One of my male cousins is now 32 years old and is single up to now. He doesn't even have a stable girlfriend yet and always thinks that no girl likes him, he's now desperate for marriage. What can he do?
2006-12-07 18:22:42 · 13 answers · asked by williep6845 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't understand why he is desperate for marriage. Don't he know he can wait on God to find him the right wife? He don't need to worry about woman liking him. Trust me there is somebody for everybody out here. For him to prepare for marriage, all he have take care of his self. Make sure his life is together and that he is headed in the right direction.
2006-12-07 18:41:43 · answer #1 · answered by HOOD RAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be really easy for him. There are tons of women out there who are just as desperate to get married. Piece of cake. I would be willing to bet that out of the first 10 single women he asked out on a date, at least 5 would say yes, and of those 5, if he proposed 3-6 months later, 3 or 4 would say yes, just because they want to get married.
2006-12-07 18:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it, with a 66% divorce rate in this nation, and of those, 20% are admittedly unhappy, marriage is thankfully becoming a thing of the past. Yet millions continue to throw away their dreams and goals, and trap themselves. He needs to focus on something else to dedicate his life too. Be a man, say no to monotony... er, monogamy. (SAME thing really...)
2006-12-07 18:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by united_nations_pilot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save money. I mean it. Everyone wants stability. If you can't manage your money, no one is going to help you manage it. It's going to just get worse down the road.
Money is a big factor in marriage. Money causes divorce all the time. So save up. Besides women are attracted to men with common sense and monetary stability.
2006-12-07 18:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by MissileMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to know what qualities he is looking for (e.g., kindness, her stuff together, etc), and stay away from those who don't have those qualities. He also needs to figure out what has been keeping him from dating up to this point. If you are aware of what that might be (e.g., shyness), let him know (gently), and support him if you can.
2006-12-07 18:27:29 · answer #5 · answered by kathryn3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he desperate? Good personality, looking for girls in the right places, not shy, good dresser, good .... JUST tell him to keep his chin up or go hire someone for the night! That will do it!
2006-12-07 18:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a deep breath and go to local bookstore and get copy of Karma sutra and then write down exactly what he is looking for in a wife then go to a place to meet her.
2006-12-07 18:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by mennispennington 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the matchmaking agencies. They would be able to help and match both profiles professonally,,,
2006-12-07 18:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you going and ruin you life for??? sorry bro but not cuz i want to jump of a bridge makes me want to go do it...there's a type for everythin, but not cuz you are desperate...give it time, you will know when you are ready
2006-12-07 18:26:57 · answer #9 · answered by Darksied 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he should visit some kind of marriage agency it would be best
2006-12-07 18:27:10 · answer #10 · answered by style beauty 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋