2006-12-07 18:25:11 · 22 answers · asked by Jonathan R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my experience, when I meet a nice guy, he is married to a friend of mine or has a crush on someone else, never me. It is not that women intentionally turn nice guys down. It is just that there are so many men out there that are wolves in sheep's clothing, they mess it up for the good guys. After trying and opening your heart to a man that starts off being wonderful and turns into an asshole, you tend to be jaded. I know it is not fair. But hey, it goes both ways. I am a good woman and the only men I have met in the past year of being single have been married, engaged, crazy, possessive, a wanna be thug, a wanna be baller, a " one day I am going to be somebody but til then gimme a dollar" type of guy and/or down right wrong.
Sorry but the answer to your question is, when a good woman comes along, notice her instead of looking at the girl with the flashing breasts and tight clothes to show their booties or whatever. Those are women on the prowl. They are in divide and conquer mode. Recognize the signs and look beyond them to the lady sitting to your right with her legs crossed sipping on a drink she bought herself. The one with the smile on her face and the soft hands and professional presence. Good Luck.
2006-12-07 18:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Lady 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because they don't "really" want a nice guy as the rest of the guys know it as.
First of all, most women do not really know what they want at any one time anyways as it changes from day to day.
Secondly, where is the challenge in a nice guy? To most girls, its boring.
They need/want the unexpected/unpredictable/cheeky/unreasonable even if they do not want to admit it as it would portray a bad image of them in public.
Thirdly, the nice guy thing only comes into the picture when they want to settle down and have family and babies and need someone " Nice" then who is low risk for the sake of feeling secure and also safety for the baby.
Until then, do not believe what they tell you.
2006-12-07 18:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mark n 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nice guys aren't taken seriously until women are truly ready to settle down. Until then they date jerks and users. However, sometimes nice guys have a tendency to allow themselves to be treated as a doormat. Women find this repulsive.
I married the typical "nice guy". I have dated enough jerks. I knew he was the ONE when he asked me if there was anything on my hard drive I wanted to save before he swiped it. (None of my other BF's had ever asked me that, I just had to get new stuff every time.)
2006-12-07 18:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because, what girls seem to forget is that they expect the whole package...a really ggolooking guy with a nice personality...but these guys rarely exist as they tend to be shallow and use women...the nice guys are quiet and aren't as goodlooking so they opt out....also these guys might be known as the geek or the socially inept and girls just expect too much...as girls also tend to be shallow....i believe good guys are the way to go as looks could always go away or fade...don't worry you will find someone nice :)
2006-12-07 18:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by head2toe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When there are too many nice guys, then it's hard to choose.
Every man tries to be a nice guy in order to make friends with the attractive lady.
To attract attention of an attractive lady you need to be a nice guy and have lots of money too. Or else, there is little difference between you and a hundred other guys in her eyes.
2006-12-07 18:31:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
We value everything in direct relation to how much work we are required to put into it. "Nice" guys tend to require no effort on the women's part, so the ladies have exactly that amount of interest in them--none.
2006-12-07 18:45:45 · answer #6 · answered by Sage B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, because nice guys are basically nice! they show you how much they like you. they are honest, sweet, responsible and the list goes on... some girls like challenges. guys might think that they're the only ones who like challenges. girls also do. when a girl feels that the guy is a sure ball, then she begins to lose interest since she knows that the guy is just there. sometimes, it's good to play games also.. but make sure that it's a healthy one!
2006-12-07 18:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by annika23 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-05 01:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by geddings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be like that, I was scared. I had a wall up of no trust etc. Nice guys are more...I do not know any words at the moment, But BAD guys, we know we can always get rid of. They are fun for awhile and then you get rid of them!
2006-12-07 18:33:48 · answer #9 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That question has baffled me for many years. I've seen women stand by men who beat them, defend those same men, then wonder why their life is 'not worth it'.
You want to impress women? Live the stereotypical 'caveman drags woman to his cave by her hair' or the controlling 'make her feel like a piece ofd sh*t'...
Or get rich
2006-12-07 18:34:50 · answer #10 · answered by thrag 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋