she also has a girlfriend, and like 3 other guys she's trying to be with, now don't get me wrong i still love her and always will, but what should i tell her? without hurting her feelings, or making seem im turning my back on her as a friend, what a tangled web we weave.
2006-12-07 18:40:04 · 7 answers · asked by ish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, don't get back in that relationship. And tell her you have a lot of things going since your break up and now you don't have the time to invest in the relationship right now.
2006-12-07 18:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by Vivian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually people break up for good reason, because it didn't work. Let her know that you love her and will always be her friend and that you're there for her but right now all you can be is her friend. This may hurt her feelings a little, but she's obviously not going to be that hurt, because it's not like she waiting around for you and pining over you if she's involved with several other men. If she still cares about you then she will come around and realize that you can still be just friends.
2006-12-08 02:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by maggiemae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask her where your supposed to fit in! I think she will get the hint very nicely than! If for some odd reason she still doesn't, ask her how she would feel waiting in that L O N G line!! Tell her how much you adore her, but your cool with long lines!
2006-12-08 03:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're considering it, I cannot relate. Good luck. You can support her emotionally without dating her. If she wants to know why, just say "you have a girlfriend and like 3 other guys you're trying to be with".
2006-12-08 02:43:56 · answer #4 · answered by kathryn3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that your not going to share her with NO one. Give her some B.S. story about being selfish and not wants to share.
2006-12-08 02:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like the sex? Go for it. Tired of it? Say, "try the other dudes..."
2006-12-08 02:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by united_nations_pilot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep it REAL with her!
2006-12-08 02:44:03 · answer #7 · answered by HOOD RAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋