online dating has become more and more popular nowadays..ive personally know someone who really have fallen in love and now shes happily maried..but if you tried online dating..you dont know who is real there are some you would meet who would make you feel like youre the most special girl in his world like he would call you up to 3x a day international calls,would chat with you 3 hours everyday..and at some point would send you some stuff (even money) and when you feel that you have fallen in love he would just run off..like you wouldnt hear anything from him.. well i just wanna hear your opinion..thanks : )
2006-12-07 18:47:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A good rule of thumb is to not assume that the relationship starts until you actually meet in person. Then, when you do meet, it's as if you were on a first date, and things can go from there.
2006-12-07 18:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the hype of online dating. just happened to me recently too. they get all excited and talk to you all the time, and then as soon as there is some strong connection they take off. most people are on there just to date and have fun, nothing serious. and then there are those few that want to have a relationship and find the one. sometimes people are just trying to get to know you as much and as fast as possible to explore thier options, and if there is something about you they are not looking for then they move on. and they dont have to explain why or even say goodbye. its online, so people dont have to be held accountable anymore.
2006-12-07 18:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if the guy is more interested in YOU than in your body and things don't go all physical as fast as everyone in movies and TV does, you have a good chance. Get to know each other before you get to know each other's bodies. And if it doesn't work out... you still keep yourself for the real Mr. Right.
2006-12-07 18:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by reasonmusic 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont trust them.
I mean im sure there are lots of good people who really are looking for true love or friendships etc but i think there are two many weirdo's on them too, you never know whether to take them seriously. My advice is stay away from them cause there is a lot of RISK!!!!!
2006-12-07 18:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by yahoooooooooo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you can't know... go to a bar and meet some real people. The online thing doesn't work out WAAY more than it does.
2006-12-07 18:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
my friend used to have an internet soul mate or we can say boyfriend. he also call her very often(international call) and deliver birthday cake and crystal chain to her for her birthday. he even come to meet her......
but the truth is: one day his wife call my friend,he already married!!! he lied!!! after that, my friend try to avoid him
so, be careful
2006-12-07 18:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by vandoren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Don't worry about dating.
2006-12-07 18:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by united_nations_pilot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree to meet him somewhere public...if he shows, then you know he was serious. If he doesn't, well...
2006-12-07 18:53:21 · answer #8 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as true love...everything is fake...
2006-12-07 19:30:38 · answer #9 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋