His name is Kalani ...
were close friends, nothing more... but we kiss and do things that boyfriends and girlfriends would usually do. He treats me to dinners and buys me small little gifts every once in a while.
I'm just a little confused because i don't think i like him more than a friend and i dont know how he feels. There is a guy that wants to go out with me and i like him, its just that i don't know how Kalani would feel about it.
i just don't know how he feels, is it just a friends w/ benefits kinda thing or is it more to him?? I know i should be asking him this but i'm just a little worried, what if he isn't serious about it and doesn't mind and im making a big deal of it... won't it be a little awkward.
What should i do ???? I how do you think he feels ... do you think he likes me more than just a friend?
2006-12-07 18:26:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should ask him, and you don't have to make a big deal out of it. You should just ask him if he considers the relationship exclusive. If you don't have this conversation, this is going to create inner turmoil for you, and you won't enjoy that other date.
2006-12-07 18:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by - 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm just a shot in the dark here, but try asking him. For pete sakes grow up and talk to the dude. Yeah it may be arkward but hell, isn't asking people on the internet what they think when they do not even know you kinda a waste of time. When eventually I am going to guess you will have to just ask him to get a real answer!
2006-12-07 18:31:08 · answer #2 · answered by murtle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fooling yourself. You really expect me to believe that you didn't think that this guy regards you as more than a friend? If you think that friends kiss on the lips and buy each other tokens of affection - you are naive. I think you are scared to commit and you need to tell this guy that he's wasting his time. So, Yes you naive little girl he likes you (probably even loves you). Yes, you need to tell him how you feel and ask him to honestly tell you how he feels. You are truly stupid for thinking that this guy just wants to be your friend. You are confused, scared of commitment and In my opinion I think you are afraid of being hurt - yes it's nice that he does all these things for you but if you don't label it as a relationship; the responsibilities that are attached to a relationship does not apply to you. Think before you act. God Bless and Good Luck.
2006-12-07 18:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta set tings straight wit' Kalani first cuz you never know if bumbai he going get jealous or something.
Good Luck
2006-12-07 18:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are close enough to KISS and STUFF, then you are close enough to see where he wants to take THIS. You may want to ask yourself if thei si something you even want. Doesn't sound like it to me. I think you are using Kalani.
2006-12-07 18:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax it sounds like friends w/benefits so go on and check new guy out and then talk about you date w/K and you will get all your answers w/o asking one.
2006-12-07 18:31:09 · answer #6 · answered by mennispennington 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to you, he's a friend with benefits, to him... who knows? Only he does
2006-12-07 18:29:26 · answer #7 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can say that!? Did he never said, that he loves you?
2006-12-07 18:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by Nouhime 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋