The last time I talked to my boyfriend we had a great conversation and we even talked about my next visit (we live in different places). Nothing seemed out of the ordinary and he told me he loved me, etc. But since then (two weeks ago) he has not called me or answered any of my phone calls. Two weeks isn't too big of a deal for me except for the fact that I left three messages, one even asking him to call me back.
Background: We just had a rough patch for about a month with communication and he thought that I broke up with him, but I had thought that we resolved it. About a month ago we resolved the whole misunderstanding though. He did say he needed to think a little bit though (which I understand due to the circumstances)...and I think he is the type that needs space for that...does that seem okay or should I be worried about now?
What could be up? In the past he has mentioned me moving to his city in the future and in the last convo even hinted at marriage...I'm confused...
2006-12-07 16:51:51 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm....doesn't sound good.Does he have a history of cheating?Listen to your intuition.
2006-12-07 16:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Space is a necessity for both people in a relationship. We can't read your boyfriend's mind, so give him some space. Meanwhile look around yourself and build the life you've dreamed about. When and if Mr. Distant wakes up and calls, you can decide whether he fits in with your dreams. Enjoy your life and surround yourself with good people who care about you.
2006-12-07 17:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by chattykathy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds weird to me, don't call him, and what more space does he need if you both live in different places..let him look for you girl..ignore his calls and you will see him begging you and looking for you..sounds to me that he has someone else he is spending time with...don't rush into marriage too quick...you could be making a big mistake...
2006-12-07 16:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by qdrama1956 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know....my boyfriend and i were apart for about 9 months, but we talked everyday..sometimes several times a day. if you are truthfully in a valid relationship he should give you respect by calling you back, at least. you should ask him want he wants. you need to communicate. don't sit around and worry about it, just ask. the answer may not be what you were hoping for, but at least you won't be waiting around.
2006-12-07 16:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by tahoegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE YOU AND HE JUST NEED TO SIT DOWN AND
TALK TO EACH OTHER TO FIGURE OUT WHAT REALLY GOING IN THIS SITUATION, IT HARD TO MAINTAIN ANYTHING
WHEN BOTH OF YOU ARE IN DIFFERENT PLACE AS YOU STATED THAT WHY COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY TO
A BETTER UNDERSTANDING.
2006-12-07 16:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to contact him. The cat didn't get his tongue, he's still capable of speaking. If he cares enough he will.
2006-12-07 16:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and ask what gives? Sounds like he may be difting from you.
2006-12-07 16:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by ramralph34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he works in retail it shouldn't really be workwise this time of year.
2006-12-07 16:55:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋