I dated my girlfriend for nine months, and yes i am young to be worrying about these things, regaurdless, i've fallen in love and I would do anything to get it back. We tried things back together for a little bit, but she said it just wasnt the same. There isnt any other particular reason she broke up with me. I always surprised her with things i would make and flowers, I kept things fun, we hung out once a week. and the past month she seemed really irritated with me, but things still seemed to be going ok. I know i am a nice guy, because i've never cheated on her, and im quick to forgive her about anything, and i'd give her anything to make her happy. I just want her to know that, and i've told her, but it still hasnt sunk in. She wants space, but its very hard for me. I love this girl to the ends of the earth, but she says she doesn't see us back together in the future, just as good friends, and she said that last part very inconfidently. is there something i can do to get her back?
2006-12-07 17:08:00 · 5 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, my advice, should you chose to take it, is going to suck. If you really want her back then leave her alone. Don't date anyone while you guys aren't together, but don't stop loving her, I promise she'll never stop loving you. But just give her space and allow her to clear her head, that's all she probably needs to do. And when you guys do start getting back together, start off as friends, don't rush into anything. If you start off as friends you'll smoothly make that transition from friends to a couple a lot nicer and more comfortably without either of you being smothered.
2006-12-07 17:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by silence_within_chaos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SOUND LIKE A NICE GUY, BUT YOU NEED TO RESPECT
HER WISHES FOR SPACE. SOMETIME THINGS DONT WORK
OUT LIKE YOU PLAN IT TO . TIME TO MOVE ON AND FIND
THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE SHE OUT THERE, JUST GIVE
HER THE SPACE THAT SHE NEED, AND LEAVE IT ALONG'
IF IT MEANT TO HAPPEN IT WILL BUT DONT JUST SIT AROUND WAIT, GET OUT AND ENJOY LIFE. TAKE CARE.
2006-12-07 17:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her space for now and just let her know your there for her no matter what. since she broke up with you try not to be clinging at this point just act like it doesnt bother you. usually tactics like that work
2006-12-07 17:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is over you, you need to get over her. Don't be chasing after her; you'll miss the right girl in the process.
http://www.relationship-affairs.com/your-ex.html
2006-12-07 17:12:38 · answer #4 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, if u love her let her go..if she comes back she's urs forever..if she dont, she was never urs to begin with....
2006-12-07 17:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by a divine dream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋