This is mainly to women...what would you do if the woman you caught with your man acts like "well, its not my problem", and just tries to walk past you to leave.???.(a.k.a, gwenth in sliding doors).
I dont know if i am just too angry but i wouldnt be able to contain myself...i would lose it...would anyone else do the same???
2006-12-07 17:04:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just so everyone knows, the guy wouldnt get out of it lightly...my question was more aimed at how you would react to the chick trying to walk past you looking smug.
2006-12-09 13:22:10 · update #1
that ***** would be on the ground before she even got up!!!
2006-12-07 17:16:32 · answer #1 · answered by a divine dream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Happened to me. I walked in and they were actually already sleeping (having finished other business no doubt). I turned on the light. They didn't wake up. I had been dating him for 2.5 years and we were fine (so I thought!). Anyway ... they didn't wake up. I just looked at them for a second because it felt so strange! THen I just gently shook his foot. He sat up in bed and looked really shocked (like he thought he was dreaming ... because we lived 3 hours from each other so we never just showed up unannounced). He looked at me then in slow motion looked over at the girl (she was still asleep). I didn't yell or raise my voice, I just said (smiling at him) .."Hi babe, yes, I'm here". At that point the girl woke up, sat up half way, and then lay back down and put her arm over her face. So I just said "okay, amazing... I just don't understand why you would be decietful and waste my time. I am so glad I came here and saw this or you would have just been at my house in the morning and I would have never known! I thought you were acting strange. So now I know. The reason I didn't bother with the girl is because: 1. If she knew that he had a long time girlfriend but slept with him anyway, then she was just a skank and they deserved each other. 2. He might have lied to her too (maybe she didn't know about me). Anyway... of course he called and called and apologized but it changed everything the minute I saw that with my own eyes. I need loyalty and trust - he did what he did - he ruined it. I forgave him because I believe that he really was sorry for having done what he did ... however, I could never forget something like that. So rather than try and just become resentful or untrusting - I knew we could not stay together any longer.
2006-12-08 01:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by lesliejay63 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know exactly because Ive never been there, thank God. I think it would depend.
If she is just trying to walk past me I would call the police and say theres a stranger in my house. Keep her there til they come and then deal with the cheater.
I guess I would like to punch her in the face or something but Im kinda small and would probably lose a fight if it came to that.
2006-12-08 01:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by M'Lyn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had this happen
I just stood there and said "oh i see your busy would you like me to come back another time" he nor she commented and just layed there, so I said HELLO answer me? He said i'm sorry , I said yes I think I'll help you with this decision, as she started to get up, I said no no no you can have him. I am worth more than that you seem perfect for him **** She just gave me a dirty look, and I said seeeeeeee yaaaaaa slammed the door and NEVER spoke to him again. He even tried to call and either I would not answer or when I did I would not say anything.
That just is bad to see it made me sick!
2006-12-08 01:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I walked in on my man with another woman.... I wouldmuster my sweetest smile and say very quietly to the woman.... "Could you be a dear and excuse us. It seems my man and I have some talking to do"
That is guaranteed to freak a bloke out more than anything else you could do or say.... and then stand there and watch as she dresses to leave once she has gone.... simply sit and say "okay what is your story?" to him. Maintain absolute cool and calm. and see where it leads....
You will be very surprised... at yourself and your man...
2006-12-08 01:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seem to be mad at the other women, be mad at ur man... he's the one thats in a relationship and he's the one that messed up. Now if the other women knew u and knew he was with someone, that is a different issue, i would confront her, but first i will confront my partner. As for the women for get about it, dont stoop urself to that level, and no violence cuz u might whoop her behind, but at the end who will loose will be u, so dont bother with her or him. make him pay for what he did to u, by making him see what he had and now he lost it. good luck....happy holidays
2006-12-08 01:20:23 · answer #6 · answered by gonzalezleon3022 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would probably be so stunned or upset i wouldnt really think about her. i would just be VERY upset with my bf. after though i would probably want to kill the both of them because 1) boyfriends an a$$ 2) that girl knew he wasn't single otherwise she would have reacted differently, and those girls deserve what they get for not caring about others.
2006-12-08 01:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been in that situation but after the shock horror, I would be very very wild but I can't say what I would do except maybe chuck all his stuff out the door
2006-12-08 01:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not exactly sure what I'd do, but it would be something along the lines of what you said. My sister once caught her boyfriend in bed with another guy and she threw a brick threw his window.
2006-12-08 01:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know i aint a girl but walk in and start laughing saying oh i see you found the penis....LOL I just thought of that one...LMAO..
2006-12-08 01:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by lepercaun2005 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋