2006-12-07 17:55:11 · 16 answers · asked by Yami 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Need more information... but follow your heart...
If your heart hurts allow it to heal...
2006-12-08 05:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by P!ss Ant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luggage-
Your suitcase is still full of junk and it wouldn't be fair to drag it into a new relationship. You would only be causing harm to the new relationship before it even had a chance to begin.
Glad to hear that you are aware that hurt still exist in your life. But don't make someone else pay for another man's damage. Take your time, and clean up your heart. Soak it in some hot water to get the stains out, and let it air dry before trying to let someone toil with your unhealed emotions.
If you're not ready, then you're not ready. I say don't invite anyone into your heart until life until you know that it's clear of the past. You don't want to mess around and end up having to carry around two luggage.
2006-12-07 18:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't move on unless you feel that your ready to do it!
It'll hurt more getting into a relationship with past pains coz it'll make you not give your best.
Do this, tell the guy your not ready and take time to heal, then later on in life you can move on, either with him or any other guy who will be available.
Don't rush your feelings
2006-12-07 18:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Leonardo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will never know till u try, but then again you need to know if you are ready, and the only way to do it is...by tryin!!, anyways look a broken-hurt heart never heals until you make amends with the person who broke it or at least try, im not saying to get back with that person who hurt you, but to forget about it and come to peace with yourself that you did everything you could and that it was not your fault, then also think how good is right now without putting up with that type of headches no more. look give it a shoot, you never know until you try...
2006-12-07 17:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by Darksied 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to either let your heart heal till you are ready to take the step of getting into a relationship or you can take it really really slow with this guy. You need to tell him what happend and see what he thinks tell him that you really like him but its really hard, but if hes willing to give you time or just take this really slow than it would mean a lot to you. This way hes not expecting you to just jump into this and know that hes going to have to take it slow and be gentle to your heart.
2006-12-07 17:58:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time, otherwise during the next argument you will throw it in his face. It's up to you when your over it....if he cant be patient and wait, then move on and don't look back!
2006-12-07 18:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by DREAMY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is too little information to go on. It depends on the reason for the hurt.
2006-12-07 17:58:21 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For those of you who are just telling her to go for it.
Lets say she's on the rebound, there for any form of compassion is going to seem like the GREATEST GUY EVER. She needs to wait, sort it out, and try when she's ready.
2006-12-07 18:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by unklwok 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i clearly dont understand why women are so emotional but i guess thats why were attracted to them cause there completely oppisite from us but i say you should get over it and move on and maybe this one will be a real man for you.
2006-12-07 17:57:56 · answer #9 · answered by michael h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow him to help you slowly...as friends..you will know when your ready to take the next step...life is short and there is only one thing to fear not living ....
2006-12-07 17:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by mennispennington 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋