how can i get my gf?

Question

to try swinging with me... we've been together for so long the sex has become boring and predictable....i need some excitement..some new pu.ssy

i do love my gf..and would never cheat... i'm just being honest

Answer 1

you need to talk with her...and see what she may be into. Just never force it on her, unless you want to end your relationship. But if your soooo bored that your resorting to unfaithful things, then its time for you to call it quits. But always TRY to make it better first!

Answer 2

Ask her. There is no way that you are going to force her into swinging, and looking for "some new pu.ssy" as you so beautifully put it, is not a reason to swing. Then you might as well dump her and get it over with. You just want to cheat on her with her permission. If you really wanted to get out of the sexual rut that you're in, there are other ways to do it - try sex in different places, in different positions, surprise her. Swinging for you is about being with other people, not trying to make things better with her. And if you want her permission for you to cheat, then I wouldn't even ask, because she will most likely dump your a$s.

Answer 3

You have burnt yourself out. It just isn't happening for you. You need the cure, but you are not sure that it's swinging. You just want to try swinging with your gf and if the swinging isn't the cure, you've still got your gf.

Push your Reset Button. You need to go back to basics and establish a basic relationship with your gf. Find out again what it is about her besides the sex that makes your relationship with her important. It may be that you need to have longer talks occassionally. Or take walks in pleasant places. Or do sports or sporting events together. Or...

I know you will get it together again...

Answer 4

I would say swinging is probably going to ruin your relationship in one way or another. When you open it up to that type of freedom, one of you is probably going to end up hooking up with someone on the side. You'll eventually break up. This is my opinion. Try watching erotic movies together and get lots of toys. This is a great way to spice up the relationship without opening up all those doors...

Answer 5

First you better really think about what you're saying. Have a serious talk with your spouse and make sure this is what both of you want and can handle. Make a list of do's and don'ts and stick to it. It's not for everyone. Me and my ex wife did this for over ten years and it was awesome but we stuck tour list of what not to do and what is allowed.

Answer 6

then just break up u arshole what sort of a guy are u ? just like all thoes other f...heads out their who think they are so good and can just dispose of women as they wish u dont deserve to be loved by any one just go sleep with a prostitute if u want new pussy
how hard was that !

Answer 7

She is either into the idea or not. There are not many women who are on the fence when it comes to swinging. Generally, there are two kinds of women, those would are willing to swing, and those who are not.

If she is not into it, there is little you are going to do to convince her.

Answer 8

If I were her, I wouldnt be your gf for long. If you dont want her or if you are bored, break up and move on.

Answer 9

Dump her, get some strange, then buy her flowers and say "Sorry." Any other way don't work, even if you convince them group sex is a good idea.

Answer 10

You are a loser.
I hope you catch an STD you sick puppy.
I pity your girlfriend.