I asked a new girl at work out to coffee. Havent spoke to her much as she's in a different department. She said she would get back to me, she didnt, and a day later I left for another city. I was there for 4 weeks and I sent her email from there. No reply. I have taken the hint.
Two ques:
1. How should I react when I see her in the office? Should I just put my head down and keep walking?
2. I bought a house and will be having the house warming ceremony next week. Should I invite her?
2006-12-07 17:48:16 · 18 answers · asked by RP 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. walk with your head up
2. invite her and then socialize with other hotter co-worker or even friends that are not from work.
You've got to show her you're a confident man. Don't let a small hiccup of no email reply get in your way
2006-12-07 17:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by sunsetconmartini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Just react as normal, don't look too desperate or uneasy! It affects how she sees you.. Why not strike up a conversation with her and show her your personality, make her feel comfortable being around you! Exchange facts about each other and maybe you'll know why she wasn't answering your mail and stuff!
2. And if the conversation goes on well! Then ask her if she would like to come for the house warming!
2006-12-07 17:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by silverbutterflies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walking by her with your head down is taking the highschool way. Its just childish, as much as you feel like crap for her truning you down. You are going to move on and not show it. Its not going to help you to put a sad face on. You should still see if yous can be friends ask her to the house warming party and see if she comes, just dont expect her to come for sure, and dont make a big deal about it, look for some new girls to come as well that you might be interested in.
2006-12-07 17:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SURE invite her and invite several others that way she doesn't know you are just try to get some closer. Maybe she was just unsure about you and she might give you a try. But if she doesn't there wont be near as much awkwardness between you and her if there are others that attend. But remember have fun maybe some one else that you have never noticed will come and you and her might just hit it off.
2006-12-07 18:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by jbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she just may not be that into you...I hate to sound harsh as you seem like a sensitive guy but...
I would leave the ball in her court...if she lets it bounce, there's your answer...
I would play it cool, say hi and be nonchalant, leave it at that...
don't bother inviting her, I wouldn't put that kind of pressure on something that is supposed to be a good rite of passage for you...you will have enough to think about otherwise with getting a house ready for guests...
2006-12-07 17:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by nackawicbean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should act normal around her, say hi when you see her and it may b a good idea to invite her to the party, maybe she was busy when you went away or anything, if you extend the invitation the its up to her what she wants to do, if she doesn't show then you know she's not interested
2006-12-07 17:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. always keep your head up dude!!! :p
2. you should invite her and show her but since she oviously does not seem interested in you just let her be... there are many fish in the sea is the saying.... you will eventually find some one dont let this incident get you all worried... i know this isnt much coming from a 17 yr old but hey.... im a college sophmore so i think i either matured fast or i dont know... well anyways good luk :)
2006-12-07 17:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by luis070189 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as react to her don't and never put your head down...enjoy your new house as for inviting her H*** No everyone else though... she is not interested and should have been woman enough to say that ...so treat her as the child she is and ground her to her house/apartment....
2006-12-07 17:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by mennispennington 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You could say a friendly hello and have a chat if she decides to talk. If not, just go on with your day.
2. I think it would be awkward for the both of you if you invited her.
2006-12-07 17:52:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Act like you never asked her out. If you act weird around her, it will make the situation more uncomfortable for both of you. Act like you forgot you even asked her out, and after a week or so you really will forget!!
2. No, do not ask her to come. She will think it's just another tactic to get close to her. If she brings the subject up (which I doubt), tell her that she is welcome to come by, and leave it at that.
2006-12-07 17:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by Joni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋