She is in the U.K. I am in Thailland.I want her to know that I am concerned.We have three children from our marriage.Do I write to her or go back?It really is not easy to decide.
2006-12-07 18:42:32 · 8 answers · asked by jjinbkk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would go take care of her and be with her in her last days, unless she did something bad that caused you two to get divorced(infidelity, abuse, ...)
2006-12-07 18:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I'm incredibly sorry to hear that awful news, that is really sad. You're not married anymore, so I don't think you have to move to the UK to be with her in her last months. But maybe you two are still quite close. In that case, try to go visit her. A special trip to go see her and to comfort her and the kids (unless they already live with you or have moved out), would mean so much more than a letter. Let her know she has your support. Best of luck with your decision.
2006-12-08 02:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by jennabeanski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your ex wife if you have carried on with your life then let it be. I would call and let her know that your prayers are with her
really ask the kids if they think you should write or visit.
2006-12-08 02:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is that your only option? What about phoning her and talking to her about it? You could ask her what she'd like you to do...
I'm sorry to hear about her illness, by the way.
2006-12-08 02:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your children are small ,if you are not now,
you will probably be their caregiver, if they are grown they may still want your support, I say go and be available to them and her..
2006-12-08 02:49:29 · answer #5 · answered by jst4pat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go back, and help her, and be there for your children as well.... shes there for your children right you been there for your children, when shes gone.
2006-12-08 02:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are the kids? make your decision based on their needs.
2006-12-08 03:50:20 · answer #7 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
telehone ? is that an option ?
2006-12-08 02:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋