Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

We are living a long distance relationship and we are relying on you to decide. Basically, if I get more "yes" in the next 24 hrs. then I get some hot pics. Help a brotha out!!!!

2006-12-07 17:10:26 · 22 answers · asked by Dave 1 in Singles & Dating

What's wrong with me?

2006-12-07 17:09:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated my girlfriend for nine months, and yes i am young to be worrying about these things, regaurdless, i've fallen in love and I would do anything to get it back. We tried things back together for a little bit, but she said it just wasnt the same. There isnt any other particular reason she broke up with me. I always surprised her with things i would make and flowers, I kept things fun, we hung out once a week. and the past month she seemed really irritated with me, but things still seemed to be going ok. I know i am a nice guy, because i've never cheated on her, and im quick to forgive her about anything, and i'd give her anything to make her happy. I just want her to know that, and i've told her, but it still hasnt sunk in. She wants space, but its very hard for me. I love this girl to the ends of the earth, but she says she doesn't see us back together in the future, just as good friends, and she said that last part very inconfidently. is there something i can do to get her back?

2006-12-07 17:08:00 · 5 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Singles & Dating

he just crushed my love sick heart.. how do i put it back together...?

make me feel better...

2006-12-07 17:07:51 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does that make any sense?

2006-12-07 17:07:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok. how to explain this on a web page:
this guy that i was totally in love with and was the best girlfriend to betrayed me and i found out by one of his friends. after i broke up with him and confronted him about the infidelity...after that he proposed to me. i declined the ring and told him that i would contiue to be his girlfriend. within the next month i was breaking up with him and then getting back with him and was treating him like a yo-yo. and during a break he met a girl. however i finally told him that i was ready to be with him and i was going to forgive and forget. HOWEVER, i found out he continued an illicit relationship with her after he asked me to move in with him and once again asked me to be his wife... we went for weeks without talking and he called me yesterday and asked to be my friend., however he asked me out on a date again and wants to obviously be with me once again. oncef a chaeater, always a cheater? please sombody have an answer to my problem!

2006-12-07 17:05:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The law of large numbers argues that, when a large enough sample is drawn, the sample value is closer and closer to the true value as the sample size and frequency increases, so therefore, could it also said to be true that, in order for you to find the counter part or your other half can only be closer to the true counter part by dating more?

2006-12-07 17:05:03 · 3 answers · asked by sunsetconmartini 2 in Singles & Dating

This is mainly to women...what would you do if the woman you caught with your man acts like "well, its not my problem", and just tries to walk past you to leave.???.(a.k.a, gwenth in sliding doors).
I dont know if i am just too angry but i wouldnt be able to contain myself...i would lose it...would anyone else do the same???

2006-12-07 17:04:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf of 3years broke up with me over 5-months ago. It was rocky towards the end; constant arguing. I wasn't perfect; overprotective and smothering at times. I never thought she would end it. But she did-claiming she had enuf and didn't want to be in a relationship with me or anyone. Initially, she stopped all contact with me. However we ended up seeing each other a few times and were intimate. That has all stopped. She has now asked me not to contact her; I struggle with this. I can go a week with no contact, then I go on a binge. I contact her repeatedly, phone, text, email, she doesnt respond, but I do this anyways. It;s been 5mos. and I'v been on a few dates but nothing sticks. I'm plaugued with thoughts of her. I barely get through a day without being upset. Through friends I have found out she is socially active, partying a lot, but not seeing anyone. I clearly am still not over her; but she is way over me. She's not comin back. But I still feel compelled to hear her voice. why?

2006-12-07 17:03:15 · 10 answers · asked by jackrabb1616 1 in Singles & Dating

I 've been going out with this boy for about 2 weeks and I think i'm fallin for his best friend...How should I tell my bf I wanna see other people?

2006-12-07 17:02:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 17:01:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 17:00:56 · 8 answers · asked by jonas_tripps_79 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'd like to give something very romantic and special for a girl that I really like.

2006-12-07 17:00:21 · 12 answers · asked by love 3 in Singles & Dating

Alright, last night i was hanging out with my best guy friend. We were making some jokes about another friend of ours that comes over to his apartment all the time and eats all his food. So, out of no where he tells me (my best friend) that I could/should make dinner for him for the rest of his life. I was kind of dumb founded and didn't know what to say. I responded with "well, you future wife might have a problem with that." His response was "ah, you could marry me, then there wouldn't be a problem." Now I don't really know what to think. Should I just forget about it? Should I say something to him about it? I need some good advice.
Thanks
Meg

2006-12-07 17:00:04 · 14 answers · asked by rhiannon87 2 in Friends

I got thyroid problems when I was 18 years old, this illness is very debilitating and physically painful, I was just starting my live and was really scared and sad.
I needed a lot of love and support from my family, unfortunatelly my mom was told I was clinically depressed, I know I am not mentally ill, I had the nomal discouragement that comes from suffering and ongoing illness for years and years.
Ive tried to talk to mom but doesnt understand, she thinks the doctor opinions have more weight than mine.
Her treatment is offensive.
What do I do? I want to cut of the relationship with her cause it hurst but it hurts not to have a realtionship with her at the same time cause I want a mom.

2006-12-07 16:59:50 · 10 answers · asked by Alejandra 1 in Family

A guy I was dating asked me the following:

Do you think people can make love to one person but be thinking about another?

I said: I think it's possible, sure.

He says: I could never do that.

What is he trying to tell me here? That he could never cheat or that he can only think about the person that he is with at that moment? Or is he just asking weird questions? What do you think because I thought it was kinda weird...

2006-12-07 16:59:31 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

i already got her a ring and i plan on proposing but i need more. i dont wanna jsut give ehr that.

2006-12-07 16:59:18 · 30 answers · asked by joslynndenny 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok...this guy I met is everything I ever wanted. We are really good friends, but he has no clue I feel anything for him. Aaand...here's the other problem. Much bigger problem. He has a girlfriend! NOW WHAT. *sigh*...

2006-12-07 16:57:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 16:56:52 · 4 answers · asked by heartspiritdivine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My brother seems to think that having sex in relationships is what they should be about. He doesn't understand that there's more to it than just doing the beast on two backs... anyone's opinion is greatly appreciated....

2006-12-07 16:56:13 · 17 answers · asked by g13player 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a step son that lives with my husband and I , The step son does not want to work and the father is to scared to put is foot down , so the other day i did it and got in trouble , i was told to stay out of his business .He is also on probation for drugs and concealed weapon charges . while he was in jail he wrote his dad and told him that he wanted their old relationship back and he wanted to get away from the drug. Well to find out from his mom hehad been calling around trying to find out where he could get some drugs. and the other day the probation dept. came and found him with some prescriptions meds laying on the couch where he was taking a nap . I do not know what to do the father is so very protective and gets mean when anyone says anything about him , some of the neibors have turned my step son in for waving a gun around outside of the house, and they will not admit it to my husband ,i really do not know how my step son can be around guns being on probation.

2006-12-07 16:55:59 · 13 answers · asked by dee d 3 in Family

How do I ask a girl to be my girl friend? What should I say? And how should I say it? What if I'm not confident to say it face-to-face?

2006-12-07 16:55:50 · 14 answers · asked by Jared C 1 in Singles & Dating

My partner and i both work in manager positions so are pretty flat out yet i do 90% of the cooking/cleaning. How should i approach this issue? thanks

2006-12-07 16:55:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY SISTER IS 22 YEARS OLD AND SHE IS OVER WEIGHT ANDHER FACE IS SO BEAUTIFUL THAT KILLS ME SEEING HER SO FAT AND SHE HATES IT TOO BUT NEEDS HELP AND I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DOAND THE OTHER THING IS THAT SHE EVEN PUT HER HAIR IN PONY TAIL THAT ON ONE SIDE OF HER HAIR IS LOSING HAIR.PLEASE HELP

2006-12-07 16:54:44 · 16 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Family

In movies and even ice skating and real life, guys are seen many times lifting and carrying girls, not because they are demanded but just for fun it seems.I'm only in high school, and for no reason at my guy friends will just come behind me and pick me up for no reason. When I was sitting in my guy friend's desk, he wanted to sit there so he simply picked up the ENTIRE desk (the chair I was sitting in was connected to it) and moved me across the room to free his spot. He could have just asked me to move. This is not only done with teens, grown up guys will run and pick up their wives when they have good news or something. Do y'all enjoy doing this? Why or why not ? Why do guys enjoying lifting girls in the first place? Do you pick up girls alot?

2006-12-07 16:54:41 · 9 answers · asked by susie q 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy n i think he don't like the same way i do. I just feel like my heart is broken into little pieces. dunno how to cope with it. Because lately i've thinkin but i might not to give up on guys because i've liked guys n most don't feel the way.

2006-12-07 16:54:27 · 9 answers · asked by LiL'BiNt 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy a little over a year ago and we dated for 8 months so I guess we were in a relationship but things had gotten too intense and his expectations were very high, I was very busy with school, work, and being a single mom, we also live two hours away each other, we remained friends and talked occasionally. There were hurt feelings he basically resented me. This past summer I was accepted to a nursing school near where he lived and I thought maybe we could start over with me living closer but I feel like he is using me since I have been here. We are talking but it is not consistent, its off and on. When were together its all good, we have fun, we have good sex but then sometimes he doesn't return my phone calls, not all the time but once is enough! I dont think that he trusts me. I have told him how I feel. It has not made a difference, I was just over his house 2 days ago. Now he is not calling me back, but when he does call he acts like nothings wrong. Is he using me for sex

2006-12-07 16:54:15 · 6 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

I mean she not be able to date anyone until she is 18

2006-12-07 16:52:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think of them? Are they wife/girlfriend potential?

2006-12-07 16:52:45 · 9 answers · asked by panicky25! 2 in Singles & Dating

The last time I talked to my boyfriend we had a great conversation and we even talked about my next visit (we live in different places). Nothing seemed out of the ordinary and he told me he loved me, etc. But since then (two weeks ago) he has not called me or answered any of my phone calls. Two weeks isn't too big of a deal for me except for the fact that I left three messages, one even asking him to call me back.

Background: We just had a rough patch for about a month with communication and he thought that I broke up with him, but I had thought that we resolved it. About a month ago we resolved the whole misunderstanding though. He did say he needed to think a little bit though (which I understand due to the circumstances)...and I think he is the type that needs space for that...does that seem okay or should I be worried about now?

What could be up? In the past he has mentioned me moving to his city in the future and in the last convo even hinted at marriage...I'm confused...

2006-12-07 16:51:51 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating