I 've been going out with this boy for about 2 weeks and I think i'm fallin for his best friend...How should I tell my bf I wanna see other people?
2006-12-07 17:02:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should be ashamed of yourself.
2006-12-07 22:14:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, you sound so young. A tip for the future, you should definately stay away from the best friend. Friendships will prove to be more important in the future and you don't want to be the girl the gets "passed around the ring of guy friends". You could potentially cause a rift between to two boys, and in the future, you'll see that the girls who do that are notoriously... not good people... to put it generally. Choose wisely from now on and be honest in situations where you can't avoid confrontation.
2006-12-07 17:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by throughthebackyards 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. Say it like it is. I'm sorry but I find (insert best friends name here) more attractive. We have dated for 2 weeks and I had a great time. But I am going to go after (Best Friend). We can still be friends though!
Guys love that line! "we can still be friends!" They just love it!
2006-12-07 17:07:50 · answer #3 · answered by Mike H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to work on your emotional issues first, before you even consider seeing anyone. You are so not stable! Going out with someone for all of 2 WKS and then LEAVING THEM for THEIR BEST FRIEND? I am sorry to say you are on a route to disaster and for your sake I hope you get yourself in order before you get deeper into trouble.
I don't believe in leaving someone for another person, let alone for their best friend. If you don't want someone, you would have reasons to leave them even before you get attracted to somebody else. Read here about infidelity: http://www.relationship-affairs.com
2006-12-07 17:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHA two weeks?!? How old are you, 13???
Anyways, yeah just say you like someone else and not him anymore. And then go with his pal. Just be direct about it, us guys hate all the subtle half-truth indirect garbage you throw at us- we think in direct terms, unlike girls.
You may ruin their friendship with each other, but I'm sure you don't care
2006-12-07 17:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh... if you don't like your boyfriend that much, then yes, end it. but, don't expect his best friend to necessarily be willing to mess up their friendship. that would be sort of selfish on your part. does his best friend have feelings for you? you are going to have a huge mess on your hands. it is most likely infatuation, so, consider that.
2006-12-07 17:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by christy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in most cases i would say that you should just tell him, but if its his best friend then i dont know....thats never a good idea.
2006-12-07 17:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by relee03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2006-12-07 17:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by babyziana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋