. and if your boyfriend is not giving you that kind of attention everyday then it could be why you look forward to it...weigh this out because you say that your happy with your boyfriend and then you said that he lives miles away and you cant wait to talk to this guy at work....so i would think about what your current relationship is lacking...;)
2006-12-08 02:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, I think you have a little crush. Its flattering to have someone flirt with you especially if you are attracted to them. I wouldn't think too much about it because as of now, its harmless. If the subject of dating or even talking outside the office comes up then you have a decision to make.
2006-12-08 02:47:27 · answer #4 · answered by ←Shea→ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him? If you feel more close to your boyfriend, tell this guy you already have one but you can still be friends.
2006-12-08 02:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like flirting, which there is nothing wrong with it, just make sure you keep its safe flirting before you go and hurt others
2006-12-08 02:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by zoilaciri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋